Our Advice to Solo Males  

Fantasy_4_Wife 45F
14 posts
7/5/2006 7:23 pm

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Our Advice to Solo Males

We are completely perplexed by the majority of the solo males on here.

There are literally thousands of solo males on here for a couple to pick from when they so wish too.

But, there are a very limited number of couples willing to play with solo males.

It would seem to us, based on these number differences, that the advantage (for lack of a better word) would go to the couples.

So, it would seem to us that solo males would be willing to do whatever is necessary to keep the attraction/attention of a good couple.

Firstly, that they would give the courtesy of completely reading a couples profile and deciding honestly if they are what the couple is truly looking for, if they a close to the couples requirements.

Secondly, that they would show a little patience and not try to rush a situation if the couple stats their not interested in rushing into anything.

Thirdly, that they would brush up on their communications skills and send emails that actually have some substance to them, not just the typical 2-3 line messages.

Lastly, that they get some decent, recent pictures, g-rated head shots, and x-rated full-body shots (faceless is ok, and not just cock pics).

This is our advice to solo males, based off our experiences with them. Do with what you will.

rm_duster42670 48M/43F
1 post
4/2/2007 9:40 am

i agree with what you have said!fantasty wife 4

TEA42ormore 47M

4/13/2007 6:53 pm

I as was first introduced here, I was told more is better as less is rude. The basic male has to think without the other head and come back to reality. This has worked for me and completely agree with your dilemma of getting three word liners of "WTF".
I'm in the Tidewater area once a month and occasionally on business, so if you would like too play I'll get your profile and see if I connect with what your looking for.


Fantasy_4_Wife 45F

6/19/2007 8:32 pm

Thanks for the comments. Not really sure what you may be doing wrong, maybe nothing. It may be that one partner saw your ad and winked, then the other partner so it and your reply and just wasn't as interested. Also try sending an alternate email address in your reply, some prefer using another email system. Just be open, be yourself, and don't push to hard to fast. There's a ton of competition among single males for couples and females. There really has to be something that sets a male apart from the others. Some guys just never get a bite on here. Good luck.

rm_m_lookin4fun 55M

9/4/2007 3:51 pm

BRAVO!!!! well said, I've been on here a few years and everything you said is true. I started with no pic and responses were nil. After I added the current main pic they picked up drastically. I've never been rude or pushy and have had great success on here.

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