A gift you cannot refuse!!!  

ExpatAdventurer 56M
17 posts
5/6/2005 12:27 am

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A gift you cannot refuse!!!

Another blog raised the question of the satisfaction of one night stands, so I thought Id tell of one of my experiences.

Quite a few years back a girl I really fancied (and unfortunately never hooked up with sexually) turned up on my doorstep with a great gift.

On her arm was another girl from the same squash club who I'd seen around but didn't know. My friend simply said she wanted to introduce us, and with that she turned on her heel and left.

Fortunately for me, I was alone at the time and I invited her in. Within a couple of minutes we were up in my bedroom having a great time. Despite the lack of any build up or foreplay, the sex was great. We both knew what we liked, and had no trouble talking about it.

Up to that point the experience was great. However, having spent two or three hours fooling around, I finally came (I'm not selfish, she'd come quite a few times). As usual I just wanted to roll over and fall asleep.

She then said that she needed to go home because she needed to take her contacts out. I was happy to lend her some saline solution and somewhere to store her lenses, but sensed this was as much an excuse as anything else. So I drove her home, and we said our goodbyes without any comment about the future.

She never called, and I thought that maybe it had been less good for her than it had for me. However, as I had really enjoyed myself, I thought who am I to complain. I remember thinking that now I knew what women felt like when guys "fuck and run".

Then a month or so later she turned up again on my doorstep, this time alone. The sex was great again, but still no real conversation. This was a shame as she was quite cute.

Over the next year we hooked up quite a few times. Usually at my place, but sometimes at hers. I even managed to stay the night at her place once.

My friend later explained that a relationship was out of the question. She was Jewish and knew she'd marry within the faith. I was simply a good screw who being outside of her community kept her activities discrete.

The one thing I could never figure out was why she didn't tell me the story herself.

Any ideas?

I think this highlights the difficulty of meeting people through sites like this. We all have our own situations and it can be difficult to explain fully to a stranger.

I hope you like the photo. The one on the left reminds me of the girl I never got, and the pair of them reminds me of the threesome I thought might have been in store when the two girls turned up on my doorstep.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/6/2005 4:05 am

I used to do the same thing but for other reasons, my life was too complicated to have a relationship, the 2 I had tried to have before got pushed out and intimidated by everything going on,(hence the regular one night stands were the standard before I met him) Boney was another matter, not sure how that happened, I guess from the time I met him I just knew my life had taken a new path and so made time for him and somehow mananged to bring him into my hectic confusing life.....


ExpatAdventurer 56M

5/6/2005 3:04 pm

A response to WyvernRose

Had a look at your blog. Keep up the good work.

Having a ONS in London where I lived at the time or HK now is not so bad because of the anonymity of the place. But coming from a rural area as I did it changes things. i'd hate to still live there and have everyone knowing about at least 50% of your sex life.

In the Northern territories it must be pretty similar?

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