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In all aspects of life.. there are deal breakers.. when chatting with a prospective lover either by email, IM or over the phone, we discuss the do's and don'ts of what each of us will submit to if we do indeed meet.
What are your "deal breakers"?
What will cause you to run screaming?
What makes you eager to make the connection?
I truely don't like to get into the "what do you like?" questions because I do love to discover. I don't care much for dick pics unless I have known someone for awhile. I like to unwrap my surprises. I would rather see someone's eyes and smile.. hear their voice..
Deal breakers for me...
You gotta wear a raincoat... period!
NO ANAL!! period... PERIOD!
No pain.. well.. that's debatable..
You call me cunt.. you better be laughing and have a great deal of distance between us..
any way.. just a few.. how bout you?
8/14/2006 2:30 pm
don't fall in love with me.|
be smart about discretion
be clean and respectful.
if you do not like to recieve oral don't contact me.
want to have sex more than once per meeting.
8/15/2006 9:17 am
Constant emails asking "when do we meet again???" |
"fourty seven rules"....too demanding-some are fine, and most expected, but when you hear a laundry list it takes all the sponteneity out of the meeting
8/19/2006 1:53 pm
MArried - do not be married - don't want the drama or the Christmases alone - can do that without any shit thank you.|
Sends me screaming - a man that just does not understand that buying me dinner in no way entitles him to sex, especially after he's spent the evening name dropping, boasting about the house that he's had to sell cause wife number two clearly thought he was an asshole (how come it took her 20 years and I saw it in a couple of hours ?!) and whined cause there was no where to park his second car - FFS how many can you drive at any one time anyway ? Oh and the BO didn't really help that much either !
Eagerness to make a connection - laughter. Make me laugh and have a decent photo and that's a great start.
Agree with you about the C word - don't use it near me PERIOD. I find it offensive and unnecessary, even when used in context.