A little about me.  

Dominant_Traits 49M
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7/9/2005 5:21 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

A little about me.

Well, in a few hours I have had 46 visitors to my blog, and yet not one single question or response. I am a thinker, analytical and logical to the core, so I thought about it. Maybe people don't want to say anything because I really didn't say anything; at least, not really anything about me. Ok, here it is.

I'm a 37 y/o man from Sacramento, California. In my profile, I mention being happily married and unwilling to change that. My wife is my collared submissive. We live together in a d/s lifestyle relationship. She is beautiful, sexy, and wonderful in every way.

I don't fault her for it, but she is physically incapable of satisfying me entirely. Typically, it takes me between one and four hours of actual hunka-chunka, AFTER the foreplay, to have a single orgasm. Not for her lack of skill or trying, mind you, it's just that I enjoy sex so much that it MUST last like that, each and every time. For her, I generally try to keep the penetration down closer to the one-hour range.

In previous relationships, I have found that few women can handle my sexual needs. I say few because I have personally never found one, and only believe they're out there because I read and hear so many women claiming to be insatiable.

Does my wife know I have an ad here? Yes. Does she feel bad about it? No. Do I rub it in, or belittle her with it? HELL NO! I love her too much, even if I WAS that kind of man, which I'm not. We have an understanding, and the understanding is that I'm satisfying my body here... I come home to satisfy my heart and soul. This is how it is, and how it will remain.

I like to have sex a minimum of twice a day, and up to six times a day when there's enough time. I am very careful, taking more than anyone else's precautions that I've ever met. If anyone of the two of us bites the bullet for me being the way I am, it'll be me, not her.

Much of my sexual pleasure in the months before I found HotMatch.com was her stroking me until I came. Which wouldn't be a bad thing once in a while, but several times a day just doesn't cut it.

I love to see my partner having as much fun as I'm having. I love to see her scream. I get off on making her cum so many times that when we're finished SHE is the one who just rolls over and passes out; from exhaustion!

No doubt, this posting will bring some of you opinionated, intelligent folks forward to add your comments. All are welcome to post here, so long as no personal attacks are committed with the post. If you have to complain or vent, leave the names and "hints" about who it is you're ragging on at the door before you start typing. Aside from reiterating that small rule, I'll keep an open mind, even to those who want to argue that I'm "doing it wrong". So let's hear it, and get this party started!

Barbiebunny69 43F

7/10/2005 9:51 pm

welcome to blogville and please for my little bunny eyes can u use a space bar to break up your posts..theyre harder strain on everyones eyes.. thanks B

Barbiebunny69 43F

7/13/2005 2:44 pm

Much thanks **grin** now i can read easier what u have to say

Barbiebunny69 43F

7/14/2005 12:38 pm

In the moment, it has a way of unfurling delightfully all on its own if u shall let it......But that would have to make u lie the controlling dom side wane so enough light may enter...can u do that?

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