The procrastinator!  

Dildo_replacemen 38M
196 posts
7/15/2006 1:36 pm

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7/28/2006 10:55 pm

The procrastinator!

Well, I'm procrastinating all day today and I won't stop until tomorrow. I have a house part to go to! I think I've earned it, I've spent all week packing my place up and I'm half done. Got rid of ALL the clutter (I'm a bit of a pack rat) and now it's just the stuff I want to keep - except for this extra furniture a few friends are gleaning off me in the coming week.

I've just gotten back from the beach (hey, when I procrastinate I go all out), however I kind of cleaned up too much and tossed out or packed up all my sunscreen. Damn! I'm now a healthy red - I don't think I will ever learn. When I was a kid I could spend hours in the sun with no sunscreen (I think I've posted about this in the past). It's a frustrating situation - old habits die hard. Like self gratification! (Oops) So I've retreated to inside until the house party this evening - I may even pack a few boxes (ah, screw it - no I won't). I'll browse AdultFriendFinder for a while.

I just realized I've been on AdultFriendFinder for just over 2 months now! Wow, how time flies... I've met some great people on here blogging, but I have yet to meet anyone in person. Hmm, perhaps I'm doing something wrong. Hell, I know I'm doing something wrong - I lost to Chubby in the Sex Prentice... I'm actually not bitter at all, Cubby's a great guy and the only guy that I'd be willing to loose to - who else would heir me as a bartender after I tried to sabotage their campaign.

Anyway, got any pointers for meeting people on this site? I tend to go with the wink approach and if I get a wink back I send them a nice personal message. However it seems people are reluctant to wink on here and mass message instead! Got any pointer - what works? In the real world, smiles/winks work...

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
7/15/2006 4:31 pm

I don't know any. I've been on here for awhile and haven't met anyone off of here. So who knows!

Yeah, so where is my drink at?????

I usually will get a wink or two, and I wink them back. Thats usually where it stops.

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/15/2006 11:15 pm:
What do you mean you haven't met anybody off of here! You're a women, you hold all the power... not kidding... if you make the first move, you'd be surprised how far it can go. Now I'm not talking from personal experience, I've always had to make the first move - frustrating. But my younger sister is now in a very romantically charged relationship with a guy she made the move on! So it does work, and she's ecstatic.

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/15/2006 11:23 pm:
Now regarding that drink... where do you live again.

Peche85 31F

7/15/2006 5:49 pm

Well, your first problem is that you live too far away from NZ to meet me lol.

I never look to see who has winked at me, so I think if you see a profile that looks good to you, you should send them a message. But don't just say "I just noticed your profile and thought I would send you a message". I get those quite often and have never replied. You have to send one which will stand out from all the rest, and shows that you have read their profile.

What the hell, just send them some sexy pics hehe. *Sexy doesn't equal penis either hehe*.

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/15/2006 11:22 pm:
What, you'd actually meet me???

Oh, you should look who's spent the time to send you a wink! You might be surprised.

No I don't got and do the one-line messages, booooorrrrriiinnngggg. I make it personal. Like...

How are you Peches. Been a while since we chatted, I miss our conversations. I see you now have a new PC, finally you can enjoy blogville once more and I can see more of you - even though it's via text. Would love to be near you in person! So, what are you studying in Uni? Do you enjoy it? You know... that kind of thing.

meerkittykat 42F

7/16/2006 10:33 am

Deffo don't do the mass email...

sometimes winks work, but you'd be surprised that a well-planned out, thoughtful email that is unique does wonders with some women. If you show that you've put some time and thought into writing something (that also indicates you've read the profile), you'll at least get a response and a chance to take it further.

Good luck.

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/16/2006 2:38 pm:
Oh, I'm not denying that I don't send out messages. I do! They aren't one-liners and are very (I think) thoughtful and/or thought provoking in relation to their profile. However a lot of people have the standard intro "Hi my name is sexdot, I like to fuck. Message me if you're interested!". What the hell are you suppose to talk about when someone writes that in their profile, there is nothing else to describe or give you an idea about the person. Over 99% of the time, I just pass by those profiles without a second thought.

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
7/16/2006 12:49 pm

I'm too damn used to the hot sun since I live in Malaysia Never had any sunscreen on me before. Might be nice to rub it on some hot guy

As for meeting people? You need to do more than just winking. Some people simply don't check their winks and I kind of think that winks aren't too effective. Since you are a Gold member, you can send out unlimited emails anyway. However before you do so, make sure that you've read their profiles and personalize each email. Emails should not be a one-liner and must be decent. Also, remember to include a face photo because us ladies can always look at your cock photos or cock in real life later. Never do the whole mass message thing! If you don't get a response from the lady, I'd suggest that you don't push it any further. For the most part, no reply means not interested.

A lot of guys on here always complain that ladies don't send them a reply when they are not interested and I will not deny that. You should know that most people on here are just Standard members and can only send very limited emails per day. So why waste those on people you're not interested in? Besides, some ladies might have had bad experience after sending the guys rejection or declination emails whereby the guys start to get all nasty and cursing and harassing the ladies That's the AdultFriendFinder reality.

I think I'm done with this blog comment Sorry!!

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/16/2006 2:42 pm:
Hey thanks for the advice Sassy Belle, and you can rub sunscreen on me any time.

Well, it would seem I find all the women that are not interested in me... lol I've still had more guys approach me than I've had women respond to my messages! Perhaps I'm just far too picky...

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
7/16/2006 10:37 pm

Sorry but I hold no power, on here or off of here. Unless of course I am at my breaker box in my house, I best be careful or I would electrocute myself Oh, I've done my share of winking. Glad that your sister has found someone off of here. *she's probably alot better looking than I* far as regarding that drink. Send me a wink and you might find out *winks*

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/17/2006 1:59 pm:
Oh, my sister didn't meet her boyfriend off of here... they'd laugh if they found out I was on here! - Shhhh!

Don't worry about electrocuting yourself - I've done it quite a few times. Perhaps that explains a few things. Actually I'm quite handy and tend to help all of my friends with their renovations, etc. So I have been "shocked" a few times. I've also blown out and burnt receptacles (not my fault, it was a faulty plug).

Anyway - check your profile... *wink*

rm_AnOddGirl 57F
3469 posts
7/17/2006 10:14 am

Hey, even here, even when you lose you win, look at how many women saw you playing bartender!!!

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/17/2006 1:46 pm:
Yah, they all saw me and ran! LOL I didn't get a chance to serve any of them .. except Pretty Blue Eyes, we're still haggling over alcohol content!

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
7/17/2006 8:54 pm

Bartenders are sexy n hot! *whew*

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/26/2006 1:56 pm:
So are women with blue eyes!

TabithaElectra 37F

7/26/2006 1:53 pm

I don't ever check my winks!!


Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/26/2006 1:57 pm:
Okay, hopefully no one else is following Tabitha's example... however it would explain a few things! lol

You should so check your winks... oh, look there's another one!

TabithaElectra 37F

7/26/2006 2:26 pm

...Ok, I checked!

Thank you

So, is it the done thing to wink back?!

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/28/2006 10:57 pm:
Good god, I don't know if winking back is the "thing to do". But I'd love to see a wink from you.

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
7/26/2006 4:10 pm

You haven't seen my eyes yet, silly!

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/26/2006 9:16 pm:
I've been told they're pretty and blue...

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
7/28/2006 12:54 am

And who has been spreading such malicious lies about me? Hmmm???

Dildo_replacemen replies on 7/28/2006 10:56 pm:
Your profile! ;P

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