scent of a stranger  

FILLY25 37F
105 posts
4/25/2006 9:41 am

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scent of a stranger

the passing glance while walking through a room,the scent of cologne as a man passes you . hot breath on the back of your neck,while standing in a crouded elevator.feeling a had sweep across your lower back as someone nudged past you..theses are all occurances that happen on a daily bases,but what if there were more to it ? what if it was just by chance?could theses suttle gestures mean more? could the person that always touches your shoulder when they say hello or always happens to gently swipe the dangling misplaced hair sweeping across yuor face behind your ear for you ,or when a friendly hug lengers a little longer than it should ,the same person who makes your heart pound every time they look in to your eyes ,possibly be sending you a message? how dose one know when theres more? how can you tell when some one is trying to tell you something? but you dismiss the idea & go on with your day .. how is one to know if one is to affraid to ask?


Fritz104 56M
282 posts
4/25/2006 2:20 pm

Does your heart beat faster? Does your breath come quicker? Reciprocate the gesture and see what the reaction is. Your heart will be your guide, but given your description I'd say yes, there is a message being sent.


FILLY25 37F

4/25/2006 4:52 pm

I WAS SPEAKING IN GENERAL THE ONE I WANT I CANT GET ATLEAST NOT YET


rockerboy66 50M

4/26/2006 9:28 am

i think....it does mean something. I dont like to touch people as a general rule but if I like someone or feel attracted, I do want to touch them just as a test I guess. If you touch them in a more or less innocent way and their reaction is good or at least not bad, then that is a signal that maybe they like you too.
We're all just a big bag of insecurities ya know.....even girls as pretty as you are have insecurities. I've had some pretty good looking girlfriends over the years, but still to this day, if I like someone and they are pretty, I dont feel confident and usually play this little game you are speaking of where you throw out little signals and hope they can de-code it. I dont really know the situation, but Maybe you should send some stronger signals if you are unsure about this guy......or not....who knows, lol. Im just a goofball looking for the side pocket


Fritz104 56M
282 posts
4/26/2006 2:10 pm

    Quoting FILLY25:
    I WAS SPEAKING IN GENERAL THE ONE I WANT I CANT GET ATLEAST NOT YET
I'm confident you'll get the one you want.....


SirMounts 102M

4/30/2006 2:33 am

Well, if one were to get past one's fears, then um... how would you phrase the question? *winking*


justanudaguy1 38M
1 post
5/12/2006 10:20 am

it is all in the smile or glance of that person... when I go to a club I always try to look the woman in the eyes, if she smiles back or doesn't turn away then I know that she could be one for me... but if she looks down and away I know that she is a coward and either doesn't think that much of one-self or is just really shy... but it is what you wrote that makes this " game " of love and chase so much fun and exciting, because if it wasn't would we all still go to the bars for the same reasons...???

RyRy


squezemetight 34M
103 posts
5/19/2006 2:15 am

if you are shy to ask, maybe ask a friend if they'll would ask for you. worse that can happen is they say no. i always ask forth right. i'd rather be shot down then to constantly wonder "what if". the more you torture yourself with the questions in your head, the more insecure you become and may never find out the answer.


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