all about the timing  

DoYaWanna618 42F
3 posts
6/11/2005 2:39 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

all about the timing

I guess I should say that I haven't found the right moment to talk to hubby yet. Hell between the kids wanting to stay up late and them running in and out of the house all day, we haven't had much 'alone' time. Plus I'm still trying to build the nerve and figure out how to bring up the subject of fantasy and what he wants.
Timing is the key. Cause we all knwo that the wrong timing can ruin a good thing. Prime example ..... no matter how you try if someone farts at the wrong time... the moment is gone!!!!
Hopfeully within the next few hours, I can put my plan into action....

Puurple_Passions 46M/39F
140 posts
6/11/2005 3:33 pm

I can relate. I felt the same way. I was the one that brought up swinging to my hubby and he was very accepting of it. I brought it up in a playful way at first...Atter having terrific sex one night we started talking playfully about fantsies. The conversation was very light and intimate. The next week we had a "Date Night" away from the kids. Went somewhere that would spark romance, so we'd both be "in the mood" to talk about it. Then I told him that I had found this great site and wanted to show it to him. I showed him the AdultFriendFinder site and then told him that I "couldn't believe how many other people had the same fantasies and desires as he and I had... and wasn't that interesting?!" Then I just asked him what he would think about exploring something like this... but also mentioned that I'd be fine if he said no so he didn't feel pressured. That was over a year ago. Now we're totally into the swing lifestyle, have met some GREAT new friends, had a whole lotta fun and even the quality our own private sex life has gone up by leaps and bounds. Best of luck in your quest! If your hubby has been to this site before that means he's at least been thinking about it and might be relieved that you brought it up first. He might be nervous to approach you with the subject too, afraid about how you might react. Once he finds out how curious you are to explre as well I'll bet he'll jump right up on that bandwagon!
~passions~ (The F of the C)

rm_califborn51 65M
6 posts
6/11/2005 4:30 pm

men have the same fanasties and nothing can ruin the right moment or it wouldn't be the right moment

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