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Why am I a magnet for trouble? I dont go out looking for it, but it always seems to find me. Case in point. Over a year ago I had a small affair when my wife and I were still together. Nothing overly serious, I never slept with the girl (despite the rumors and whatever she told people), we just hung out a lot together on our lunch breaks and would kiss like a couple of teenagers in lust. It all started out as what I thought was a simple friendship though over the course of time things progressed. Later it became painfully obvious this girl was really just using me as a way of making her husband jealous so that he would take an interest in her again. A very ugly situation of which I was led to believe in the begining that he was her ex-husband, and later after the first confrontation with the guy that there was a divorce pending. Either way, they were no longer living together. Well, turned out it was all a sham and once I backed off, she turned around and found some other fool to take my place in her game (reason why i hate head games). I mean seriously, just be honest from the start so I know what I'm getting myself into.
This is not the only occurance of things like this happening, but it is the best example.