any straight guys facing same dilema?  

Dukethecurious 46M/46F
15 posts
2/15/2006 6:07 am

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any straight guys facing same dilema?

I want to give her that gift. any thoughts?

redmustang91 57M  
8571 posts
2/15/2006 6:44 am

What is the dilemma? Just ask another guy to help pleasure your woman. You don't have to touch the guy, and if you do accidentally that is not a big deal. So get the party started.

wantonwill 60M

2/15/2006 9:10 am

Dayum Duke....Cant get to Canada right now....sorry I cant be of assistance! I know you just gotta have a "wingman" up there who could help you out, sorry it cant be me!

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
2/15/2006 10:06 am

Duke, does your wife want an MFM (you guys concentrate on her), or an MMF (you have sexual contact with the other man). They are two very different animals, you know.

LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
2/15/2006 11:18 am

married couple here ...... and mfm is our "thing"

can only speeak for us ... we are all different ... but, i sure do understand her desires, having had them all by life.

Any playtimes must be "ok" for both of you fact, more than ok, .. desirable.

Our blog is very mfm oriented ... lots about subject in the mfm section and under us as a couple, etc etc ... either or both of you take a peak if you wish ... say hi if u like it or have more questions.
Chk out the comment discussions also ..lots of tips and impressions from others there also .

LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
2/15/2006 11:23 am

will add ... if you BOTH are or can get into it ... it can be HUGE assett to you as a couple .. it makes for major closeness for us fmf used to be when we tried it way back ..... if both cant, then it may be a liability.

we did find mfm many times more powerfull than fmf .... we explain why on our blog

Could be "good problem" (as red says above) to have depending on you and how you feel about it

Satyr48 67M
1773 posts
2/15/2006 12:13 pm

I'm with MindFucker on this one... Make sure it's what you BOTH want... I've had "willing" couples where the husband totally lost it when he saw his wife with my dick down her throat, and one who actually threatened to call the police and charge me with his wife when she had this great orgasm and started screaming... apparently she had never had a "screamer" with him... Male Ego!

If you (husband) aren't ready to watch your wife get off on someone else's dick, either don't agree to it, or let her go off by herself so you don't have to watch. Just don't beat her up when she gets back all happy.

Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
You could be next...

whiterussianluvr 48M/40F

2/19/2006 9:31 pm

i love seeing that smile on my wife`s face the day after we`ve had some "company".when she`s walking around all happy saying her tummy hurts in a good unfortunate that so many guys are so insecure about the whole idea.i feel sorry for them.i also feel sorry for alot of the women i`ve encountered in the "lifestyle",seems like there is way too much emphasis put on female interaction.we`ve tried both ways,but seem to find the mfm thing alot more intensely previously mentioned,communication is definately the key.everyone has gotta be on the same page or look out

hazeleyesinhere 39M

2/28/2006 1:27 pm

I think you need to completely trust one another, and the other person involved. If it becomes sex on a deeply emotional level, then the problems stated above can happen. If its sex for the fun and enjoyment of should have a good time.

Dukethecurious 46M/46F
2 posts
3/6/2006 8:43 am

she wants two guys paying attention to her but most of all to see two straight guys do that to her and then play with each other.

RockPebble 69M
2476 posts
3/6/2006 12:05 pm

I don't know about the play with each other part but I'd be happy to help you do her. Where in Ontario are you? Is it anywhere close to Toronto? I'll be visiting in a month or two.

Dukethecurious 46M/46F
2 posts
3/6/2006 2:51 pm

you know what, that's it. i am not sure about the touching thing either. i know that is where she wants it to go, that is the dilema

RockPebble 69M
2476 posts
3/7/2006 7:46 am

If you want to meet for coffee or a beer, maybe we could get comfortable enough to try it. Maybe not...
Good luck.

rm_str8mmf 45M/49F

3/9/2006 4:14 pm

Never thought of the difference between mmf and mfm lol. Pretty sure both of us only want mfm according to that definition.

temptedtosuck 46M

4/4/2007 12:09 pm

A lot of people forget about that arrangement being different
You have to be comfortable in the decision in doing it, you could enjoy it but don't cross any boundary that you don't want to cross. You should ask her as in if it is you playing with his or the other guy playing with yours. There is a difference there too.

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