So, Tell Me...  

DefiniteTrouble 50F
2839 posts
10/6/2005 5:28 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

So, Tell Me...

Complete the sentence. Inquiring minds want to know!

1. Sex on the first date is...

2. When you're feeling sexy you put on...

3. To relax before a naughty encounter, you...

Index 1, Index 2

digdug41 49M

10/6/2005 7:20 am on the first date is not required but would be a welcomed surprise
2.when I'm feeling sexy I put on my wife I'm usually naked relax before a naughty encounter I could'nt tell you I never know when there coming

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AlbertPrince 58M

10/6/2005 7:24 am

1. Sex on the first date is... a bonus.

2. When you're feeling sexy you put on... Marvin Gaye

3. To relax before a naughty encounter, you... take a bath.

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
10/6/2005 7:38 am

1....not expected. And so should it happen, it is solely the result of overwhelming lust giving way to ravishing abandonment.

2.... my best smile

3.... remind myself she is the most beautiful woman in the world and it would be enough to merely hold her in my arms.

methodman1000 40M
1775 posts
10/6/2005 7:44 am


a sexy,romantic movie or porn(?)

inhale and exhale for like 5mins....

bigfurrybear 41M

10/6/2005 8:21 am fine with me, but is not be the sole reason for the date.


3.....drink pepsi, listen to some soothing music and just relax!

toothysmile 50M
16514 posts
10/6/2005 8:32 am

1. always very exciting
2. put on a tie [...practically every day]
3. think happy thoughts.

kkwert 67M
50 posts
10/6/2005 8:50 am

1 Exciting
2 Put on?I would put her lucious body on the bed
3Relax?Hmm Who can relax at a time like this.

I agree with women looking travelingtexas needs his come uppin's After all he started it.

(Princess Lips)

10/6/2005 9:40 am

1- either torrid or a terrible mistake...
2- Nothing but a smile
3- Shave, shower, scent, fantasize, dress with a hidden wink in my eye... and a semi evil grin on my lips..

Want to do TTT's #1...

*nodding with my twin*


ThumbChickStool 33F

10/6/2005 10:13 am

1) Sex on the first date... is a little tacky if you're hoping to make it a relationship. But if it's just for a one-nighter, go ahead!

2) When you're feeling sexy you put on... I have no idea. It's been a while since I've felt sexy.

3) To relax before a naughty encounter, you... try not to have a panic attack. The nervous feeling gets to me. But taking the long way there listening to some "get your freak on" music gets rid of the nerves somewhat effectively.

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
10/6/2005 11:01 am

1. Sex on a first date is a nice surprise.

2. When I'm feeling sexy, I put on my best casual clothes(western style shirt, jeans, Tony Lama's, Stetson fedora)

3. To relax before a naughty encounter, I just listen to music...whatever mood I'm in will decided the music.


rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
10/6/2005 11:48 am

1. highly unlikely
2. the Crusaders
3. go through the grooming ritual very, very mindfully (shower, leg shave, moisturizer, powder, cologne) thinking about who will be there next

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

amrock2 51M

10/6/2005 11:58 am

1. Sex on the first date is... I'd rather not for a date ,but if its some one you meet at a club I've done that before so I guess its OK.

2. When you're feeling sexy you put on... Haven't felt that way in awhile, sad aint it.

3. To relax before a naughty encounter, you...Drink a Glass or red wine

redmartinigirl 43F

10/6/2005 1:10 pm

1. Sex on the first date is... a mistake.

2. When you're feeling sexy you put on... red lipsick

3. To relax before a naughty encounter, you... light candles and put on mood music. Usually Alicia Keyes

smackyman 46M
3845 posts
10/6/2005 3:38 pm

1.) Sex on the first date is...a complete and utter rush...

2.) When you're feeling sexy you put on...can't say that I ever have felt that in my life...

3.) To relax before a naughty encounter, you...go for a drive in the car...

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 3:44 pm

Digs, lol - love # 2

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 3:46 pm

Al - ohhhhhhhhhhh my my my my my. A ladykiller. "Sexual Healing" has always been a fav of mine for mood music.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 3:47 pm

LMFAO Jez...I'll never tell. NO, he won't either, lol.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 3:48 pm

TTT - adding you to the "ladykiller" list.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 3:50 pm

**sticks post-it over Method's pic**

Great answers...

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 3:52 pm

Big? BigFurry? BigBear? FurryBear? (not sure what to call you)

I like your answer to # 2 - I think naked is best...

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 3:53 pm

Toothy - ugh.

Putting on a tie is sexy? Just seeing a man in a tie chokes me to death. Ok...they look nice, I know. I just prefer seeing one being taken off...

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 3:54 pm

KK - T's days are numbered, lol...

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 3:56 pm

Redlips - TTT's # 1 does sound delicious. # 3 - ditto.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 4:00 pm

Native - hmmm.

1. What if a semi-sorta-relationship exists before the "date"?
2. I demand you feel sexy from this day forth.
3. I've felt the need to pop Xanax all week.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 4:01 pm

NG - excellent answers. Gotta love a man in a Stetson...

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 4:02 pm

Wahine -

# 1 - Me too, uh...usually. Am I allowed an exception? lol

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 4:04 pm

Amrock -

Wine relaxes me as well...right outta my panties.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 4:07 pm

RedMartini -

1. **sigh** dammit!!!
3. Oh...she's good. Hmmm...have never thought about her for mood music. "Falling" would be good, huh?

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 4:07 pm

**deletes T's comment***

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 4:09 pm

Smacky - Me? Behind the wheel before a naughty encounter? LMAO

2 words : Emergency Room.

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
10/6/2005 4:34 pm

1. Sex on the first date is...

A BLESSING (I hope..wink)

2. When you're feeling sexy you put on...


3. To relax before a naughty encounter, you...



slidein2meplz 62F
1994 posts
10/6/2005 4:47 pm

1. Sex on the first date is... Yes please...(just kidding...if it happens it happens...if it don't, it don't) I have a 1st date we'll see

2. When you're feeling sexy you put on...Low cut anything, short, short anything...and sexy "come hither" shoes.

3. To relax before a naughty encounter, you... Take a nice hot shower, and stay in as long as I want, shave everything that needs shavin. Slather mango flavored body butter everywhere I can reach....and breath deep and slow.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

rm_pchamp012004 55M
2672 posts
10/6/2005 5:45 pm

1) Sex on a first date ... usually doesn't get you a second date
2) When I'm feeling sexy I put on ... a condom and a smile
3) To relax before a naughty encounter I ... blog

rm_titsandtires 51M/41F
3656 posts
10/6/2005 7:39 pm

1. Sex on the first date is... like getting a winning scratch ticket at 7-11. doesn't happen everytime, but it's cool when it does.

2. When you're feeling sexy you put on... Korn

3. To relax before a naughty encounter, you.. turn the volume down.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 8:43 pm

Anacortes - love # 3...definite mood setter.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 8:45 pm

Slide -

1. Whew...glad to see someone cutting me some slack, lol. Hope you have a great time.
2. Ditto.
3. I love mango flavored body butter.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 8:46 pm

PC - lmao...great answers!

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 8:49 pm

T ? You know you love me...c'mere ***smooch***

(Anyone notice he went from blue dot to stud overnight?)

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/6/2005 8:51 pm

Tires -

1. true
2. HUGE Korn fan
3. Turn it up louder so the neighbors won't hear.

jonnyblong 55M

10/6/2005 9:05 pm

DT 1. only when we have arranged to do so
2. satin loincloth briefs some jazz music and champaine on ice
3. reading your blog to get me in the mood
P.s. may be gone for a few days (funeral in the family) lol jblong

(Juan S)
2642 posts
10/6/2005 10:04 pm

1. Beautiful
2. Romantic music ...and not much else.
3. Stare into her eyes and breath in all of her delicious scents...
The perfect thing before devouring her mind, body and soul...

madkitten 53F
291 posts
10/7/2005 1:20 am

1 - Depends on who its with.
2 - Usually take stuff off, but if it has to be put on, would have to be sexy underwear.
3 - Listen to Music.

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
10/7/2005 1:56 am

The first date rule hardly applies to your upcoming event. Pun intended.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
10/7/2005 2:06 am

1. Sex on the first date is... Geting to know u sex like a handshake

2. When you're feeling sexy you put on... Corset & leather, big boots

3. To relax before a naughty encounter, you... hit the hot tub

Its good to be...ME

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
10/7/2005 2:08 am

Sex on the first date... optional.
When I feel sexy, I put on... a better attitude.
To relax before a naughty encounter, I ... anticipate her, and her desires.

Good questions. A lot of different possible answers. unlisted

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 3:06 am

Jonny -

# 3 - thanks.

Sorry to hear about the passing of your family member.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 3:07 am

Sizzle - Wow...adding you to the "ladykiller" list.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 3:23 am

Mad Kitty -

LOVE all your answers. **high-five**

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 3:24 am

lmao Wahine - WHEW.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 3:26 am

Oh how I love da minds, ya know.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 3:27 am

Unlisted - Thanks.

Your answer to # guy.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 6:13 am

lmao Jez..**zips lips**

(Princess Lips)

10/7/2005 9:29 am

*now knows where the spongebob reference came from*

and he calls ME a freak! lol


DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 11:19 am

Oh he's a freak in all the wrong ways Lips, lol.

MillsShipsGayly 51M

10/7/2005 1:37 pm

.... happens more often than it should

.... an attitude

.... drink a good cabernet

(ps beautiful pic DT)

rm_AJRules69 56M/56F
2 posts
10/7/2005 2:35 pm

1. Sex on the first date is, date? what date? I just want sex.

2. When I'm feeling sexy I put on, sexy? what's sexy got to do with anything? Just suck me!

3. To relax before a naughty encounter I, encounter? I don't want to encounter anything, I just want sex. Gee Wiz!?!

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 3:11 pm

36 - I'm thinking sex on the first date could be passion out-of-control.

Please...someone agree with me, lol.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 3:12 pm

Michael...great answers. And're very sweet.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 3:13 pm

AJ -

lmao...alrighty then...

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/7/2005 5:49 pm

MzHuny -

Burn one AND relax in a nice bubble bath with a touch of baby oil...then sex, sex, sex!!!

(NEVER leave home without baby many uses!)

RailBaron2 54M

10/8/2005 5:59 am

Hi DT, Sex on the first date - Your Jokeing Right? Its a Myth at least in my experiance.I feel I have a better chance of Winning the California Lottery, or Seeing a Sasquatch.
When I'm feeling sexy I put on-Its been so long since I've felt that way That I can't remember What I put on,I think it was a Smile.
To Relax before - I Smoke & have a Pepsi

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/8/2005 9:20 am

lmao Baron...I always enjoy your humor.

By the way, there were reports not too long ago that Sasquatch was alive and well at a Starbuck's in Texas. Just a tidbit I thought I'd pass along.

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/10/2005 5:29 am

Thanks Magus.

69baby75 44F

10/10/2005 8:00 am

1. is great when you have been talking for a long time and the
heat and anticipation is there.
2. something low cut and revealing(oh that is basially my whole
3. relax and watch a porno and then shower and be ready

Bellefourchelove 62M

10/11/2005 10:12 am

What a great blog!!!

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/12/2005 3:37 am

69 - love your answers!

DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/12/2005 3:38 am

Thanks Belle!

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