In praise of intelligent women  

Fallic40 53M
3214 posts
7/22/2005 9:55 am
In praise of intelligent women

Intelligent women are sexy.

And there are many more intelligent (I would even say brilliant) women on this sight than I had ever realized. There are women who are articulate, profound, sarcastic (in a good way),mannered, cultured and literate: and these ladies are also sexual, sensual and beautiful as well. Each one in their own way.

And I wonder why guys in their immediate area have not snapped them up already and are not worshipping at their feet.

Now I, like every guy, wants a woman who can give a great blow job, back rub, not spend all my money, etc. But I want a lot more than that.

It is fun to sit back after great sex and discuss Oscar Wilde (an earlier blog with several great comments), movies like Office Space and the Legend of 1900 (coming to a blog soon), Cliff Richard, etc. I don't think that there is a subject that I can post about and not get a learned response from several ladies out there.

Perhaps your friendly Village Idiot can find himself one of these great women right here in Portland. The effervescent txrose in Austin put together a questionaire for guys. Perhaps I need to put one together for prospective lady friends.


rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
7/22/2005 9:27 pm

Hey what happened to fishing?

Whay are they not snapped up?
Because no on knows they're there.
Perhaps if there were local blog opportunities.

Fallic40 53M
1858 posts
7/23/2005 8:41 am

My apologies to jay...

We have discussed fishing, cooking and the fact that my mum cannot cook at great length also.

Unfortunately, Oregon and Southern Washington have only a few bloggers at present. Zingbeauty, redmartinigirl and missy973 read my blog and make comments but really there is a very limited readership in this area right now. I get a lot of comment from the east coast and further afield.

CuriousKitty675 41F
365 posts
7/23/2005 11:51 am

I think it's one of the things that brings people in general to the web in search of companionship. The fact that it is hard to find the right person in our local communities. Maybe we aren't looking in the right places. Maybe we have it set too much in stone in our minds what it is we seek visually and thus miss it when it's right under our noses. Maybe it's because all the good ones are too shy to approach and it's only the jerks who are so loud and out there. Or maybe it's just a matter of having the right timing. Perhaps there are certain life lessons we are supposed to learn before we meet that right one.

redmartinigirl 43F

7/23/2005 1:27 pm

I think the OR and WA people that participate in this site hang out mostly in the chatroom. I know I did for several years. It wasn't until about a month or so ago that an AdultFriendFinder friend down in Eugene, OR told me about a friend of hers in ID that was blogging (and was very devilish at it!) that I started reading the blogs. I think the easto coast and those abroad have been at the blogs maybe longer than we have here!

I've gotta say that I really enjoy reading the blogs - gives me some hope that there are intelligent beings still here in A F F land and not just a bunch of sex crazed fakers! Thanks for blogging!

LIBlonde97 40F
1028 posts
7/27/2005 12:48 pm

There's nothing better in my current cyberactivites that compares to curling up in the AC on a muggy and uneventful Wednesday afternoon and seeing what everyone has to say on their blogs. To silently identify, commisserate, to post my thoughts, to try to help, learn or just satisfy my curiosities about what's going on in everyone else's life. It's more of a connection than just typing is "A/S/L?" in a chatroom. People put more of themselves in the posts they write... It's like being a "soul-voyeur".....

It's hard to get intelligent girls, because most of them have figured out that they don't need men to survive, but rather for companionship, love, and sex. As such, their standards are higher and they don't need to put themselves "out there" at the bars, clubs, supermarkets, laundromats, wherever... These girls don't give you their number on a little piece of paper, they beam a virtual business card to your Pocket PC or email you. They don't come home hoping to find a blinking light on the answering machine, they come home to see what the hottie online posted to their blog thread. They are attracted to real people with something to say, not bodybuilders with 10" dicks and "some college" checked off on the profile. I can say that because I am one of them.

It must be aggravating to be in Oregon with it's sparsely sexy climate- not like New York where I am (you literally can get anything and anybody you want here) but maybe you're local bent is too restrictive for the type of woman you want to meet... intelligent girls are not limiting themselves to the "guy next door" anymore.

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
7/28/2005 1:07 pm

Greece is not so far

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