Charleston here I come...  

Faith0713 32F
53 posts
5/28/2005 9:46 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Charleston here I come...

So I am officially here. All moved in. I like it so far. Everyone is just so nice.
I haven't had a chance to get out and unpack yet. But I am hoping to get a chance to do that this week.

Okay so here is my question... Why can I not find someone to date. I mean seriously, I don't think that I am bad looking, and hell I know I am good in bed. But this being single shit is starting to get old. I haven't had a relationship in so long, I have almost forgot what its like.
I mean I go out on dates, but it just never works out. Now granted, sometimes I tell them and sometime I don't. I know that it is a hard pill to swallow sometimes. But I was just wondering. I mean, granted yes I have sex with a lot of men, but its not the same. I want whomever I am with to understand that they would come first but, I am not quitting any time soon.

Its just frustrating. So I go back to work next week. Hell at least maybe I will have someone that can actually get me off. Its been awhile!

Have a great weekend... xoxo

rm_laidout68 36M/32F
3 posts
5/30/2005 2:41 pm

Well your going to have to find a man that is fine with im self and that can handle have his girl being with other men.

bigdaddywray 41M
1 post
5/30/2005 7:44 pm

hey faith,
ive told u, im fine with it, write to me or call me and we can talk. ive gone out with strippers and escorts before, so its no big thing to me, so long as i am #1.

442 posts
5/31/2005 9:26 am

i want a long pleasures ,you and me.

Choozmi 50M

5/31/2005 10:25 am

Finding someone to date is much harder than finding someone to have sex with.

What you do for a living will definitely be hard for many men to swallow, but everyone has "stuff" that their potential partners may not like.

Just remember that finding someone takes a long time and if you try to rush it you will probably end up with someone who makes you unhappy.

Faith0713 32F

5/31/2005 2:58 pm

This is true. Thanks.. I am used to being alone, but I just sometimes wish there was someone there.

rm_laidout68 36M/32F
3 posts
6/3/2005 7:41 pm

Damn,What a lucky guy.

(Juan S)
2642 posts
6/6/2005 9:49 am

Dating someone requires thee to be something SPECIAL shared betweeen the two of you.
Even in this day and age, Baby I can't come see you even though you're not feeling well and we haven't seen each other for a week, because i have to go to work, doesn't sit well in regular type jobs and the feeling of neglect and not being special is only compunded by the type of work you do. Don't get me wrong, I don't sit in judgement of what you do and don't have a problem with it. What I have a problem with is that there are a lot of women that simply do not understand what they do to a person that actually cares about them for real. At least you are honest about what you do. There are those that get indignant with the "I can do what I want" type attitude and hide things from who they are dating and that is a much worse situaton. Good luck, but be OVERLY understanding if there is a guy that you like and really STRESS how important they are to you. Male ego is a fragile animal, but reassurance always calms the savage beast.

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