Wanting input.......  

Devlish_Angel19 31F
40 posts
4/27/2005 11:36 am

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Wanting input.......

I was just thinking how easy is it for people to have sex with someone they hardly know. I have problems with that. Maybe its just me but I like to know things about the person before I go and jump right into there bed. Now to be known I have had my fair share of one nights stands with someone I didn't know. The only problem with them is they always left me feeling used. Not that I didn't like it but there was always that feeling afterwards.
How meny people can give up sex so easily without even knowing the person really?
Maybe its just me that has that problem. I wish I could just go out and have sex with people I hardly know but it just seems so hard. Someone please tell me is it just a mental thing for me or something else.

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
4/27/2005 12:58 pm

It's the way you are thinking about it. Your expectations are for something more or thinking that "good girls" don't do this, so you feel used the next day even though you enjoyed the sex. Maybe if you enter into it with the thought that you are just using the other person for your personal sexual satisfaction you won't feel like they have used you! It is a decision you have to make. You are entitled to sexual gratification. That is not something reserved for men. So go get what you deserve!!!

purejoy4fem 46F/44F
682 posts
4/27/2005 1:08 pm

Honey, never have sex with someone you don't know. If you meet them on here, correspond for a while, then have some phone conversations, and then if everything is right, and when you are comfortable, meet them in a public place. From there, it is up to you... If the person wants sex right away and you are not comfortable yet, just walk away, that's the beauty of a public place. If the guy is a jerk and trys to pressure you, it's probably not someone you wanted to be with anyway.

Good Luck

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