What Is The Most Important Factor...  

Divinitydesires 46F
4872 posts
1/23/2006 10:13 pm

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What Is The Most Important Factor...

That you look for in the opposite sex?

What excites and arouses you when you catch first glimpse of it?

Is it all about the body for you?

Or their intellect?

How about their sharp sense of humor?

Or sense of loyalty?

Is there something else?

Or is it everything?

What is it that attracts and keeps your attention on that person?

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
1/23/2006 10:55 pm

eyes initially, body language next, hot sex next conversation which keeps me guessing last. All of these must be ongoing.

TTigerAtty 62M

1/23/2006 11:06 pm

I think it's the total package for me. A gorgeous, sexy body might keep me around for a few days, but not much longer if we couldn't connect intellectually. The highest IQ might create lively and thoughtful conversation at Starbucks, but if there is no physical attraction, we would likely not make it to the bedroom. It's hard to say there is any certain formula; wouldn't you agree?

pASSionwantd2 49M
1316 posts
1/23/2006 11:29 pm

I like the ''I bet you wish you could do me eye's'',LOL.. that is alway's Hot and the quick turn around stair,you wish you could hit this ass,"Dont-Cha",Look.Those factor's play a big part in my life...Oh yeah,sense of humor and laugh are Key!

Georgie007777 67M
419 posts
1/24/2006 12:33 am

Hi All,

For me - 3 clues to find out about the lady's true essence - their very soul.

1. Their EYES - I try and get clues from their eyes which is the window to their soul.

The eyes tell me about honesty, openness, cute "flirty-ness" and who they really are. I see past the make-up to find out about their inner-ness.

Then, with all the information I can get from their eyes - it is:

2. Their MOUTH next - does it look kissable, soft, luscious and warm.

Then it is:

3. Their LEGS - how are they shaped, whether they have sleek stockings, how are they slanted... Wondering what pleasure may be had at their tops...

By this time; if all three sets of clues are in sync - my Cock, Squire William, will be standing to attention, very proud, and I hope the lady might notice his wiggling under my trousers. I may even deliberately 'twitch' him to attract visual attention if the lady appears interested....

Then I look forwards to possibly unwrapping the lady's clothes from her and melting into her being...............

Sir Georgie, melting into Divinitydesires' Eyes


fantasylover_05 62M

1/24/2006 5:30 am

Hey Divinity

I don't think I have hidden it here.... no question the first impression across the room is that of a lovely sexy body... meaning... nice legs... nice ass (I do so love a nice ass LO... a great SMILE... beautiful eyes... and yes yes yes nice boobs.... those will "catch my eye" first.... but then there needs to be MORE than that for it to be more than simple "hello how are you"... there then needs to be a PERSONALITY... sense of humor... quick wit... intelligent conversation... a sexy ATTITUDE!! If I don't find those things my interest will wane VERY quickly! Not just interested in a body... the pleasures of the flesh can only last so long.......

I LOVE A SEXY WOMAN WITH A SEXY ATTITUDE!!! I want someone that will tease me and that I can tease back... I want a woman that is full of life and living it to the fullest! A woman that can be sophisticated in public and a sex crazied nympho in private! LOL LOL

A sense of humor is HUGE!! Love a good imagination (to match my own lol)!

PERSONALITY AND ATTITUDE pretty much sums it up!

rm_emerald6912 48M
545 posts
1/24/2006 6:00 am

Physically - Hips, Lips and Eyes.
Emotionally - Confident, secure, an adult.
Inteligence - Lots and lots, need to communicate on all levels.

What keeps the attraction ?, work and lots of luck.

rm_clitoral_man 51M
605 posts
1/24/2006 6:50 am

At first glimpse, definitely the eyes, then closely followed by the way she moves and presents herself (body language)...I am attracted to a woman who exudes sensuality. No doubt that a woman's body is a major factor in attraction as well, but regardless of body types, I think a woman reveals her sensuality through her eyes and body language. After the "first glimpse" phase, it is her sense of humor, intellect and overall personality that will keep me interested and coming back for more...especially if she is a tantalizing flirt!

(Princess Lips)

1/24/2006 7:55 am

what catches my eye, and what keeps me there are different things...

catches my eye-
a fine torso
great eyes
sexy grin
nice lips

keeps it there-
fun and funny


rm_Ptalk1155 34M
3450 posts
1/24/2006 8:55 am

Pretty much everything.

RockPebble 69M
2476 posts
1/24/2006 9:19 am

It's like an aura, the whole package just glows. Once we start talking there better be a sense of humor and whit if not inteligence. No 2 women are the same and no 2 men are attracted to exactly the same things about a woman.

elysianpleasure 47M

1/24/2006 10:17 pm

I need the full package... looks, brains, soul, and of course sensual and wanting to try new things with me. It all works together to take ok sex and make it great sex.

handsomesmartshy 41M
2 posts
1/25/2006 7:34 pm

Femininity... A female to the full extent. That will get my attention. The look, the manners, the speech, the tone, everything that has a touch of femininity. Next, the mind. "... that men and women are complementary to each other, they are not comparable against one another..." Last, affection. Then, let the good times rollllllllllllllll!

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/26/2006 7:10 am

The most important quality that I look for is personality. I would be lying if I didn't say that the body is second. However, I couldn't date a girl w/ a great body that had no personality!

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