Separate ways {Lives}, Worlds apart  

DiscreetFunCMH 50M
62 posts
8/3/2006 7:10 am

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Separate ways {Lives}, Worlds apart

Ok, So I've been trying to visit other member's blogs, particularly those that have visited me. I've also visited several that I've ran across interesting topics or that have been recommended to me. First let me say this... How the hell do your people do it? How in God's name do you keep up with so many blogs as well as your own? It's over whelming, Jeez.

Now, on to the real topic. In viewing all these blogs, I've made an observation. For many of us, by no means all, it seems we are leading 2 separate lives, worlds apart from each other and you thought this would be about music again, ha

What do I mean by this? Simple, some are references to the "real world" as if this cyber world was only imaginary and not real. Then there are the ones like me, who lead a conservative "upstanding" {not that there is anything wrong with this} life. And then in my private moments when I can get away, I live a not so conservative "upstanding" and what the "real world" would call, perverse life filled with talk of sex and what not.

I'm not really soliciting any feedback about your life, your choices, or my comments. I just find it interesting looking at my own life{s}, and knowing the two shall never meet under any circumstances and imagining how many others around here are doing the same. Then wondering of friends I have in the "real world", how many either are living a second secret life like this in some fashion, or at least think about it if not taking any action.

Just my ponderings for this morning.


moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
8/3/2006 8:58 am

For me, it's all one and the same. I have no secrets. I don't want a fragmented life. For better or worse.


crazygurl2xx 56F

8/3/2006 3:01 pm

i was going to say close to the same thing. my friends and close family know i have a place here and that i have a little bit of freak in me. of course my lover knows. i met him here and my family (most of them) know that too.

now i don't exactly announce this at work!


sexyariesgirl 57F

8/4/2006 5:05 am

I do live two lives.....but I think the people here are just as real as those in my "real life". Some portray themselves as something they aren't...but that happens in "real life" too. I've been able to blend the two lives through my Sweet Baby....I met him here. He knows EVERYTHING about me.....but he's the only one who does. So through him I've blended the two and am happy with both.

Power To FOK


libgemOH 56M/52F

8/4/2006 3:28 pm

What a great question.....For me, this is a part of my real life, but this is the play part, not the work part....and those 2 parts, I do keep separate. Gotta Eat!!!

But the friends I've made on here are my true friends, same as the ones I've met face to face. -B


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