Pics are real, was she?  

FP4You 45M
33 posts
12/19/2005 7:04 am

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5/26/2006 11:28 am

Pics are real, was she?


Ok, so I met someone through YIM, we had a good conversation going. She sent me some great pics of herself so I replied in kind. Her response to my pics was that she didn't think that it was really me. All of the photos I provided were taken within the last two months.

The jean photo you see on my profile IS the most recent picture I've taken. When she saw the others, she thought I took the jean photo from a magazine or something. (it's not that good) I have fairly broad shoulders and a thick neck, so I tend to look heavier than I am when you look at pics from the chest up. I am 5'10, 200lbs and fairly strong (but not body builder)

Long story short, she removed herself from my network and does not appear to want to engage in additional correspondence b/c in her eyes, I lied. If she doesn't want to talk, I'm fine with that. What bothers me is the way she went about it.

Someone saying they're not attracted to me, is not a big deal. Have the guts to say it. It's not like you've actually met me. I don't know you from Adam so you're only going to frustrate me.

I read an article that more than 75% of men and women say they are "above average in looks" At least 25% are wrong. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We each find different things attractive, but everyone has some beauty. Bad manners, being a bitch, and other personality flaws, make the most attractive people in the world, UGLY.

Ok, so if she didn't hurt my feelings, why am I writing this blog entry?

Well, I'm frustrated with the large number of fake women on this site. I don't know if she was fake or not, it sure seemed like it at the end. I'm on this site for one reason, one reason only, SEX. I'm frustrated that I haven't gotten any yet.

That's right folks, I'm looking for sex. The question is, Are You?

If you are looking for sex, NOT a man, within 1.5 hours of Chicago and you want it from me. YIM me, reply to this blog, email me or find some way to let me know.

The pics are real, I'm real, are you?

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
12/19/2005 8:59 am

dont let people worry you over your pics, I get asked if my pics are real and is it me. I have over a thousand photos and I tell them I can verify who I am, can they. People will say and do anything they can to hurt you or tear you down. She may have realized that you were inded real and was serious about meeting and knew that she wasnt so she left your network. I have people removing themselves from my network all the time, and I wonder why because it was them who wanted to be there in the first place.

good luck to you!

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


FP4You 45M

12/19/2005 4:06 pm

I agree and thanks for the thoughts. It is frustrating. I'm not overly worried about the pics or this particular woman. Mostly, I'm trying to discover what will motivate people I seek to explore our common xxx interest together.


PleasurePet30 46F

5/26/2006 9:08 am

LOL.....I get asked if those are really my eyes..... Why on earth would I put someone else's eyes on MY profile.....duh...


FP4You 45M

5/26/2006 11:28 am

I would love to see those eyes in person!


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