? The Things people say.  

Devlish_Angel19 31F
40 posts
5/10/2005 9:55 pm

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? The Things people say.

I was recently viewing my winks and the people who added me to their hotlist, and notice this one that seemed interesting. Well went and ready his profile and whatnot. He basically did not list anything about himself nothing relating to his physical apperance or anything really. Reading his "what he wants in a partner" All it said was "No Fatties".
Now knowing that my profile says a little extra padding why would he wink at me?
I myself am really starting to get annoyed at people who generally look at bigger women like they are not people. And yes there are men and women out there who are like this. I myself have put up with people like this for a while now and it is starting to tick me off.
Really I mean has society really gotten that bad that women with curves or who are not the right weight just cast out? What have we done other than being ourselves and enjoying the body that we are in not enough for most people.
Yes I do know that not all people out there are like this. And I thank you for that. But really why has society gotten this bad? Why is it everyday at work I have to look at magazines with fraile skinny models on the cover who look like they haven't eaten a thing in over a week? Do bigger women not get the courtasy of thinking that they are beautiful the way they are?
To all the women out there with curves, alittle extra padding, and ampleness. I want to say you are beautiful for who you are and don't change just because of what society says or how others view you. Stay your big beautiful selves.

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
5/10/2005 11:32 pm

Glad to see you post this. It is a good thing to point this out every so often. It has been my experience that men I have met are generally not JUST into the petite thang that looks like she might have starved herself for a very long time; but I know that there are men out there who are JUST into the malnurished petite thang walking around like death worn over. Don't be too hard on them though. Just as I may not be attracted to some men, doesn't mean that I don't like them. There is a difference you know.

I am sorry that you have had some bad experiences. I try to avoid them by being upfront with them and telling them that I am no skinny minnie. Either that turns away the folks who aren't attracted to people with some curves to them; or, it makes way for the folks who, the fact that you might have some extra curves, state that it doesn't matter and that they are thrilled with the person you are and, in fact, also admit to some of their own imperfections. Those who can't admit to their own imperfections, I would have to question with what level of sanity they have in their own lives.

I truly hope that you have better luck in the AdultFriendFinder men. I have met some wonderful AdultFriendFinder men in the process already. Good luck!!

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
5/11/2005 2:20 am

I agree with you and txrose completely. Looking at some of the other blogs on here you can see how it eats away at people .... not being 'the barbie next door' seems to become more and more unacceptable. It's terrible to see 5-year olds that are eating paper just to fool their bodies into thinking they're eating 'coz they don't wanna get fat'.

rm_baluc 53M
2 posts
5/15/2005 11:11 pm

I much prefer a woman with hips and a bit extra to those who think that ribs against skin is sexy. While I am not turned on by obese women (sorry, just being honest) I find full figured women a major turn on. My gorgeous wife is size 14-16 now, and she wants to be back to a 10-12, but I find her and women like her very hot. He main complaint is that many stores don't carry lingerie over a size 12. We both think you're extremely hot. Don't suppose you live near St. Louis????

Jerosd 47M

5/18/2005 4:38 pm

All women are beautiful.......

Aerochick77 39F
2 posts
6/24/2005 5:46 pm

I can completely sympathize with you. I am glad to hear someone else feels the same way. It's messed up that it is hard for a woman who looks like a women to get a man, cause it seems most of them I run into want a thin person with no curves. I'm proud of my curves, and all I can do is hope that there are those men out there who appreciate a real woman.

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