When.. Where..  

DoveOK 56F
393 posts
8/10/2006 12:38 pm

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8/15/2006 1:44 pm

When.. Where..

Ok so you've met Mr/Miz Wonderful online.. you are both attached and have to be very discreet.. You then have to decide when and where to meet.. Who's responsibility is it to find the place.. and if need be pay for it? Who brings the condoms?

Huggs... Cris

2daycowboywanted 45F

8/10/2006 12:51 pm

Decide when to meet - that is completely up to the two people who are interested in each other. My personal opinion - meet in a very public place the first time. That way if things dont work out so well, then nothing lost and it isnt akward to leave. If you meet in private and things dont work out so well - one might think they did and the other one might be stuck.
Whose responsible for finding a place. That depends - since it is a joint venture - why not both and I suggest both parties paying for it. That way there is no I did then you didnt thing. Who brings condoms. Personally I always do - you never know he might say he "forgot" or couldnt find any - and I would rather be safe than really sorry later on.

Wish you the best!

Until later

42 posts
8/10/2006 2:16 pm

having had a little success on this site, i will share my plan with you. i always try to meet in a public place and i will have already made arrangements at a local hotel. i always pick up the tab because i always initiate the encounter. i feel if you want to meet, i will be most accommodating. if the sparks fly and we end up back in the room thats great, if we don't i will assure you we will be good friends....it works for me...joe

rm_Brocknok 59M
2 posts
8/11/2006 7:28 pm

i think you are wonderful and i will pay for everything give me your number and spend the weekend with me

DoveOK 56F

8/11/2006 8:25 pm

Well now darlin that's a lovely offer.. but I don't know you yet.. how bout we get to know each other a bit..

Huggs.. Cris

blue1982transam 37M

8/11/2006 10:21 pm

I'm sure its kind of tough to get away for an entire weekend as she is married! Anyway - to answer your question - generally I think it depends on what kind of meeting you want (ie. wilderness spot, motel room, office, etc.) but should definately be decided between the two of you. All have their advantages & disadvantages

As for paying - usually I would let him put up the coin, but that too is open for discussion as you both are in it for the same thing - to have a good time and wild fun and should share in it equally!

There really are no right or wrong answers - it all comes down to how comfortable you two are together and what kind of things you have in mind. I suggest if you meet Mr/Miz Wonderful, just ask the same ?'s and you will have the exact answer you need.

As for condoms - always have some to be on the safe side!


toysinthewoods 61M

8/15/2006 9:09 am

I'm still into the chivalry thing. At least the first couple of meetings, the guy picks up the tab.

BOTH should be prepared to practice safe sex. Share in the cost of the condoms! LOL

DoveOK 56F

8/15/2006 10:33 am

if you open doors.. call me ma'am and lite my cigarettes.. ur goin on my "What I want for Channukah" wish list too.. lol

Huggs.. Cris

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