I'm a Whore, You're a Whore  

DefiniteTrouble 50F
2839 posts
9/27/2005 4:53 am

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I'm a Whore, You're a Whore

This was supposed to be titled "100 Questions: the Analysis," in reference to my recent post The Results Are In.... Many of us had lots of fun over the past week or so blog hopping, reading lists of others riddled with fascinating facts we may not have known about that person. Many commented that they couldn't come up with 100 things about themselves we'd find interesting. I took it upon myself to ask 100 questions and invited everyone to play along so that we might learn something new about our neighbors who were hesitant to attempt a list themselves. My analysis follows at the bottom of this post.

However, events over the past day or so have made me rethink my initial analysis. I have sat back and watched in horror as the peaceful existence within Blogland turned into a fierce battle, leaving many with spite, bitterness, and hurt in their hearts. Yesterday, I sat quietly for the most part, as I realized the troops were starting to withdraw, and I was waiting for the smoke to clear. I wasn't searching for the victor. I just wanted to try and make sense of how something that began so innocently got so out of hand.

Yes, I am going to reference certain members, not as a means of pointing fingers, but to help clarify the situation to those of you who had no clue to what was going on. Those who ventured into these blogs, and left with your only thought being "what the fuck just happened here?" Even worse, you left snide comments because not only were you in the dark as to what was going on, you got caught up in the apparent hostility of what initially started out as a game of sorts. True, there was an underlying message to the game, but still, it was supposed to be all in fun.

Sometime over the weekend kyplowboy2, after what appears to have been weeks of observation, dropped a comment in the blog of talldarkavg1 with a subtle reference to what's known around here as "comment whoring." This ensued a rapid, often comical, response by a couple of members who then loaded TDA's blog with meaningless comments. It was then that travelingintexas joined in on the fun with a counter-post that resulted in the same - numerous meaningless comments. Like many of you, I was sucked in, playing along, flip-flopping back and forth between the 2 blogs and dropping totally meaningless comments. Note I said "both" blogs. No favoritism. Hell, I thought it was a game, and some of the comments were hilarious.

Then all Hell broke loose. I woke up yesterday morning, started surfing my favorite blogs, cup of coffee in hand. This is my morning routine as it often gets my day off to a good start with all the laughter sprinkled around Blogland. But not yesterday. I was in disbelief at what I saw before me. Hostile shots were being fired. Bitter counter-attacks were running amuck. Worst of all, and what I found most troubling, feelings were being hurt. Yes, egos had clashed. Egos? In Blogland? Huh?

My mind quickly switched to a conversation I had with a fellow blogger a few weeks back. It was brought to my attention that I was climbing the "status" ladder at a fairly decent rate. The what? I had no clue to what my fellow blogger was referring to at this point. Then it was explained to me...the list of "Most Watched Blogs." My reaction was "that's cool" and I never gave it another thought. I'm not here to gain any "status." I have enough of that to deal with unfortunately outside the Blogworld. And I loathe such. I began blogging to express my creativity, pass along my thoughts and feelings, and hopefully entertain others along the way. I'm not here to grasp the gold blog ring. I have no desire, and definitely no time to sit here endlessly in an attempt to dethrone those at the top.

Unfortunately, it appears some take this very seriously. And that troubles me. This is a blog for God's sake. No Emmy's are going to be awarded. The Nobel Peace Prize council will not be visiting. Does anyone have a Pulitzer Prize for Excellence in Blogging on this site? If so, please let me know. Then maybe I'll understand the importance of the "status" bullshit.

It has also been brought to my attention that those not on THE list are referred to as "bottom feeders." I don't find that a very appropriate term for those who are often the ones commenting in the top blogs, helping the "most watched" maintain their status. It's like Blogland has followed suit with the outside world, breaking people into social classes based on "status." I don't find this childish. I find it horribly degrading.

I initially had no intentions of attending the upcoming convention in Chicago, as I had made prior plans for that weekend months ago to accompany my Mother to highly rivaled football game. I tossed the idea around a bit, and thought I might reconsider, as there are so many of you I'd like to meet in person. In light of recent events regarding my personal life, I had made the decision that yes, I would in fact be attending. But not now. I have no desire to risk the possibilty of being sucked into all this madness once again during what's supposed to be a fun-filled weekend.

I can drive the 45 minutes to visit mzhunyhole if the opportunity arises. And I'll simply wait to have that cup of Kona with 1hotwahine when I'm in her neck of the palms in July. There are so many more of you, too many to mention individually. It would create another one of "those" lists, but I'd hate to see sj365 playfully seething in my direction. I've been through enough shit this past week.

"Comment Whoring." Please don't point fingers, as many of us have been guilty of this, intentionally or not. If you, the viewer, stumble upon a blog where you find this might be occuring and find it replusive, don't leave a snide comment. Don't comment at all. Think about it...you just helped increase that blogger's numbers. However, if it's a post you find entertaining or thought provoking, by all means, please comment, no matter what the blogger's current "status" might be. That's supposed to be the real reason behind these blogs...discussion. Or have I too been mislead?

I'll leave you with one thought before I get to the original intention of this post. Stop the insanity. If all this bitter hostility continues I expect I'll wake up one morning, coffee in hand, and find that the blogs I visit most often are nowhere to be found on THE list. After all, how many viewers are going to continue visiting a blog filled with spite and hurtful words?

I encourage you to visit KPB2's post [post 102135]. This explains the innocent origin of his intentions and issues a call for a truce to an incident that was completely taken out of context and has gotten way out of line.

100 Questions: the Analysis

After reading through the lists each of you posted within your own blogs and the one I posted in my own, I have reached the following conclusions about our delightfully eclectic group:

Although we have our different opinions, live miles apart, each having their own different personalities and preferences, we are all very much alike.

We've been brought together through our blogs for many reasons, the most prevelent being friendship, advice, and support. It's become an unbiased form of therapy for many, myself included.

We laugh. We cry. We comfort. We have forged friendships that have the potential of lasting the remainder of our lives. Those on the "outside" who think the feelings and emotions within the blogworld are "hokey" or impossible have obviously never experienced the warmth and kindness each of us has been allowed.

I hope each of you, today, take a hard look at yourself and your fellow bloggers...your neighbors, your friends, your extended "family." Be the first to extend a hand to repair any hostility. Hug someone. Make someone smile. Reach out to someone in need. Love, support, enjoy, and be peaceful with one another. For this , in reality, is what makes the Blogworld go 'round and keeps us all coming back.

"We should consider every day lost in which we have not danced at least once." - Nietzche

Let's dance instead of stepping on one another's toes. It makes the harmony much more enjoyable. - DT


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 8:59 am

Jez - Not sure why the 2 of you aren't speaking...I'll put my foot in his ass later. As for his absence from the blogs, he has been denied access since sometime last night. Such a shame. (hugs)


kyplowboy2 61M

9/27/2005 9:36 am

DT

Thanks. It did get out of hand. Hate that, never meant for it too. If I had it to do over again, I wouldn't say a word. Almost afraid to say much here, lest it be contrued as another attack of some kind or another by someone, anyone out there. But you have to admit that there were about equal numbers on both sides of the fray, so there must have been feelings running deeper than anyone had expected. Maybe some good can come of this. Maybe a boil that had been festering, has been lanced and drained, and can now begin healing. We, meaning ALL the citizens of Blogtown, must work to keep the sore free of any infections until it can heal. I have the peroxide, you got a Q-tip, DT? Hey, TiT, hand us that bottle of Betadine, please. Jez, ya wanna put a bandadge on this boo-boo, babe? Like I said, enough already! Later.

kpb2

PS: Congrats on you and ol WedgeHead there. lol Keep him straightened out, that'll be a full time job! Pity the woman that has it.


five_speed 41M

9/27/2005 9:40 am

First off, in all seriousness, thank you for laying out what happened and explaining the situation now that the smoke has cleared. I am going to link this post in my blog as well. Great job, Darlin!

hehehheheh! you said "amuck" Thankyou!

In other news, I do have a Pultitzer Prize in Blogging Excellence. I made it myself out of Budlight boxes, garbage ties, gold foil, and some glitter.

*perches on the chair like a gargoyle and strokes his Pultizer Prize lovingingly*

Yessss, Precioussssss! We shows the tricksy bloggers! Yesss, Precioussssss... we will!


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 10:07 am

Ewwwwwwwwwwww...KPB2....damn. I'm trying to eat lunch here, lol.

I know what you mean about being afraid to comment. Hell, I questioned the safety of turning on the computer this morning.

As for "ol WedgeHead"...I won't even attempt to keep him straight. Hopeless cause. I'll just sit back and laugh hysterically and cherish the moments.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 10:17 am

TY babe. I do have the fear I'm developing a humorous pet name. Ah, then again, look at all the fabulous words that rhyme with "amuck."

Quite a creative and colorful award you've fashioned for yourself. No, it won't be hanging in the office. Possibly the shed out back, where you'll be spending a great deal of time the first time I catch you perched on a chair hissing like a gargoyle in my presence.

**cracks whip**


toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
9/27/2005 10:29 am

I guess I 've missed all this.
As a complete outsider AND a rookie,what I can tell you is that I am amazed at how much positive energy, how much affection, how much kindness I 've found in blogland. And it 's probably the reason why I 'm here.
Sure, there will be exceptions.
Sure, there may be tiffs, misunderstandings, some hurt involved, some ill feeling...There's quite a few of us here, it 's inevitable.

BUT ON THE WHOLE, my impression is a very good one.
Definite trouble, I think it 's wonderful that you 're bringing this out in the open, and obviously it 's paying off already.

So, let's go back to dancing... and finish your previous story. [wink]

[standing up, taking a little bow...]
"May I have the honor of the first dance?"


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 11:07 am

MzHuny - (Hugs)Calm down.(Hugs again)

Thinkin I may need to make that short drive to see you right now. I think we could both use a drink...kinda early, but it's "five o'clock somewhere."

You didn't start any of this. All you did was comment regarding the childish behavior. And that it was.

But, no harm was ever intended by anyone involved. And as Honeyman said, he requested both bloggers delete the comments in question. Unfortunately, the one who did delete his comments, and furthermore issued public apologies to everyone, has now been removed from this site. Not sure why, but he's waiting on a response from those in charge.

As far as the word "bottomfeeder," no, I can't imagine you ever saying anything like that about anyone. Ever. But, the term has been used frequently by many. I choose not to point fingers, as it's time for peace to settle in, not invoke further hostility and tension.

This was an unfortunate event. No one is really to blame as it was all misinterpreted and taken out of context. Hopefully we'll all reflect on what has happened here...the pain that has been caused, and the loss of a beloved blogger and friend...and we'll all do our best to see it never happens again.


five_speed 41M

9/27/2005 12:19 pm

Yesssss, Misssstressss. Come, Precioussss. To the shed must we go.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 12:23 pm

I did not post this to piss anyone off or point fingers at anyone in particular. However, judging by the emails I have recieved and the comments I've viewed in the blogs of others, I have managed to do so.

ALL I'M TRYING TO DO HERE IS STOP THIS BULLSHIT!!!

If you have a comment, PLEASE post it here. I won't be accepting anymore emails for quite some time.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 12:26 pm

Toothy - Be glad you did miss it. I hope your impression remains positive.

Unfortunately, I'm not in the mood to dance at this time.


kyplowboy2 61M

9/27/2005 12:26 pm

DT

My guess is that TiT has not been banned or anything, the AdultFriendFinder site has been doing some kind of upgrading or something, and access has been denied to many of us most of the day yesterday, all night and til mid morning today. I couldn't get on til late this morning myself. The site kept saying that my account had been closed, it wasn't, but i didn't know til Huny told me on the phone. No harm, no foul lest the dogs of war start barkin' again. lol NO BODY PANIC, PLEASE!!! lol

kpb2


xx_44DD_xx 51F

9/27/2005 12:28 pm

I have kept my lips zipped. I am so tempted to just delete all my information and go elsewhere.

I was so looking forward to the bloggers convention as well but, not with everyone acting so effing childish!!

Thank you for trying to keep the peace DT, I think it's a bunch of childish bullshit of "kids" who didn't get their own way, if you ask me.

And nooooooooo MZHUNY, I don't mean you sweetheart, I adore you!


barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
9/27/2005 1:26 pm

Well as a new "bottomfeeder" since my fall from grace...I will admit to using the term as a tongue and cheek poke to others that have used it.

Where it exactly origionated i dont know, but like DT said if u cruise enough blogs u see it.

Honestly gang, I really do think this is a big misunderstanding.. and we all need to do a group hug and move on... unfortunately with the written word, you cannot hear the intonations or playfulness sometimes... and you couple that with a lack of sleep or a bad day, and you have a volitile situation where feelings run amuck..like they did here.

Now some of you frightened by the drama..dont be.. even best of families squabble.. its how u make amends that count because I do know the people involved (cept for plowboy ..sorry babe i havent seen ya a lot ..just busy) are really good hearted people..and if Hunny likes him..then Ill give him the same consideration as well.

Im glad this ended right otherwise I WAS dusting off my boots and cape to give ya'all a smackdown....

Thanks DT.

XOXO
Bun

Its good to be...ME


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 1:59 pm

KPB2 - I'll refrain from comment until tomorrow re: the reasons for T's disappearance, as it seems I'm now experiencing the same. Funny.

And make sure MzHuny gets my apology. I posted it in her blog but I'm not sure she will see it. My comments were NEVER directed at her, or anyone in particular. Just my own generalized observations that happened to coincide with your harmless antics this past weekend.

Thanks.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 2:01 pm

44 - Kisses and hugs for your support and seeing this as truly what it is...a place to begin the healing. That's all I ever intended.


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
9/27/2005 2:03 pm

Mz. Huny, after talking online with Trav last night while we were trying to get him logged back into the site I can tell you that indeed his comments on your blog were NOT directed at you. He's not upset with you and in all reality I'd venture to say that he's not actually "upset" in the true manner of the word, except for maybe all the bickering about nothing really. It was a few people taking it to an extreme, even still doing so last night. Funny thing, I haven't seen hide nor hair of the one that seemed to have taken it on herself to personally crusade against what she saw as a wrong doing against Tall. I told her on several blogs to knock it off. Maybe I finally got through to her.

You all need to realize what a special group the bloggers of this site are. It's not about each individual or the shining star of the moment. It's about each and every one of us. For without each and every single person that reads and comments on each and every blog, there wouldn't be anything. You might as well be typing in notepad. This place has become something I look forward to, but over the last few days I've wondered about that choice. We all come here for different reasons I'm sure, but one common reason I think we all have is the interaction with others. You may write your blog for you, but in putting it out there and making it public you are in some way, shape or form hoping to touch another person. Come on people, let's get back to making those good touches and put this stuff behind us now.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 2:05 pm

Bunz -

You're absolutely correct. Cruise enough and "bottomfeeders" is quite prevelent within many blogs. Thanks for viewing this post for what it truly is...an attempt at one big ass group hug. **fluffs bunnytail**

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo - Demon Spawn

Oh look babe! She said "amuck", lol.


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
9/27/2005 2:29 pm

I have been in BlogLand since March and have seen much in the intervening months. This sort of brou-ha-ha is natural and is probably necessary every few months or so. I have seen it before.

It will all blow over soon for most of us. The angrier ones who cannot get past it will eventually leave.

BLOG ON!


rm_koocnachtiek 60M
376 posts
9/27/2005 2:35 pm

KCC is right. So don't cancel those arrangements. Get on over to Chicago and do the rest of us proud!

Is this just another trick by keithcancook
to get his text on television?


beewulf9 38M

9/27/2005 3:17 pm

I am sorry that you are choosing to not go to the bloggers' convention, I would have been honoured to meet you. I wish you well and am curious what is the rival game you are taking your mum to?


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
9/27/2005 3:43 pm

this thing did NOT get started by mzhuny nor by kyplowboy2. But that doesn't seem to interest anyone.

Why am I not surprised at that....


rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
9/27/2005 4:16 pm

*yawn* we done with this yet?

SJ *wishing someone would drop a crumb or two....us bottom-feeders are hungry*


dano6332 56M

9/27/2005 4:31 pm

SJ you can come feed here any time you want.

DT good luck with 5er and let him know all the photos have been destroyed (well not that "special" one)

I am still looking forward to the convention and really do believe there will be bonding, hugs, tears and (oh I sure hope so) beautiful women waiting to meet me in person. There is no reason to let this interfere with anyones plans to attend as TDA and Huny and Goddess will set the pace for all gentle bloggers. Lets all relax and not let this interfere with what is going to be a wonderful time.

I also want to say THANK YOU to all the people who have been working so hard to make this happen for all of us. xo Dan


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
9/27/2005 4:32 pm

I addressed this issue today. It took place on my blog and I think I am the one that needs to address it. Hopefully, it is posted now.

[blog talldarkavg1]


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:09 pm

Keith? Dammit...can you cook? **giggles with SJ***


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:10 pm

Daphne - I don't think I need to add to your comment. (hugs)


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:12 pm

Koo - Already have other plans now...it's all good.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:13 pm

CT44 - Welcome...first time I've seen you here.

"Amuck" has for some sick, sick reason a term of endearment to me, lol.


AmberSolaire 42M

9/27/2005 5:15 pm

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DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:19 pm

Beewulf -

It would have been nice to meet you as well as many others. I'm no longer attending the game either - it was UT-Bama.

I anticipate being contently "tied up" for quite some time.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:21 pm

CT44 -

We need a big group hug. Thanks, I'll be hearing "amuck" in my sleep now, lol.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:27 pm

Goddess -

I assure you no one is blaming anyone, especially not MzHuny. However, KPB2 did admit, with apology, his role in the initial "game" many of us played, myself included. Please see [post 102135], # 2.

No one is pointing fingers at anyone...just hoping for a peaceful resolve to all the dischord.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:28 pm

lmao SJ...just seeing you here brightens my day.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:36 pm

Dano -

Thanks for the well-wishes. Better keep that "special" pic to yourself, lol. It's amazing what I can do with my photo editor.

Hope you enjoy Chicago...look forward to many pics from you all.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:41 pm

TDA - (smooch) Thanks.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 5:50 pm

Wet - come over here with me, SJ, and Bunz...we have crumbs to share, lol. (THAT WAS A JOKE PEOPLE)


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/27/2005 8:28 pm

MzHuny...thank you. I was so worried I offended you, and you're the last person I'd ever want to hurt.

And watch what you wish for...we're practically neighbors lol


rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
9/27/2005 9:44 pm

I'm glad it's history, but did we need the mental pic of Trav "letting his balls go?" Now I'm worried. Did they roll away? What if someone steps on them? I'm not a guy, but ouch.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


Luvwetcunt1000 48M
1258 posts
9/28/2005 12:43 am

Boy oh Boy! Sounds like a lot of shit happened. I'm still confused but I don't have to know everything. I hope everyone reading this post understands that if this so called war were to continue, there would be no place for people like me (the "muck" at the bottom of the pond that the "bottom feeders" shit on!). My membership has restrictions. I cannot write blogs, I can only comment. If there is only war on Blogland, muck like me would have to stop reading blogs. If we stop visiting blogs, we don't have much of a life. It's all your creative writing with lots of advice, laughter, tears, and sorrow that makes it easier to get through dreary days and nights. More than often reading blogs has given me inspiration as well as entertainment. What would life be without blogs?


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/28/2005 5:03 am

T? Are you making reference to my balls again?

Metaphorically, yes, they're huge, I know. I just wish you'd quit bringing them up...you're creeping me out. (smack)


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/28/2005 5:05 am

Luv - I agree...back to the writing.


five_speed 41M

9/28/2005 6:16 am

We hates the shed, don't we, Preciousssss?

Yes, Precioussss, we does.

Mistressss... lets the Precioussss out of the shed! We'll be good! We swears it! We swears it on... on the Preciousss!!


rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
9/28/2005 6:28 am

trav - that'll teah you to let your balls go! (though it makes me wonder what you have ahold of now) pictures maybe? *perk*..oh wait...shit..I forgot...we don't like one another...nevermind


amrock2 51M

9/28/2005 7:05 am

Hey DT since I have been here I have left many post at your place and many others . I have enjoyed doing so very much. Tuesday I did not get a cance to turn on my computer to see all this stuff. I am knew here and don't know if I have a place to say so, but I think that in the written word it is easy to make coments and not relize how it will be inturpeted? All of you guys are so much fun and I can't wait to read yalls suff and they have been helpfull to me in my every day things. This being said I think that the convention is still a great idea. It will help here the word as they are being spoken not read , some emotion from the person say it .

And congrats on the vols victory Monday. I Was going to lood for you in the stands at the Bama game . It would have been easy to find ya. {the only one there in vols colors ha ha }well until you beet up on those cajons. Hug and kisses to all in blogland


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/28/2005 7:57 am

(hangs head in shame at 5)

Look what I've done. He's lost all sanity. His mind has gone amuck, amuck, amuck..


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/28/2005 7:59 am

lmao SJ...betting the ball pics he's viewing aren't of his own...


rm_lucytart 50F
590 posts
9/28/2005 8:04 am

>>I was so looking forward to the bloggers convention as well but, not with everyone acting so effing childish!!

I wonder if this isn't part of the problem. I've read other posts, where folks get worked up about meeting JUST ONE other Friend from AdultFriendFinder... and I can imagine how worried / upset / thrilled / horny / ??? I'd feel if I were going off to meet one of you...

But ALL of you? Or at least a large population of you? At the Bloggers Ball? PANIC!

What if, in an attempt to draw back, to isolate one's self, to prove that I'm not worthy of such an event, I strike out? Not consciously, but...

Might that be what's happenning here in our safe little blog-space??


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/28/2005 8:09 am

Amrock -

You didn't miss anything important. From what I've gathered, this type of post appears every blue moon, people vent, then go on. It's someone else's turn to host the "House of Hell" party next. I'll be forever getting all this shit cleaned up. The garbage men will cringe.

As for Monday's game, LMFAO...what a big win for us. Honestly, halfway thru the 1st qtr I was contemplating buying Vandy gear. If Fulmer wouldn't have pulled Ainge after that toss out of the end zone, I would've been on my way to Knoxville Tuesday to put my foot clean up his ass and help him pack. Clausen has more than earned that starting position...he proved that last season.


Synn74 42F
1206 posts
9/28/2005 8:31 am

Go VOLS!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( this comming from a SE Missouri girl)



I welcome you to the House of Syn...


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/28/2005 10:13 am

Lucy -

I'm not attending because I have now made other plans involving another blogger. At this point and time, our time together, alone, is of most importance.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/28/2005 10:15 am

Synn -

I used to follow SEMO when our local university was Division II-A and part of the OVC. Now they've moved up to Division I-A and it sucks. Damn North Texas!


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/28/2005 5:44 pm

lmao Wet...I have a place in Lewisville!


five_speed 41M

9/28/2005 9:54 pm

Did you hear, Precioussss? Misstressss said "amuck" just for ussss!!!

Yes, Preciousss, she sssssertainly did!


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/29/2005 2:01 am

lmfao babe...STOP IT!!!


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/29/2005 2:03 am

Candy - oh yeah, the air has cleared. C'mere...**hugs**


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/29/2005 6:14 am

Candy? **looks at T drooling** Run!

5's lost it T. Just lost it. But, I'll help him find it, lol.

And I'm not a dork...ya freak.


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

9/29/2005 8:31 am

*bottom feeders are a delicasy*

it's a big ocean people...
a gentle balance of cooperation and coexisting...


You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.
Mohandas Gandhi


TTFN


five_speed 41M

9/29/2005 12:58 pm

What have we lost, Preciousss?? Nothing! Nothing have we lossst! The Preciousss is here, with us! Gold foil and glitter, so like the hair of our Misstressss...

We wants her! We wishes she was here, sssssexy Missstresss.

Yesss, Preciousss, we wants her.

But she is not here, sssso we petsss the Preciousss insstead.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/29/2005 3:35 pm

You're absolutely right, RedLips. Excellent quote.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/29/2005 3:37 pm

Baby...darlin...you know, if you don't stop that shit, I'm going to make phone calls.

What? Am I supposed to take you out in public on a freakin lease???


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/29/2005 9:03 pm

5, baby...darlin...if you don't stop that shit I'm going to have to make a few phone calls.

What? Am I supposed to take you out in public on a leash?

Look...you're freakin T out...


DefiniteTrouble 50F

9/30/2005 8:28 pm

Amen 36.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/1/2005 2:39 am

Welcome Silly -

And thanks for your input. Words and feelings often get miscontrued on here because it is so hard to express actual meanings and emotions.

Look forward to you visiting again - DT


mygmyg 59M

10/1/2005 9:24 am

Definite Trouble, sure nuff, a wacky week that you've endured these past few days! As others mentioned, this unfortunately happens from time to time for what ever reason.

Couple of observations-bottomfeeders- initially was a term we, males, affectionately held because we are the skulking bottom feeders, endlessly hoping to raise the bottom level of out murky desires to include the Ladies, now somehow, we are sharing our murky depths!!

36specialk must live in "our" area, hit the nail right on the head, this old grandpa rails at the Programming on our denton cable tv, and Blogville is a wonderful escape from the "bark a lounger" for me!! WOOF WOOF


Can't get my head around the "silly" idea, it is 99.9% of the fun and escape of the blogs, entertaining and revealing, a common thread we share along with our thoughts, emotions, and various revelations of our lives. Tittilating our desires to share/engage/prod/cajole one another,often bonding some of the strangest of bedfellows. Strange is GOOD(yeah baby), hell, any camaraderie is wonderful.

The BLOGS here, always leave me smiling, in my heart!! Silly for this one, keeps the remote on mute and my mind searching for enjoyment here!!

Keep strokin' the keyboard, your intentions are wonderful, Pour another cup of Joe!!!!


DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/2/2005 2:22 pm

lol, Candy..I'll calm 5 down soon.


DefiniteTrouble 50F

10/2/2005 2:23 pm

MYG - thanks.


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