Ladies and Gentlemen May I Have...  

Divinitydesires 46F
4872 posts
1/24/2006 8:02 pm

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Ladies and Gentlemen May I Have...


I was thinking about dating (I know I'm starting to sound like a broken record) and I started to wonder about manners. I can't forget to be a lady, but he too should be a gentleman, right?

It's been so long since I've been on a real date (over 12 years now) I have forgotten how to act and what to do, or what I should expect from him too.

So what kind of manners should he have?
What kind of manners will he expect me to have?

Georgie007777 67M
419 posts
1/24/2006 11:45 pm

Just be "You"!

He shouldn't push.
He shouldn't just talk about himself.
He should demonstrate the art of discourse and have a ready wit.
He should open the door for you........

You just act natural and let him open the door............

Georgie x

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
1/25/2006 2:17 am

it 's not in the opening of a door...
it 's in the way he 'll look at you...

fantasylover_05 62M

1/25/2006 5:05 am

You should expect to have fun and enjoy yourself!!

The details of how that happens are somewhat less important.... as long as you enjoy each others company what does it matter?

That being said... I am very much a gentleman in public and especially with a beautiful woman such as you Divinity! (not so much with an ugly woman LOL LOL Kidding)

I am somewhat old fashioned (no not as defined in Sexy's list yesterday LO... I do believe in opening doors... holding coats.. pushing in your chair... and all that stuff (if you notice... those all give me a good chance to look at your amazing ass LOL LO and of course I expect to pay it all.... I am not typically a "go dutch" kind of guy (unless it is clearly discussed and agreed ahead)

All kidding aside... it is first and foremost... have fun and enjoy each other... politeness and common courtesy... respect each others boundries.... pay attention to each other.. there are clues!!

nightnsa 48M  
415 posts
1/25/2006 5:54 am

treat others as you would want to be treated and you will do ok..
he is proabably just as nervous

caressmewell 53F

1/25/2006 6:35 am

Geez, long time for me too.

TTigerAtty 62M

1/25/2006 8:19 am

Baby, it's just like riding a bicycle. You never forget how to do it! You'll be fine!

saddletrampsk 54F

1/25/2006 8:32 am

Be yourself sweety..
You are one awesome, intelligent and sexy chickiepoo..

oldman1776 78M
3164 posts
1/25/2006 9:23 am

If you are your self you will be fine.


1/25/2006 11:20 am

Be sure to at least let one smallish sized burp out near the end of the dinner portion of the date. This will let him know that you're human.

It need not be a ear deafening belch but there are a select few (me included) who you will score many extra points with if you go for the big one!

Also it's sometimes appropriate to let loose with a biggie if he's overly well mannered and "goody two shoes" to the point of annoyance just to provide an absurd contrast in behavior.

I think I should write my own modern "Emily Post" type of book.


Green_Tea_Boy 49M
1064 posts
1/25/2006 6:43 pm

listening and respect.... same as it was 12 years ago...lmao...

its AdultFriendFinder that makes you different...everything is so direct...

"hey babe...fancy a shag on msn or yahoo?"

instant gratification.... in the words of Julius ... veni, vedi, vici

jakblack36 48M

1/25/2006 8:08 pm

Being yourself is the most important thing to remember. Oh and if you fart be sure to look at someone else close by Oh and if you need to fart do it before you get in the car

aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
1/26/2006 7:15 am

He should open all doors for you, gently push you in the small of the back into the resteraunt, ask what it is that you're having to eat so that he can order for you, take your hand and lead you out of the resteraunt, walk you to your car, and give you a big fat kiss.... on the cheek. That's a great start. You should always keep a little sexual tension flowing the whole evening and not be too concerened about the manners being precise.

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