Attached Vs. Married  

FP4You 45M
33 posts
11/17/2005 9:19 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Attached Vs. Married


What is the real difference between being attached and married? And why does it matter?

Ok, I understand that people don't want an attached persons other half to show up bitchin' at the door. But how often does that really happen?

I don't hide that I'm attached. But I did run an expirement by changing my status to single and the number of women wanting sex only from me skyrocketed. It was pretty amazing. Once they read the blog or when I told them I live with somone, they suddenly changed their mind. Granted I did lie, but it was an experiment and the big question still remains.

With so many wanting non-emotional, no committment or discreet relationships that are ALL about sex and nothing more. Why does it really matter if you are single, attached or married? As long as the people having sex are honest about what they want, I don't see a problem.

I understand the single vs. attached thing, but I simply don't get the attached vs. married thing.

BoBoBlazinski 62M

11/17/2005 10:21 am

Good point FP4You. Everyone complains about being honest here and then when you are it's a problem. I read a blog where an 70 something year old man was chewed out for cheating on his wife who had Alzheimer’s and in a nursing home, she didn't even recognize him. He was still taking care of her but dating off this site and he was honest about it. I read his blog and he was crushed by this one womans comments. I like to look at it this way, "the moral majority is neither!.

Just tell it like it is and if people have a problem with that then they have a problem. Hopefully they will get over it. Life is to short. Remember people....judge not.

So, you may not get all the responses you want but you and the people who respond will be on the same playing field.


FP4You 45M

11/17/2005 2:55 pm

BoBo,

I'm not looking for any particular responses, just looking for opinion and insight. It doesn't matter if I agree or disagree. We all have our own thoughts, yours don't make mine and mine don't make yours.

Thanks for the input. I do hope I hear from women on this one.


BuxomFrau 44

12/4/2005 4:26 pm

Here's my personal stance: I will not meet a man who is attached/married. Simply because I find the situation to be morally wrong. I do not want to be part of another person's lie to the person they supposedly love. While that couple's committment to each has nothing to do with me, I do believe in karma. I would not want to be in your girlfriends/wife's situation. Attached and married I view the same way, simply because in both types of relationships, there is a promise of monogamy.


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