Lost inocence  

Eviloutlaw1 55M
200 posts
1/11/2006 6:52 pm

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7/18/2006 5:03 pm

Lost inocence

Try as I might, I can't figure out why my ex wife
is such an idiot. Tonights prime example, she called my daughter yesterday to let her know that she'd be here after school today so my daughter could go and get her laundry done. (I do my washing on thursdays, and have repeatedly told my daughter that she could do hers at the same time, but sixteen year old girls don't hang with their dads for any reason, let alone wash their unmentionables with them)::Back to my rant:: True to her nature the ex never showed, called after six to let our daughter know that she didn't have time for her, New husbands birthday, and they were going out to have fun. Meanwhile back at the ranch..one crying daughter, and one totally irate ex husband, namely me. It's not like I haven't gone through this before now with my daughter's two older brothers. Different themes to be sure but all the same results. The kid(s) finally learn what a idiot their mother really is, and that hurts them more then when she walked away from them the first time.I guess it's part of their growing up, but it's one part their dad wishes he could have taken for them. No child should have to lose faith in a parent, nor should they play second fiddle to a new husband,wife,boyfriend, or girlfriend. If you can't be there for your kids and you know about it before hand, don't lie and say: "I'll be there after school" Don't break the heart that loves you without restriction, in the end your only hurting yourself. Maybe someday my ex will learn, but by then I fear it will be too late to rebuild those bridges she's burning now.

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
1/11/2006 7:43 pm

All you can do is to be there for the kids while letting the kids make up their own minds about their mother. Good luck

eriedragon4 57M
1076 posts
2/5/2006 11:32 am

Sorry to hear that
We also know what a flake Janet was to begin with


Fishy31858/Dragons wife

eriedragon4 57M
1076 posts
2/5/2006 11:54 am

For your daughter and you....

You can cry yourself to sleep tonight, little child
But it won't heal the wounds by morning
I can tell you a fairy tail tonight, little child
But you can never fully escape reality
You can hide under your covers tonight, little child
But the dark will still surround you
I can kiss away your tears tonight, little child
But that won't stop them from falling
You can shut your eyes against the demons tonight, little child
But they will still continue to haunt you
I can hold you tight in my arms tonight, little child
But it won't make the pain inside you go away
You can scream away the terrors in your head tonight, little child
But they'll still be watching you from darkness
I can sing you a sweet song tonight, little child
But will you be able to hear my soothing voice?
You can hug your teddy bear to yourself tonight, little child
But he can't protect you from your fears
I can tell you not to worry tonight, little child
But uncertainty waits for you in the morning

your bro, Dragon


BdaySuit58 58F
20 posts
2/5/2006 9:05 pm

I'm sure you arent so keen on doing ur undies in front of ur child

As for her mom time will tell

Find urself a good woman and she may be closer then her own mother is to her

It just takes time

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