So, what is a freak anyway?  

EroticallyRapt 55M
286 posts
5/26/2005 7:30 pm

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So, what is a freak anyway?

A post by [blog sexyfitwoman] about the word "kinky" made me think of something that happened to me a few years ago.

I had a conversation with a gal that I was dating a while back that has made me wonder about the term "freak". We were talking about our experiences dating and the topic led to my explanation of what I've done with my computer when it comes to meeting people online and cybersex. This was before I discovered this site. I explained to her that I used to visit chat rooms alot and talk to the ladies that I met there. I had met a few of them in real life and told her so. Well, that's when I learned something about her. Her reply to what I had told her was this - "You're a freak." She didn't say it in such a way that I thought it was an insult or anything. But, she obviously was uncomfortable with the idea of talking to "strangers" about sex.

So, I ask you all this. What does the word "freak" mean to you when it is used in a sexual context? Is it a way of saying someone is a pervert, kinky, or is it just the word that the kids are using these days for sexy/hot? ER

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
5/27/2005 10:45 am

mmmmm,i suppose if i really think about it,any one who likes the really hardcore stuff,shit and stuff,to me thats freaky,but to others not so,who knows ,we all have are own thoughts i suppose

I'm a

i'm here to stay

tnsweetness93 43F

5/27/2005 12:09 pm

To me when I call someone a freak it means they were wanting to do something like place a wine bottel up in you. Or something so wild it is mind blowing that a person would think something like that up.

And yes u do have a nice butt.

EroticallyRapt 55M
336 posts
5/29/2005 1:51 am

Hmmm...maybe she was right.... ER

__Huntress__ 55M/57F

5/29/2005 7:55 pm

I'm a freak ... and I don't think it has anything to do with being a pervert ... or perverted ... I think it's someone who is completely uninhibited ... open ... someone who explores beyond the "norm" ... remember the song by Rick James, "Superfreak" ... ? There's also another song out there today by the Pusscat Dolls with the words, "don't wish you're girlfriend was a freak like me, don't you wish you're girlfriend was raw ... ? " ... Huntress

EroticallyRapt 55M
336 posts
5/29/2005 10:26 pm

Thank you [blog Huntress7878] for clueing me into the way that it's being used nowadays. I guess it's just a way of saying that you're someone that we used to call "sexually liberated". And yeah, I do remember "Superfreak". I'm not much of a dancer. But, that one's got a good beat for it...."she's super freaky yow!" ER

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