OK I can't stand it anymore!!!! Tired of being Mr. Niceguy  

Djeeper1987 47M
3388 posts
5/13/2006 6:14 pm

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5/18/2006 5:02 pm

OK I can't stand it anymore!!!! Tired of being Mr. Niceguy

I have had it up to here....
I can't stand it anymore. Trying to be nice to everyone and hope to find someone. Done all the dating sites, and nada.
Gone out and if I see a nice looking woman I would approach and say something funny to break the ice in the hopes of getting a date at least. nada
I am a good looking guy, with a heart of gold. I have a lot of things to offer. Lots of love to give to a woman who would love me back.
I do whatever I can to hopefully meet that one woman who will be there for me and vis versa. I am not a terrible man.
I am a human being with needs just like you ladies do.
I am lonely.
I am sexless.
I don't ask for much.
A date would be a wonderful way to start something pretty special. If it doesn't work out at least a friendship.
I am not going to lie to you. REJECTION SUCKS!!!
I want to scream.
I want to yell.
I want to voice my grief.
Some women can be gruel....
Just because women have the power over sex doesn't give you the right to hurt a man's heart.
I am not a player.
I am not a user.
I am not an abuser.
I am not someone who will take advantage of your sex.
All I ask for in a woman....
Is friendship, love, and respect!! I get those and boy oh boy I will treat you like a QUEEN.
I will love you for your imperfections
I will think your perfect
I will love your ambitions
I will love your drive for life
I will fuck you like a porn star
I will love you for your creativity
I will tend to you when your sick
I will stroke your hair
I will be honest to you
I will be trustworthy and faithful to you
I will love your friends
I will bring you flowers just because
I will challenge you
I will introduce you to new things
I will not put up with your shit
and you will not put up with mine
I will not run over you as you will not to me
I will make love to you at the right time
I will make you smile
I will make you giggle
I will open the door for you
I will pull the chair out for you
I will hold your coat out for you to put on
I will tell you that your pretty when you are not
I will hold you when you cry
I will laugh when you laugh
I will leave you love notes
I will give you my coat when you are cold
I can go on and on
I am a man full of surprises and passion for life with the right woman. But when a man such as myself who hasn't been loved by a woman in so long. It can hurt, and I mean HURT.
No I will not be bitter about it.
I will not spit and growl about it.
I will not hit the wall
I will not do anything stupid.
I will continue to live my life according to me. And only ME!!!
I love photography and art. Those are the things that bring take out my frustrations and grief.
However I will not give up.
I will keep looking for her
I will keep my hopes alive
I will dream of her
I will wish for the day to come where I can smile and finally sigh at the relief of love that has come to me this day!!
I can babble on about this all night long.
I sit here from a long day of driving, working out, doing my Blogging, and chatting with my friends.
Tomorrow is another day after all.....In my search.

Carpe Diem

sexyariesgirl 57F

5/13/2006 8:14 pm

Oh sweetie...I am SO sorry you are hurting this way. You seem to be such a wonderful, sexy man. There IS a woman out there for you, and I hope you find her soon. The waiting sucks...I KNOW it does. Wish I could take the hurt away darlin.

Power To FOK

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/13/2006 8:37 pm:
Once again thanks hun, that is pretty cool of you to want to take the hurt away from him. If you ever in the area look me up lol just kidding!

mangomamiCT 41F

5/13/2006 10:16 pm


Djeeper1987 replies on 5/14/2006 1:52 am:

clitalicious67 49F

5/14/2006 12:38 am

Wow...that was intense to say the least. Sorry you are hurting sweet man...you know if I was there I would give you a big hug...you deserve to be happy.

Hugs and Kisses


Djeeper1987 replies on 5/14/2006 1:52 am:
I know hun, thanks

cuteNEway 41F

5/14/2006 4:36 am

Sweetie I'm so sorry!! I feel the exact same way! The problem is that there are SOOO many assholes out there looking for a convenient hole that use, abuse then refuse us that we've become cynical and afraid to trust any man.

I hope you find Ms. Perfect.

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/14/2006 10:15 am:
Yeah I hope so too

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
5/14/2006 10:57 pm

Djeeper...I have recently found your blog, but from what I've read so far you seem to be a pretty cool guy. Sorry for how things are going lately. Just give it some time, who knows what might happen. You could always act like a jerk, that might get some women interested. Why not? There are lots of guys that act like they are good and end up doing a woman wrong.

Nah, I don't think you should do that. You wouldn't want to be with someone that was interested in you b/c they thought you were a jerk. Good luck!

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/15/2006 9:22 pm:
Thanks, please come back again, its nice to see what others have to say. Wish you luck as well!


5/15/2006 4:39 am

I laughed loudly at the capitalized parts.

Not with any air of ridicule but because I related to them so closely.


Djeeper1987 replies on 5/15/2006 9:21 pm:
Yeah I think it goes both ways with men and women. Its good to get a laugh at something you can relate too.

mysticmonty 41F

5/15/2006 7:41 pm

I agree with cuteNEway and pretty_blue_eyes in what they have to say there.

I suppose some people just seem to know where to find their other half? And, get very lucky at that too.
I can relate to and understand what you were saying in your post. In fact, since visiting your blog, I've come to enjoy it - keep writing!
And, hopefully, someday, one day...you'll share with us your new found soulmate.

Good luck to the both of us, in our own little search! LOL

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/15/2006 9:20 pm:
Thanks Hun, and I too enjoy your blogs as well. Just had to let it out and release some of the stress.

blondietickler 43F
295 posts
5/18/2006 2:22 pm

from what i have read on your blogs, you seem like a wonderful man. there will be a perfect woman for you out there who will do all those things for you that you want to do for her. i wish i could take your pain and help you to find ease in the situation. hugs from me to you.

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/18/2006 5:04 pm:
Thanks hun, I know my ship will finally make port one of these days.

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