what makes a person hate?  

DraventheDomme 52F
43 posts
3/30/2006 12:45 pm
what makes a person hate?


Now, I am not speaking of times when the cause and effect are clear.
I had a little encounter that rather disturbed me.
I am a very open, tolerant and even sunny person,most of the time. My childhood had its horrors,worse than some,better than others. My adulthood,the same. I am even manic-depressive.Still, I am a pretty decent soul and can get along well if required with others.
But....this individual ,I guess, had just been turned down by a woman(my guess)and was sour, bitter and combative. Poor thing acted about 12,too.He just attacked me in a chat room.I am a bit puzzled,really.
Why would a person pull a mindless, unsatisfying stunt like that?
My dad would have said he had a burr under his saddle,lol. Well, kids,just remember, even if they claim to be a master, it aint always so.True dominants neednt prove themselves,nor disprove others.Have you encountered this type of mindless attack here? Let me know.

bigknob1958 52M

3/31/2006 10:16 am

I PERSONALLY HAVEN'T ENCOUNTERED SUCH AN ATTACK HERE BUT I WOULD POINT YOU IN THE DIRECTION OF LADYWITHATTI2D[S] BLOG THAT IS SCATHING ABOUT SUCH MINDLESS IDIOTS WHO SEEM TO GET THEIR ROCKS OFF BY INFLICTING HURT UPON OTHERS IN A MALICIOUS WAY.AS I POSTED IN HER BLOG 'THEY ARE WANKERS OF THE HIGHEST ORDER'AND YOU SHOULD NOT PAY ANY ATTENTION TO THEM. XXX


rm_JLrulzdat 54M

3/31/2006 11:01 am

Often people hate because they are angry or afraid or don't understand.

It happens to us all sometimes, we meet someone and just don;t like them. We usually figure its some bad karmic field they have or something. We do not realize that often, since we are all pretty similar, they have some characteristic that reminds us of someone or something we don;lt like.

It takes a great deal of maturity and love and compassion and understanding to overcome these feelings from inside that we don't understand.

And lot's of folks ain;t got it yet.

I have been trying a useful trick, I'm sure we have all used, transference.

When I feel anger or hate or fear of someone for some unknown reason then I try and find something good in them. And focus on their good trait - we all have them.

Unless they are just really bad karma folks then it helps Me loose the feelings of anger etc. - I don;t enjoy them. They are negative.

When people attack like that they want to share their negative feelings to release them - well I ain't no negative feeling collector so I change it up.

Drives em crazy or makes them feel good - either way we all win.

Don;t let em bring u down.

Later

J


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