Fantasy or Real Sex?  

EroticallyRapt 55M
286 posts
6/13/2005 12:45 am

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Fantasy or Real Sex?

I've neen a member here for a while now and I'm beginning to wonder about something. It seems to me that people have many reasons for being members of this site. My reason for joining was to fulfill my fantasies. I don't mind talking about them or creating new ones. But, the ultimate goal of all of this is to meet people in real life and enjoy each other in the flesh. But, I seem to be running into a lot of people that are only interested in talking about it. Now, I'm not talking about the ones that are 1000's of miles away from me. That, I understand (although, if I were wealthy, I'd be flying all over the place, lately ). What I mean is the people who are local. You make contact and exchange a message or two and then "poof". They simply stop communicating with you. Is it the pressure of actually meeting that makes them mute? Do they get cold feet? Don't get me wrong. I really don't mind exchanging messages about fantasies or just making friends.

So, I ask you all. What do you think? Are most people here just here because they like the idea of being sexually open and the freedom that being perceived that way makes them feel about themselves? Or, do they really want to meet others in real life and truly experience the fantasies that make them erotically rapt? (hey, how'd I fit my handle in there?)

EroticallyRapt 55M
336 posts
6/13/2005 2:48 pm

That's one of the things I like about you, SensuallyKatey. Of course, that wet spot is #1!



6/13/2005 5:48 pm

Well I guess being 2478km aways that makes me still safe to go ahead and flirt, and seeings how we are not rich ,just sexy and frustrated ,we are
like two peas in a long distance pod.

Huggs and ...

EroticallyRapt 55M
336 posts
6/13/2005 11:04 pm

BLONDENEEDSSEX, you can flirt with me all you want! I hope we don't get too frustrated by it, though...

[blog hbgirl2], stocking the fridge with lots of veggies for you...

Thanks for the kind comments, ladies. I know that it's true. I guess that I was feeling a little frustrated about the flurry of activity I've just experienced here and then the sudden poof, of so many of them. I know what you mean about getting second thoughts, [blog hbgirl2]. I prefer to meet in a public place at first and then go from there. One time, right from there Unfortunately, the pic that I posted is not me. I have to be honest about that. I've never been with 2 women, yet? It's just that I'm running out of pics to use in my blog. Any volunteers?

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
6/17/2005 9:13 am

I've said it before...i'll say it again...i wish you didn't live so far away...otherwise i'd take you up on that offer...always looking to add to my growing collection of pics...



EroticallyRapt 55M
336 posts
6/18/2005 3:46 am

Hmmm, I know 1playfulgal. Who knows, I do like to travel and you're not that far away...


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