Stop Thief Poll  

Fallic40 53M
3214 posts
7/9/2006 8:50 am
Stop Thief Poll

So even if you didn't leave a comment to the above post, I would be grateful for your opinion in the form of a vote. What would you do?
Do I call my ex-wife out?
Do I call her current husband who loathes me with a passion?
Do I call my ex father-in-law and discuss with him?
Do I just figure the situation is none of my business and do nothing?
Do I just put money into their accounts to make up their losses?
Do I have my dad talk to my ex’s dad on this matter?
Do I put the onus on a 12 year old and 16 year old to fix the problem?

moonfire2u 69F
2602 posts
7/9/2006 3:52 pm

I am so sorry for you daughters...not only for the lost of funds but the betrayal that they must feel about their mother...the sad truth is the money is gone and I don't believe anything you do at this point will bring it back but may I suggest that you open up an account for them with your name and theirs on it...and put some money in it to get it restarted for them again...and from here on in you be the person in charge of their accounts...and I would call the ex and tell her why you did this...

kind thoughts,

_Safira 53F
11260 posts
7/9/2006 7:19 pm

I think what you've done is perfect. I'm here for all of you if you need me. (I need a trip out there anyway.) /

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redmartinigirl 43F

7/9/2006 11:11 pm

I think you open account for your girls' with you as the custodian and not give the ex access to it. Then let your girls decide where to put their money. You are the closest to the situation, but from what you have shared, you are probably right that no matter how you call the ex on her actions, it won't do one bit of good. And for that I am very sorry. I have a sister that could use a sting in rehab as well. Too bad mom will never ever see it that way and will continue to enable her. I hope you figure out what to do.

OboesHonedIambs 62F

7/10/2006 9:01 am

Don't put it on your girls, hon. They have enough to cope with and it's not their job to fix it.

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PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
7/11/2006 8:53 pm

Open accounts for them with you as custodian and rat her ass to the cops for bank and wire fraud... the bitch.

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