My Eyes...  

Divinitydesires 46F
4872 posts
3/1/2006 8:57 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

My Eyes...


Can they really tell a story?

Are they the gate way to a person's soul?

Can you see what lies behind my eyes?

I can tell you that looking into a lover's eyes whilst he is inside me is a major turn on. I didn't believe people until I did it once... keep my eyes open and watch him, it's so worth it. The lust and desire that lies behind his eyes makes me even more hungry...

Mmmmmm.... I better stop, I'm getting that old familiar feeling again and I might have to whip out purple for some pleasure after the kids go to bed.

Many of you have seen the full picture of my eyes and you know what I'm doing. When I first joined AdultFriendFinder I didn't want to put a picture up (the silhouette girl is a hottie) and over time, I came up with this idea. I would like to replace the picture, because of what I'm doing in it, it just seems awkward, but I will only replace it with an eye picture.

Why only eyes?

Well, I've learned a lot about myself while being here. I'm actually into voyeurism. I'm way too shy to be an exhibitionist, so I watch. I was always a people watcher before, watching behaviors and studying the way people respond to different situations. I was learning about them... and myself.

So my eyes are very well suited for this place. No I'm not studying you, merely interacting. Enjoying myself as I go...

But I'm curious (yes babe, I'm thinking of you) why do you show the world your picture?

rm_lucytart 50F
590 posts
3/2/2006 1:08 am

As you can see, I'm a big chicken. No eyes, no picture at all. I haven't liked any of the ones I take myself, and I can't get him to take any of me - that's outside his comfort zone - too much fear about where they migth end up...

But I agree, you CAN read a lot through the eyes. But maybe not as much in a picture - you need the live eyes, the dancing way they look when he smiles.

And I'm personally fond of touch. Skin to skin - you learn a lot that way. Is he soft, strong, weak or pushy? Does he go right to what he wants or does he take time, lingering on my skin, touching me in many ways...

Eyes and hands. My favorites.

libgemOH 56M/52F

3/2/2006 4:41 am

I put my pics up mostly because I have some really good ones!! Kind of a long story made shorter here, but I had a former lover and his lesbian daughter take some "boudoir" shots of me, sexy and erotic but not naughty. And I gotta tell you, I got SO HOT during that photo shoot, I almost did em both! (too many kids around, but Ms. B sure thought about it!!!)

I've discovered, unlike you, that I AM an exhibitionist as well as a voyeur, probably because I'm an "attention whore!" This site is feeding those fetishes well!! So I put the shots, change em around when it suits me and LOVE the reactions I get!!! The naughty ones are saved for our private album!

On your sub question...eyes and smile...I can tell so much about a person by their eyes (Are they clear and bright? Do they look at you or around you or through you or in you?) and their smile (Is it genuine and real or is it just a fake?)

HeardLankaMalls 55M
2925 posts
3/2/2006 5:15 am

I love eyes too dd. I think they are very expressive, and very attractive. You can see alot by looking into a lover's eyes, in my opinion.

fantasylover_05 62M

3/2/2006 5:18 am

Hey SEXY!!


And YES I do believe the eyes are the window to the soul.. and yes yes yes you can tell sooo much about your lover looking into their eyes.. the eyes never lie!!

Why do I put up a pic.... not sure it is much of a pic.... but I fugured you should have at least the "barest" (no pun intended.. especially since I am not bare LO of ideas of what I look like... and yes it is truly a photo of me! LOL And in some ways I do not show the eyes because they can be TOO REVEALING.....

rm_Sylent72 44M

3/2/2006 8:38 am

I need you to know me. That is what I want..that is why I put my picture up. I got chills reading your blog..because there is something supernatural/spiritual about can see everything in them. You can tell the emotions of a person by looking closely at them. One thing I have always liked to do is make love in the light with little or no covers. To make love in the light. That to me is a big turn says I am secure in myself and I love to be seen making love to you...that is a turn on. Ok back to reality!

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/2/2006 10:34 am

Thanks, babe... Well I show my pic... Wait! Am I not the babe you were referring to?

UnpinAfireFaust 57M

3/2/2006 10:43 am

Now you have me wondering what your doing in the full photo. But I'm a big eye person myself. It can tell me a lot more about what a person might really be thinking or saying if I can see their eyes. And when talking to someone like you...looking into a pair of very beautiful eyes is always a pleasure.

And you had to go there, didn't you. Some of my happiest moments recently have been making love to my Best Friend ...laying face to face...seeing and responding to the desire in her eyes...feeling her nails run down my back...her teeth biting my shoulder...her arching up against me as......

Thanks for bringing that memory to mind Divinity.

frangipanigal 44F
10406 posts
3/2/2006 6:25 pm

I agree 110% about the whole eyes bit. I can spot a good person or a not so good one, straight away by their eyes.

It took me 8 months to put a picture up. The first 6 months I was just to shy and then for the two months that I wanted to, I had to wait till I caught up with a friend that had a digital camera (I didnt have one back then).

No idea why I chose to show what I show, but I guess the shoes and stockings are SO me that one day I just did it!


pronoforpyro 45M

3/2/2006 7:45 pm

i put out the full monty because im only on this fucking earth once and lifes too damn short to be shy divinitydesires.

show a little skin, you will be surprised how horny it makes you feel to have strangers oggling you.



im_curious_4u 50M

3/2/2006 9:00 pm

<--- This one or the suit and tie? That one is for a select few here. I should fire up my camera and get a good eye pic for ya.

outdoorman94 47M

3/2/2006 9:18 pm

I always feel you can definately tell a story


3/3/2006 2:23 am

Hi Divinity

I initially put pictures of myself up to attract female attention and to get response to my profile. It didn't really work out the way I thought it might at the start because the first few bits of interest I did get after posing them was interest from homosexual men. Despite stating in my profile that my interest was in meeting women.

But even with women the pictures did not get me much more attention than I got before I included them. But before I included them I pretty well got dead zero response so I guess anything at all above that would be doing pretty good. And after those intial few resposnes from men I did indeed get some marginal response from women.

Which for some reason did please me.

In a way showing my picture may have been for reasons similar to why it is said that many of the girls who partake in those "girls gone wild" videos do so. To boost their lagging self esteem. I was never in the popular crowds at school nor was ever made to feel like was very attractive whatsoever until I was well beyond my high school years. A late bloomer in many respects.

Also a few years before joining up here I had a series of somewhat tragic events occur to me that almost thoroughly destroyed my sense of self esteem and when I first did join I was not altogether fully repaired in that way. I'm still not but enough so that I could most likely still get most of the attention I get at the moment without needing to display such images.

But since I certainly would like to get a good viewing of the women around here as well I'm sort of following the golden rule by doing for others what I hope they'll also do for me.

Tit for tat or however that goes.

On the eyeball front, did you ever see Spinal Column Owl Totem Eyeball Ballet?

Simply loads of my eyes in that one.


rm_clitoral_man 51M
605 posts
3/3/2006 7:14 am

Yes Divinity, I also believe eyes are the windows to a persons well as great indicator of intent and emotion. There's also a very sensual, mysteriously erotic quality to your eyes...sensual eyes affect me every time! Love the way you watch, and caress with your eyes (and your words)...don't stop!

I don't (and won't) post a full face picture on an open/public access website of any kind simply because I don't trust people. Don't get me wrong, overall I'm actually a friendly/positive person and give everyone the benefit of the doubt at first...but have also learned that anonymity can be used as a dagger as well as a shield. I know that might sound overly dramatic, or at least cynical or paranoid, but I'm really just somewhat jaded...and I kinda' like the way that dagger/shield analogy sounds.

TTigerAtty 62M

3/3/2006 1:11 pm

I was initially reluctant to put up a face photo on this site, but then, as I became more familiar with the other bloggers and began trusting others on this site more, I just decided to do it one day. I have always wanted to post a photo of myself in a tiger costume, but AdultFriendFinder has always denied it as a profile photo. I don't really get that because full frontal nudity is allowed and other forms of non-revealing photos are allowed. Do you think I would frighten anyone in my tiger costume?

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