I had a great day, but she just had to ruin it for me....  

Djeeper1987 47M
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5/27/2006 11:25 pm

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5/29/2006 10:53 am

I had a great day, but she just had to ruin it for me....

Only problem was getting up way to early in the morning at 4am. Which is usually when I get up anyway.
However, I went down to the local coffee shop and grab a Saturday paper with the usual Bush Bullshit. I love doing that, just sitting there reading and sipping my favorite Venti Peppermint Mocha and watching everyone around me from time to time.
So I did that and then walked back home to my apt.
Now of this is Memorial Day Weekend, there are tons of war movies on. If my Dad was alive today he and I would be watching them all morning till the late evening.
Unfortunately he is out and about in the next life.
So around 10am finally I got a shower and dressed.
Went to the post office then to the local watering hole for a couple of Bass Ales and socialize with the guys and this cute ass beer tender with an ass that could kill. Nice smile too!!! She and I had a few laugh and her number by the way. I was stunned, but very happy. My ego needed a much major boost.
Anyhow, I called a old friend, she is actually an ex-gf but we get along just fine and still like hanging out from time to time.
So I called her today to check out my new car and see if she wanted to get lunch.
We hanged out and she talked mostly about your current problems with her current bf. Of course, I didn't really want to hear it, but being the good friend I think I am. I just shut up and knotted.
After a couple of hours, she had to go home. Then I headed to my favorite usual Friday hang out and to see this other gorgeous beer tender who loves to tease me and smile.
While I am there of course drinking up a cold Bass Ale most of the other regulars show up and mingled. The usual pleasantries and the such.
Now, I am having a fantastic day. I am feeling relaxed, and high on life.
This one woman who's name is Nancy and no she is of no relations to AdultFriendFinder. She is a real nice woman who has 3 great kids, and a husband who's name is Asshole-Bastard.
If you are wondering, the D word is in the air with them.
Anyway, we all are talking about whatever we usually talk about at the bar while we are drinking and laughing. Now, Nancy once again brings up that she wants to set me up on a blind date. She has been doing this for the last several years with the same person. I keep telling her great, when do you wanna do this? Then after a while she forgets, and I move on. Tonight was different. I know I'm babbling and I shall get to the point of this post.
At this moment I am feeling great about myself, loving the fact I have my AdultFriendFinder friends here, feeling good about the weekend, dreaming of lust and the future gf who ever she may be. This Nancy whom just out of the blue said,"Now I wonder why you don't have gf and why has it been so long. You realized you will never get a barbie of a doll gf with no brains and you will just grow old and be alone."
I was like WHAT THE FUCK?
She just ruined my day. Ok, maybe not the day, but that moment. So I told her off because
I was pretty pissed off, and she pretty much replied, "Now now was that really necessary, who cares of I ever get a barbie of a doll gf with no brains. I will have you know I am meeting women with brains and humor. More than I can say for you at this moment."
Of course after a while I felt bad about what I said, and I am sure most of you will think that was rude of me. But come on, I wanted to rim her a new asshole for saying that to me.
Ok, I admit its been a long time since I have had sex or date for that matter. I will tell you this, regardless of what others think here or in my world, I will find her and I will be the luckiest man of the face of this earth.
When that day comes no matter what she looks like or the kind of person she is (I do have restriction) I will bring her to this Nancy and have the last laugh.
She may of ruin that moment or my day, but I will not give up.

Carpe Diem

clitalicious67 49F

5/27/2006 11:51 pm

Sweetie I don't think it was rude for you to say what you did...she was outta line and I wouldn't worry about it...The fact that you are not just fucking everything that comes into site speaks highly of you and who you are as a person...



Djeeper1987 replies on 5/28/2006 11:42 am:
Thanks hun, I appreciate that.

BaronessK 52F

5/28/2006 5:55 am

Carpe Diem, darlin'; at least the parts that are good! *L*

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/28/2006 11:43 am:
I have always loved that saying Carpe Diem. Which I knew more old latin.

cuteNEway 41F

5/28/2006 5:57 am

that was completely uncalled for...althought the reason she gives is the reason most men are single.

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/28/2006 11:44 am:
I am single for my own choosing, just till then when I do find that one special woman. Cheers!

waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

5/28/2006 10:21 am

Don't feel bad for saying what you said. What she said was completely un called for, but she was probably just drunk. Have a lovely Memorial Day sweetie

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/28/2006 11:46 am:
I am not feeling bad, just hate it when others say shit like that whether its the booze or not. You too, have a terrific weekend!

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

5/28/2006 11:13 am

[COLOR blue]Djeeper,

That's the attitude to have and NEVER give up!!!

Lady Bambi

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/28/2006 11:46 am:
Thanks Bambi.

Knot4Everyone 40F

5/28/2006 6:57 pm

Either I haven't been checking your blog often enough, or you just put up a ton of posts in a hurry! Either way, I'm here now.

I don't think Nancy was trying to hurt you, but I do see your point. I am without bf and have been for some time. People are always trying to fix me up - I guess they feel sorry for me. Here's the thing (I think this applies to you, too): if I wanted a bf then I could find one without much effort, but I don't want just any old bf. I'll go out now and then with various people, but the title of bf is reserved for a special someone - someone who makes butterflies appear in my stomach and always puts a smile on my face.

I could go on, but I don't want to take over your blog. I think it all comes down to people with significant others feeling sorry for us without, and they want to help us so that we can be as happy (or miserable) as them. Good intentions...

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/28/2006 8:17 pm:
You can take over my blog anytime. I like the way you think. Keep it coming hun.

NSAAddict 42F

5/29/2006 10:13 am

Don't let her get to you, well meaning or not it was uncalled for and you were in the right to put her in her place! Keep the good of the day and forget the bad

Djeeper1987 replies on 5/29/2006 10:53 am:
Thanks NSA, like the new AdultFriendFinder name btw.

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