My fantasy  

FLUID11509 59F
28 posts
4/23/2006 8:20 pm

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6/8/2006 12:36 pm

My fantasy

I want anal sex before I leave this earth, but I don't want to scream out like a little kid the first time I do it. Does it hurt bad? Two men at the same time won't be bad either, but I don't want to back out at the last minute because I got cold feet. Help me out with this please.

chickie694u 41F
2 posts
4/23/2006 8:46 pm

I love anal! The first couple of times were a little tense, but with LOTS of lube and plenty of foreplay - it's awesome - and if I'm bent over with a dildo inside too - amazing orgasms!!!!!!!!! I highly recommend it! But start with your partner using LOTS of lube and slowly rimming your hole then tipping one finger in then sliding it in and out...eventually work up to two fingers and before you know it there's room for his cock! It feels sensational! good luck!

burningup66 50M

4/23/2006 8:47 pm

hey it is what it is, sex is hot so go for it .............

zwaardvis1977 39M
5 posts
4/23/2006 8:51 pm

Have asked some question to a Porn star long ago about anal sex, surf to this to read, it holds some info about anal sex.
The important thing you need to know is offcourse using lubricants, lots of it!

rm_boggie427 39M
1 post
4/23/2006 9:00 pm

Anal sex hurts a little the first time but it gets better and greater later.

rm_kneel_be4me 49M
457 posts
4/23/2006 9:07 pm

Obviously i cant speak from the womans point of view, but from what Ive seen is that it depends on the woman and the man... If you can relax and not tense up, and use lots of lube, it will help. Also you need a man that will be sensitive to you and take it slow and easy, giving you just a little at a time as you can relax and let him slide in. Some women start to love it after they get used to it (they say there are more pleasure receptors in there than in your pussy), some learn to tollerate it, and some never get to like it. It can be very pleasurable for a man, it is so tight, and hot, and feels so different, its great. Never having more than a girls finger in my ass I cant realy tell you about that side of it... so hopefully some of the ladies will help you out.

ahotcoup2006 40M/37F
23 posts
4/23/2006 9:52 pm

I prefer anal sex to all other forms of intercourse. Firstly it's the attraction of taboo, then physically I find the sensation very intense. Lubricant is the key, and when you're starting out the position is also quite important. I've found when I'm tense laying on my side to be most comfortable.

Anyway good luck and remember there's always time for lubricant.


4/23/2006 10:03 pm

That's about the size of it, it hurts a little the first time, granted you man gotta know how to work the booty, he really needs to be patient. None of that ramming shit. But it does feel really good once you get a dick in your ass, I love it.

LIBlonde97 40F
1028 posts
4/23/2006 10:06 pm

Chickie's got it right. And I'd only let someone you really trust be your first. A couple of glasses of wine doesnt hurt either. hehehe

As for two men at the same time... it's overrated, and requires too much coordination IMO to be truly that much fun... but to each her own!


imLadyBambi 58M/50F

4/23/2006 10:14 pm

I agree with chickie,

Use plenty of KY Warming Jelly and lots of foreplay and just have them insert it in slowly the first couple of times.

And then you will know how to relax and enjoy it.

Lady Bambi

It's GREAT!!!

monaughtygirl 46

4/23/2006 10:30 pm

I have come to love anal!!! However it does hurt unless u have a man who turely knows what he is doing. Time and patients and lots of lube will work wonders helping you to achieve great pleasure

cplwithnastywife 51M/42F

4/23/2006 10:31 pm

Anal can be more enjoyable at times then normal sex. Once you have it a couple of times and get use to it,then you will want more & more. You just need to make sure that the first time you let your partener now so that way he goes slow & easy. Lots of lube and its a good idea to start out having it banged and using a dildo to help get you stretched out some and use to the feeling. I love it. While having my pussy banged or ate,using a dildo or being ass banged at the same time makes me cum right away again and again. You will love it to.

barelylegal35 31F
1 post
4/23/2006 10:50 pm

just try by sticking a finger in urself now i love anal just check out my picturebarelylegal35

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
4/23/2006 11:34 pm

From my experience, it can be painful for the woman the first time out...if some precautions aren't carried out.

1. Use lots of lubricant...KY is still the best, though there are others just as good.

2. Start small...a finger, small vibe...hell, I started a submissive girl on anal sex with a rectal thermometer!! She worked her way up to bigger and better things.

3. Adding to that, try finding and using a small butt plug...get used to the sensation.

4. Relax! If it gets too uncomfortable, just stop.

Just some thoughts...nothing more...

mad07 43M

4/23/2006 11:46 pm

This is the female half here and; anal can be great if you dont rush things, let your man give you lots of foreplay and get you all wet, couple of glasses of wine, and lots of lubricant (one that is for sensitive skins). Doing it in the shower, standing up is a good place to start. One it is hot having sex in the shower and anal is even better. Its all about position. Good luck with it and hope you enjoy it!

wet_pussy4ever 43F
3059 posts
4/23/2006 11:53 pm

well, i haven't done it yet either bt wouldn't mind trying it wit d right guy who knows wat to do....

i've heard stories abt how it will hurt bt everyone's got to try everything at least once in this, u shld fine the right man who is experience enuf to do it wit u so tat it won't hurt.


spunkyangel44 52F

4/24/2006 12:03 am

I just posted a question yester day about how to ask for it.I have only tryed it twice,second time being called a freak.Was uncomfortable asking after that.The first time was with my husband and was great.The second time how ever was really bad.Even when he was going in all I could think was FREAK.No enjoyment at all.
But I agree if it's someone you trust, you will feel a whole lot better about it and relax enough to enjoy it.

buddyboy1994 65M

4/24/2006 12:13 am

I think anal is the most erotic and passionate thing a couple could acheive together. With the proper care and relaxation and plenty of lube its very awesome. I would start out with a single finger and then work up and its very sensual to be in hot passion.

rm_ohsolustful 58M
859 posts
4/24/2006 10:28 am

Interesting question...All I can say is it can be lots of fun. Just make sure he takes it easy, uses lots of foreplay, and lube. The times I have done it were very memorable to me. She seemed to love it too...Good luck, and welcome to the blogs..................

stogieman2005 67M
71 posts
4/24/2006 12:19 pm

gal, i use ky jell and that way there is no dry fucking, and i take it easy with anal because mine is so thick i wouldn't wanna tear you.

nc36m 53M
14 posts
4/25/2006 7:39 am

hi i have read your posts and profile and am VERY interested in meeting you.i live here in pensacola.message me and lets talk.

SirMounts 102M

4/27/2006 2:47 am

As with trying anything new sexually, it all depends on your own comfort level, and the skill of your lover.
Welcome to blogging, Fluid. *smiling*

dragonsden2000 34M

4/27/2006 8:05 am

I don't know if it hurts, but there must be someone out there who wants to slam it in your ass.

rm_ggodffur 53M
2 posts
5/18/2006 5:54 pm

I have been reading what some of you have been writing and I have my little way of "breaking a woman into anal." It's really very simple and actually I've been told very sensual. I first start off with purchashing a few items:

1) Anal Eaze : special lubricant w/ a desensitizing ingredient which alleviates the pain associated w/ initial and forthcoming penetration(s)
2) Hot Water Bottle w/ tube and insertion tool(s)
3) Lubricated Condoms (obvious reasons!!!)
4) K-Y Jelly or Vaseline

what I like start with is getting the woman to relax by taking a hot/warm shower together..soaping her entire body up and gently massaging the lather all over her. Then I would bend her over making sure she's comfortably positioned and apply the jelly in and around her anus (note to people, always cut and file your finger nails to prevent mishaps), then I would take the hot water bottle (filled w/ warm water) and Insert the tool and sqeeze small amounts of water into her until its starts coming back out of wants to do this several times to basically flush her out...otherwise anal sex can get very nasty and disgusting. But in going thru this process also get s her anus familar with reverse penetration. So, back to the lathring and remeber to was the K-Y jellie off from in and around her anus...Now is time for the main event. making sure she is relaxed take the tube of anal eaze and squeeze a generous amount onto her anus and w/ your finger spread the jell only on and into the anus. wash off your finger after because if you do it will become numb. The next step is inserting the penis. (make sure you have the condom on) i usual just place the head of my penis into her anus and let it gently slide in. the best way is to let her push onto it, once its in let it just sit in there for a few minutes to allow her to get used to it..then only after she's ok with it...slowly start moving in small movements...

I have done it this way with every women I have been with who hasn't tried anal sex.. I have never heard a complaint!

FLUID11509 replies on 6/8/2006 12:33 pm:
You seem very experienced at this. Would you consider using this technique on me?

rm_boobear32 44M
2 posts
6/8/2006 8:05 pm

Lube, more lube, the whole bottle. Once you have the ass good and wet, then the ass becums a water slide. Have you lover ease the head in and let you adjust to the pressure. Once you are comfortable with that you can have him slowly make small strokes. Communicate with each other, have him play with your clit and the next thing you are having one of the best orgasms of your life. About the two guy at once, with the right set of guys talking, touching, and caressing you yet through another great orgasm. When you have decided that this is what you want and you have the right people tending to those needs, the sky is the limit and satisfaction is yours to enjoy. Mental desire, the right man for the job, ideal settings and never wanting it to end. P.S. you can invest in an anal plug while your man fucks your pussy, that will help prepare you for sex with two guys or a cpl where the lady has a strap on. NO limitations when it cums to great sex. LOL T n A.

rm_ggodffur 53M
2 posts
6/16/2006 5:36 pm


Stump662 73M
1 post
6/28/2006 11:46 am

One thing that has not been discussed at length here is preparation, not just lubrication. One must 'clean' oneself out of whatever is back there before progressing on to anal play and/or penetration. There are a number of ways to clean one out, but probably the best, most efficient and most fun for both the cleaner and the cleanee -you - is a good old fashioned enema. One can go the Fleet's routine, a prepackaged kit available at any drug store, works pretty well. Or one can buy a kit at any drugstore, that has the advantage of being reusable for as long as you like. The kit can also be 'loaded' with warm liquid which can feel very nice going in and coming out. Fleet's can be done by yourself, but gets complicated putting in and so forth. I'd be happy to pick up one or the other and demonstrate to you how to do this. Drop me a line back at stump662 here on AdultFriendFinder and let me know your desires. Later, dudette.

indahouse1956 60M/57F
9 posts
9/18/2006 7:49 pm

Would like to help you with anal or 3-some. Already in my network. Let's hook-up.

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