The "Squirt"  

DefiniteTrouble 50F
2839 posts
8/9/2005 8:18 pm

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The "Squirt"


Some time ago Diehard and I had a brief discussion in regard to a posting he made in a group room. If I remember correctly, he had experienced a woman that "squirted" only rarely in the past, found it erotic, and wanted to know if anyone had experienced the same or had any views regarding such. I didn't feel comfortable commenting on the topic at that point, but have since come to realize it's something that mystifies many. I know, it's hard to imagine me not feeling comfortable discussing any topic judging by my postings here, lol, but it's true. The word "squirt" isn't a term I'm fond of...it makes me shudder. There's nothing the least bit sensual about the word, when actually it is one of the most erotic and sensual feelings two people can share.

Yes, I have experienced this. It's very rare, and only happens under certain conditions. I prefer to view it as the female equivalent to male ejaculation, or cum. The first time it happened many years ago, I was horrified, although my partner found it quite delightful. I researched the subject for numerous hours, and even consulted my PCP and OBGYN. My findings are varied, but my own experiences have always remained the same. Is it comparable to the male "golden shower?" No. However, there are some women who have lost some bladder control and do emit something comparable to urine during orgasm, which doesn't apply to me.

For me, ample passionate and stimulating foreplay cause my clit to become swollen and hard, something I assume is comparable to the male erection. Upon penetration, if he's able to position himself just right enabling his cock to hit the "spot" and maintain thrusting against it for a short period of time, I'll orgasm intensely, and he'll be able to feel the warmth run down his cock. It's often clear or milky, just like male cum. It's often a small amount and not visible once he has reached his own orgasm. However, it can be somewhat heavier at times, depending on the intensity of my arousal, and might be visible as it trickles down my inner thigh. The "spot" I'm referring to is what I assume is the "g-spot," although it's actual existence is another topic for discussion at another time. Again, this is a rare experience, shared only with someone whose arousal, sensuality, and erotic high equal mine. Tantric, perhaps.

Can this type of orgasm be reached manually? Sure, with the right toys. After all, who knows my body better than I?

Is it more satisfying than a "normal" orgasm? No, not at all. All orgasms are satisfying, some just more intense than others. Besides, where sex is concerned, what exactly is "normal"? I'm multi-orgasmic, and some find that abnormal. I find it a very pleasurable trait, lol.

rm_Good4U67 49M

8/10/2005 6:18 am

I must admit that I have never know a woman to squirt. At least I haven't noticed it. Would I like that to happen? I would have to say yes it is an appealing thought. I guess just knowing that you are putting it down right and causing that to happen would be an ego boost for sure.

Also Trouble, what is wrong with being multi-orgasmic-that is great!!


DefiniteTrouble 50F

8/10/2005 10:48 am

Oh there's not a damn thing wrong with being multi-orgasmic! I loooooooooooove it!!!


dieharddrummerbo 54M

8/10/2005 8:56 pm

def, thanks for the candid. sorry if it makes you uneasy but rest assured, it's a big turn on for pretty much all i've heard from. please consider this perspective. faking orgasms. the only time a male can fake it ( and who would want to?) is during penetration. most men are usually unsure as to the validity of their partner's orgasm unless they have been with a partner for quite some time. the female squirt, or gush as i've also heard it referred to, gives us the confirmation we so desire. o.k. yes, there are some insecurity issues there, but mostly, because it is such a rarity, that- in itself- is an incredible turn on. someone from another group sent me a site which explained the phenomenon from a gynocological view and explained it very well. i wish i still had it, but it confirmed thatit is not urine based, but a lubricant intended for some or other natural process. again, sorry i didn't save the technical. even gave explicit instructions on how to achieve this reaction. i somehow retained that bit of information, however,(imagine that) and have been waiting for a willing partner to "experiment" with. you wouldn't know of one, would you?lol! anyway, there's my two cent's worth.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

8/11/2005 3:17 am

Oh! Valid point, Diehard. You brought something to mind that I'd never thought of...this is the one true way for a man to know a woman isn't faking orgasm. I've never faked an orgasm...don't see the point, and being a highly sexual creature, it's rare that I don't climax, at least once, lol. A woman's inability to reach orgasm most often has nothing to do with a man's performance. There are a multitude of reasons why this happens, such as her own insecurities preventing her from letting go and enjoying herself. I think the reason I'm often multi-orgasmic is because I'm totally comfortable with me and who I am, and I believe that tends to turn a partner on even moreso. Appreciate your 2 cents worth. Anyone else?


wayne340 69M

8/16/2005 12:47 am

Hello again, 'Definite', and hey to 'diehard' !!! The last two words written above = "Anyone else?", was all I needed to jump in here...LOL The topic being 'the squirt', causes me to recall an incident from my Army days. I posted this entire story on a similar topic in another group somewhere, so I will condense it this time.
As I said, I was in the Army and was stationed in Camp Casey, South Korea, in the 7th Administration Company, Finance Corp. One of our group was about to rotate back to the States and threw this big party. (Similar to the Socials we have here today) There were 12-15 invited G.I's and enough 'club girls' to insure everyone there had a partner. I had this big handlebar mustache at the time and this one cute girl kept laughing at it and calling it a "Pogee Brushee", which in English is 'Pussy Brush'. Having had several shots of Seagram's and 7up, I reared back and told her "Hell, yeah, I'm number one "Pogee Mogodai" (The best pussy eater)
Mind you, this was TABOO in 1967 for a GI to eat a prostitute's pussy, it just was not done. But I did. We undressed back in her hooch and she lay back, not really thinking I would do it, that I would just have a 'quickie'. The minute my face went between her thighs and my tongue hit that hole, she went completely wild !!! She pulled at my head and tried to get me ALL inside !!! Then she humped and bucked something fierce !! I went at it like a starved cat, lapping as hard and fast as my mouth could work.
When the explosion hit I was inundated in her juices, and it definitely was not pee, either. All this slippery liquid coated me and her, and the funniest thing was my poor old handlebar was drooping like a walrus's whiskers !!!
******Talk About Your Army Benefits******


DefiniteTrouble 50F

8/16/2005 3:02 pm

LMFAO...can you imagine the 3 of us out on the town? Think we'd get thrown out of a bar for causing a scene, or arrested for obscenities? I know, probably both. Nice to see you back Wayne...your narrative is a great addition to this topic...hilarious.


dabritbikerw3 64M
29 posts
8/17/2005 6:57 am

Squirters=Happy women.

I like the look of disbelieve and amazement on a woman's face when she reaches this.

And Trouble, aren't all women multiorgasmic? Gee, I thought so.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

8/19/2005 10:24 pm

No, unfortunately they're not. Some are unable to achieve a single orgasm, much less the pleasurable intensity of a multiple. The world would be a better place if we were all multi-orgasmic...men and women alike, lol.


wayne340 69M

8/25/2005 11:28 am

Thanks, 'definite', I'm tickled that you enjoyed that story. Only since my being on this AdultFriendFinder site have I had such nerve to (a.)Post a few photos of myself, and (b.) Tell about my past and some of my experiences.

I was married for 21 years, ending July 1993, and I never told my wife about that incident, and we were swingers for about three years!
It must be true, the old saying that what embarrasses us in our 20's is a source of fond memories in our 50's and 60's.
*****I'd Like Some Memories To Be RERUNS!*******


DefiniteTrouble 50F

8/26/2005 5:28 am

I'd take a solid rerun over over any of this new crap any day. Ok...most of it anyway.


bag_o_tricks 45M
1 post
10/6/2005 7:33 am

I have had my share of interludes in 34 years....I have met 2 squirters. When I think about the "good lays of yesteryear" they are at the top of the list.
I enjoyed bringing towels to bed and having sex on the floor so there would be a dry place to sleep!!!!
Oh the day......


DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 5:42 am

Bag - I'm finding that more and more men find this very arousing. Lucky for me...


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