misunderstanding of the heart  

FILLY25 37F
105 posts
5/16/2006 9:38 am

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3/28/2007 6:29 am

misunderstanding of the heart

what happens when theres a misunderstanding between you & the one you gave your heart to ?
the one you cant see yourself without?
when they take something the wrong way, or dont want to hear the whole story?
when they tell you they have to rethink things... when your heatr sinks into your chest, & you feel a heavy weight upon your chest.
waiting for the next breath of air that feels as if it will never come...your face growes hotter as your eyes swell with tears.. all you want to do is cry out ..tell them that you love them & would never hurt them .. but atlast they wont listen they dont hear your crys ... how is one to make things right ? how can one make them understand? did you just loose someone that ment the world to you due to one little misunderstanding? what now? what can be done to fix things with someone who refuses to listen?
do you keep trying ? do yu lick your wounds & cower ? or do you swallow your pride & pain & bow out gracefully?


longhardy2 42M

5/16/2006 11:02 am

U r pretty, would like to have you as my wife.


Fritz104 56M
282 posts
5/16/2006 3:11 pm

What an idiot comment to her post................Christ...


rockerboy66 50M

5/16/2006 6:02 pm

Agreed there...sometimes i think they should issue one of those yellow "for dummy's" books with every membership....


FILLY25 37F

5/17/2006 6:09 am

lol well i have to say it wasnt the smartest thing to put to that blog lol


rm_plzltme 66M

5/18/2006 10:23 am

Sorry for the hurt and pain you are suffering, Hope the best for you and it will all work out the way YOU want. Will miss your comments.


squezemetight 34M
103 posts
5/19/2006 2:07 am

woe is thee such a beautifl maiden,
heart so tragically laiden.
all one can do for mourning,
is lay awake to watch the sun rise in the morning.
swallow your pride.
let friends provide
a warm comfort of desire.
for your heart will rekindle flames of fire.


BiChickswanted 49M/40F

5/21/2006 9:01 pm

If a Little thing is enough to put someone out of sort's,Then they did not truly want to be a there to began with.If something big realy happend then what would they do!I think he wanted a reson to Leave!!So very sorry,Your a Lovely,Sexy,Smart Lady and you will find the right one!Willy & Amanda XOXOXXX ! We have beeen together 13 year's and we have had our share of sort's!!!


cruznjimm 58M

5/22/2006 6:57 pm

As always, bow our gracfully. In then end and most likey, things will never change. By trying to keep somthing that refuses to understand lowers ones quality of life. The rebound is longer and un-necessary. Be strong Filly and live to prance another day.


rm_sxywes2 34M
1 post
5/24/2006 2:22 am

damn you fine


medicblin 48M

5/28/2006 7:32 pm

I don't know where to start... I have been in that relationship. Actually I'm just coming out of it. Pain of this kind doesn't fade with time, I think it is slowly forgotten but can be brought back in an instant. After six years I can't tell you who went wrong where or who lost who. I just know we both lost one another and something beautiful. I don't think it can be fixed, tho I wish it could. All I know to do is cherish the good memories and move on with my life hoping to make something new somewhere. I'll be ok and you will too. Be good, take care. Steve


rm_horney633 53M

6/2/2006 5:48 am

I think try to make him understand. It may take some time. If you love him that much just tell him. Everyone is different. Personally if I just gave up I would always wonder about my decision. If the time comes then bow out gracefully. Life is cruel. Love hurts. Remember you have friends who will listen if you need them.


rm_hillbillyJ06 40M
1 post
6/4/2006 2:47 am

unfortunately no matter how bad we want someone to do, or not do something, it is ultimately up to them. we have to be able to accept the fact that we all make our own decisions, sometimes without rationalizing or considering the consequences the past is gone we cant dwell on what might have been. we can only try to learn from our mistakes.


MrTickleStick4u 41M

7/10/2006 11:24 pm

Filly, I feel your pain, been there and slowly recovered from it...If its just a little thing like you described and he wont listen to you at all, then he was probably trying to end it anyways and he's using this as an excuse. If so thats a cowardly move and your better off without him. I can see from the anguish in your thumbnail pic that its going to be hard. I wish I could give you a hug and tell u everything will be ok...It really will, but its gonna suck for awhile...Im here for you if u wanna chat about it.......just breathe.....steve out..


flyingdragon56 40M
2 posts
10/8/2006 12:13 am

Filly, babe, once agani it's like you were talking about me on this one! and i still feel for ya, but i learned that like mr tickle said it was a cowardly move for the person to act this way, but they were looking for a way out. same thing happened to me she let something small split us up, and then i found out later that she want out " i was to daring" for her, but she didn't have the guts to say anything. i'd say that if you need to talk e-mail me, but i'm sure you have got that offer from every guy on here! lol give it time sweets, it will all work out for the best.


rm_mattysmojo 35M
1 post
11/6/2006 8:51 pm

    Quoting flyingdragon56:
    Filly, babe, once agani it's like you were talking about me on this one! and i still feel for ya, but i learned that like mr tickle said it was a cowardly move for the person to act this way, but they were looking for a way out. same thing happened to me she let something small split us up, and then i found out later that she want out " i was to daring" for her, but she didn't have the guts to say anything. i'd say that if you need to talk e-mail me, but i'm sure you have got that offer from every guy on here! lol give it time sweets, it will all work out for the best.
I THINK IF YOU WERE MATURE ENOUGH TO TRY AND FIX THINGS, AND HE DIDN'T WANT TO STAY AND WORK IT OUT, HIS LOSS. YOU NEED TO MOVE ON TO SOMEONE WHO WILL APPRECIATE THE WAY YOU HANDLE YOURSELF. I'VE BEEN THROUGH THE SAME THING AND REALLY THE ONLY THING I CAN SAY ABOUT YOUR EX, IS THAT HE JUST WANTED OUT. YOU GAVE HIM A REASON (EVEN IF IT WAS A SMALL REASON) TO SHUT DOWN EMOTIONALLY AND HE TOOK IT AND RAN WITH IT. HE JUST REALLY WANTED OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP IT WOULD SEEM. BUT, DON'T WORRY. YOUR PRETTY AND EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE. SO, DON'T LET IT GET YOU DOWN. YOUR TOO COOL FOR THAT. BE APPRECIATED, YOU DESERVE IT. MUCH LOVE.
MATTYSMOJO
SPRINGFIELD, MO.


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