Ecaffine 52F
50 posts
4/24/2005 12:03 pm

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So i met this guy i`ve been talking to for about a week.He`s cute and smart and sexy and i thought we had a pretty good time the 9 hours we spent why did i not get a Good morning e-mail this morning like the rest of the week ????MEN !!!

SexySquirterGirl 50F
102 posts
4/24/2005 1:45 pm

Because the chase is over... They are all alike~men... Once they get what they want, all the attention just vanishes in thin air... That has got to be the most annoying part!!!!! It makes you want to put off meeting face to face, because it is the attention that makes us feel so good... Hopefully you will get your email tomorrow morning, maybe he was too wiped out to send one today!!! SG

DeepLove8 58M/54F
111 posts
4/25/2005 5:19 pm

Please remember what I taught my daughter..."Remember, All Men Are Stupid!". They find what they think they want and then one miniscule thing may turn them off. The cold feet syndome. Personally I believe a beautiful woman requires even greater attention to detail and searching out their wants and desires. Getting beyond the superficial appearences and finding the deep passions within. Only then can it mature into a truly mind blowing fullfilment for all involved. The fun and intimacy grows with time. One night stands are useless. I deserve better, and search for that beautiful mature woman who deserves better as well....and can see with Better Eyes the passion within. Is that you?
I live in hope....kisses....Matt

WaldoJeepMan 47M

4/26/2005 10:09 pm

Maybe you are just hanging around with the wrong men? I've been chasing you for a month, with no success! =)

Ecaffine 52F

4/27/2005 7:07 pm

Waldo....maybe you are right.Other then an invitation to the network i didn`t get any e-mail from you.......and that was about a month ago

curious640632 55M

5/15/2005 3:31 pm

What did you expect? Ask them POINT BLANK, BEFORE going all the way, what will come of this afterwards. And ask him, "Be honest!"

You'll get your you already found out.

And only waiting a week, isn't long enough.

Ecaffine 52F

5/16/2005 5:19 am

curious640632..there was no going all the way...and to be honest i didnt expect anything at all,i dont have any expectations when i meet someone for the first time.But when it takes them 4 weeks to figure out if i was what they were looking for then they can kiss my ass...there is more fish in the sea !!

daighi 49M
1449 posts
6/19/2005 3:32 am

I hate that too when it happens to me.I feel like...well you HAD me,NOW you loose interest!!YES,Women do this to men too...what a surprise!!

Now,i know that this makes me sound like..."well he must be crap in bed",but i can assure you that is far from the truth(Check out my testimonials if you don't believe

But i always make the effort to email or txt,or call the following day
especially after the first time of intimacy.It reassures my partner/lover that i had a great time,& puts them at ease in case they are thinking.."Did we go too far last night?"

I feel that..

1. It shows manners to the person.

2. It reassures them.

3. I like to tell them of how good they make me feel,& that i enjoyed their company as well as the great sex.

4.It also tells them that i'm very much interested in seeing them again.

5. It's important for continuity of the bond made,& the friendship that ensues.

What do you think?


"Always remember...keep smiling!"



daighi 49M
1449 posts
6/19/2005 3:39 am

SexySquriterGirl, I have to disagree with your statement that ALL men are alike.Why do you Generalise like that???

You MAY have had a bad experience with a man or men before,& i'm sorry to hear that,but please DON'T put us ALL in that category.There are still some guys out here that consider themselves to be "the good ones",even IF we SEEM to be in the minority!

I'm sure that one day ytou will find the true gent of your dreams,that treats you right,& proper as you deserve to be treated.Until then,please go easy on us mere mortals!

D. X

"Always remember...keep smiling!"



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