A new game.  

Dominant_Traits 49M
109 posts
7/29/2005 1:01 pm

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A new game.

"Cheryl" was a fabulous lady in every sense of the words. She confided in me one afternoon that she was worried about her animal lust taking control of her life. I knew better from a few of the chats we'd had prior to this one.

Cheryl, like many women I've met, suffered far less from animal lust than she did a deeply ingrained belief that men only like women who satisfy them; in particular, sexually. On top of that, her desire to please others was running rampant to the extent that she had frequently gotten herself in deep with men who wanted to hold her down and own her spirit, while they themselves milked her for every bit of satisfaction they could get for themselves.

It wasn't long before I had what I thought might be a simple solution to show her what I saw so clearly here. An hour later, we met at a hotel. Her with her sexy lingerie, various toys, and a bottle of Emotion Lotion. Me, with my brain, body, and some Orajel toothache remedy.

She started stripping down to her skivvies the minute we entered the room. I stopped her, and told her I wanted to test a theory. She was surprised, but also showed great curiosity. The curiosity turned me on more than the lingerie.

"What would you say if I told you I had a way we could separate your need to cum from your need to make somebody *else* cum", I asked her, smiling, "And by doing so, divine what is more motivational to you in daily life".

The look in her eyes was illuminating, and she agreed to give the experiment a try without any further discussion.

I blindfolded her and tied her to the bed with soft cotton rope, leaving the ends loose enough that she was fully capable of escaping if she had that desire. Indeed, the bonds were more suggestive than actual.

Next, I went down on her, starting at her neck and slowly working my way down to her knees and calves, then back up to her wetness. I started slowly, and then increased the sensations, and the various nerve centers involved until she came several times. Eventually, she came so hard she pulled both ankles free as her hips came a full foot off the mattress.

I stopped what I was doing, and untied her hands, raising her into a seated position leaning back against a pillow to talk. Once she had recovered enough to be able to hold a conversation, I asked her, "If you had to rate your satisfaction, right now, without any further contact between us, what number from one to ten would you use"?

She thought deeply for a minute, and answered, "That was absolutely perfect, but somehow, I'd only give it about a 6".

I tied her back down to the bed, replaced her blindfold, and went back down to her pussy. This time, I coated my tongue liberally with the Orajel, and pressed it inside her. I continued to lap at her until her entire pussy was numb. My tongue was numb as well, and I was hard as a rock, so I climbed onto her and penetrated her balls-deep, quickly.

I knew if I let it go too long, my cock would go numb too, so I rushed myself to an intense albeit quick orgasm. Meanwhile, she felt virtually nothing from my cock. She was close to an orgasm nonetheless when I came, and knowing this, I pulled out before she could get hers, pulled off my condom, and squirted my load all over her as I pulled her blindfold off and let her watch.

Afterward, I untied her and sat her against the pillow again, repeating my question. This time, however, she rated her satisfaction at a solid 10, and admitted she couldn't understand how it was better for her, even though she didn't cum even once from the penetration.

Over the next several interludes between us, We tried out several more variations to test different aspects. Invariably, her greatest satisfaction was found to coincide with *my* most intense orgasms. We further tested these points by me withholding some of my pleasure from her, and sometimes accentuating it beyond what was truly there.

It didn't take us long to figure out that her satisfaction was completely tied into my pleasure, and my willingness to reveal it to her in the heat of the moment.

Since that day, she has worked through a lot of the world's expectations, and we have shared many more intense times, as well as some softer, slower, more relaxed ones.

I'm curious to know how many women in this world are still being held back by the expectations society and men in general put on them. I see it every day in strangers, but I'll never know from a stranger just how deeply it might run.

Anyone willing to share their own experiences here is encouraged to comment. I look forward to hearing your replies. XOXOXOXOX in advance. *smile* Ok, so the XOXOXOXOX's were as much for me as they were for anyone else! *lol*


rm_Lilith4711 40F
24 posts
7/29/2005 6:28 pm

For me, I think both my own satisfaction and that of my partner are equally important. If just one occurs, I always feel like something's missing, even if I have the most mind-blowing orgasm ever. I've even had difficulty convincing people that their pleasure feels just as good to me as my own.

Barbiebunny69 43F

7/29/2005 7:48 pm

Im about equal. Then again im a switch.. giggle

Barbiebunny69 43F

7/31/2005 6:02 pm

im not ever in bed with one of those types. I kick those out of bed. lifes too short

rm_Lilith4711 40F
24 posts
7/31/2005 7:27 pm

The more excited my partner seems to be, the more excited I get. It's not the act of pleasuring someone that turns me on so much, it's seeing them get turned on.

sportsfan362436 47F

8/1/2005 12:07 am

Well.... up until recently, my only concern was how much the man I was with was enjoying himself. However... recently I have discovered just how amazing I can feel as well. So, I would have to say that it depends on my partner. But regardless..... the teasing is more fun than anything else...
*kisses n hugz n smiles*

rm_2SmartNSexy 42F
4 posts
8/3/2005 7:39 pm

I can relate to "Cheryl". I believe in fact that I have yet to share the BIG "O" with someone, because I get more pleasure out of giving pleasure! I love what I do and I do it well!!! Any feedback?

rm_2SmartNSexy 42F
4 posts
8/4/2005 3:29 pm

Thank you Randy! I am glad that I have INSPIRED you! I am eager to open the discussion forum.

Soo as to stay on track for this BLOG . . . I enjoy giving pleasure more than receiving! In my experience . . . I do NOT know ANY man that can honestly say the same. I am not sayig that they don't enjoy giving but they would much rather GET! Note to the readed: In my experience means from what I have seen and I am sure there are exceptions so please don't jump all over the generalization.

As difficult as it may have been for Cheryl (I fight with this myself) by giving up complete control, I don't know that the key was holding back pleasure from her. Maybe it was you dominanting the situation!

rm_2SmartNSexy 42F
4 posts
8/4/2005 3:35 pm

Then again maybe it was the holding back and then giving it ALL!!!) If you think about it . . . she suceeded and got what she wanted (you to get off as much as herself)!

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