Profile Pics follow on questions...  

Fantasy_4_Wife 45F
14 posts
4/15/2006 2:38 pm

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Profile Pics follow on questions...

We hope this does not come off as mean spirited, it is not meant that way. We were just sitting around pondering a few things.

What bugs you about profile pics?

Profile pics have been a constant source of annoyance to us. As previously stated, profiles with all close up pics are certainly annoying.

However, do you ever feel like your being scammed by the pics people put on their profiles?

What about couples who only put pics of the female half on their profile? That seriously bugs us. It makes us wonder why? Is the husband so horrible he can’t be seen?

How do you all feel about it? For us we are much more concerned about what he looks like then what she looks like. I mean seriously, when was the last time you saw a really sexy man married to an ugly woman? Hmmm..? Well, now that we think about it, never. However, we sure have seen many beautiful wives married to. well you get the point.

We are not even about beautiful people, we are average ourselves and that is what we seek. Nevertheless, we have seen allot of average wives married too less then average men.

Why is that? Seems to us once a couple gets married the women tend to take better care of themselves then the husbands do. Sometimes we wonder if the husbands even realize just what they look like. Why do allot of men expect their wives to look good without ensuring their taking care of themselves first. Double standard in our society? Sure seems that way to us.

I will bet if women started saying, “ Mmm Mmm no more of this until you lose that beer belly” there would be allot of men buying running shoes….lol.

Just us ranting a bit here, please do not just read and leave. Leave a comment let us know what you think even if you disagree.

oldude1946 70M

4/15/2006 3:28 pm

Your right, My pics most of the time are about two weeks old if not less. I try to stand off a ways to get the whole pic. I'm 60 years old so my body is what I made of it.

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Fantasy_4_Wife replies on 4/16/2006 5:22 am:
Thanks for the reply. There's a guy that goes to the same gym as us who has to be late 50's early 60's that has a great body for his age. Truthfully his body looks better then I'm only 34. Remeber your never to old to take care of yourself. Infact at 60 it's more important health wise then when your younger. Watching what you eat and exercising 3 times a week is a great start for someone just starting out. J.M.H.O.

rm_BigDnLady 43M/40F
1140 posts
4/15/2006 4:47 pm

We have a few different pics on our profile, yet we do have a couple that are closeups. I don't mind closeup pics if the profile is complete. If I find the person interesting in the profile, and the pic on the profile, then I send an email. We usually gain a rapport back and forth where other pics come along the way. I do hate the people who give the excuses of "cam broke" or "when my boyfriend left he took the cam" or how about "a virus destroyed all my pics on pc" I know it may have happened to a few people, but come on not 9 out of 10 people. I also agree with you about the couples only having a pic of the husband. We are both on our profile I just set D as our main photo.


bluegirl39 49F

4/15/2006 5:29 pm

haven't looked at many couples on here so I couldn't reflect on it. I wuld suggest seeing both on cam before agreeing to meet..I sure the heck will before every agreeing to meet a guy again lol...a person can change allot in a few years..learned that lesson regards to woman looking better then the man...Its x-husband was not even close to me in looks..but I didn't think I was pretty when I met him...he kinda looks like Ronald Mcdonald lol..I was much more into him then his looks so maybe that has something to do with it...

BloatJurorZippy 48M/45F

6/26/2006 11:31 am

we are going 2 as soon as we can. that way we are hoping to get more respones from u all

rm_86bronco2011 51M
3 posts
2/18/2007 11:26 am

So I find myself to be just as attracted to someone who is real and upfront about likes and dislikes and that they are comfortable about who they are and how they look. Their are plenty of good looking women, and men alike, that have no sense of who they are and do not like themselves for what they are. These people need to understand that it shows in how they carry themselves and on the outward appearance. I will admit though when you first meet someone we all judge them by how they dress or look before we look deeper into who they are. We tend to look for what is considered to be model quality or close to it. Personality is a major factor in this. Oh and to comment on the ones who are fake and just here, or elsewhere, just looking to build a picture collection, I feel certain photos should be saved for the ones that are willing to be with you and hang out.
Ok I think I have said enough. lol I am an open book and speak my mind often, but never to hurt another ones feelings.

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