Throwing a temper tantrum.  

DefBiWifie 38F
140 posts
5/19/2006 9:49 am

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10/9/2006 11:04 pm

Throwing a temper tantrum.

I have got a few ugly e-mails because of my profile and there is something I want to get off of my chest.

I am speaking for all the women like me that get judged by our looks and life style.

We were the pretty girls everyone was afraid to talk to. We were prom queens, cheer leaders and sorority sisters but we have grown up.

Some of us took jobs that took advantage of our looks like modeling and others married to go on and have family's. Still others of us did both.

We are not stupid. We know we don't get invited to the neighborhood pool parties because no one wants us near their husbands in a swimming suit and we know the other mommy's on the play ground don't like us.

Some people think we have it easy because of it but it isn't easy being judged every day. We get turned down for jobs with statements like "I would hire you but my wife would kill me" and "why don't you just find someone to marry you."

I know how I come across in my profile, I planned it that way.

I live two very distinct lives and some times they cross. I thought that people on AdultFriendFinder would be less judgmental but I was wrong.

I am not changing the way my profile reads because I am looking for friends with benefits that understand me. If you can't see thru the glamor then you will never make it to sharing my life as a friend or anything else.

I have met Lot's of people on AdultFriendFinder who love both sides of me but they met me thru AdultFriendFinder and became a part of my life and these are the people I am writing my profile for.

The type of women my profile attracts???

I attract women like feminboots2 who met me when I organised a bachelor auction for charity. She came over to my house and let me paint her ass and tit's, take impressions and sell them for charity. She also drove down from Sacramento and took care of me when I got latex paint in my nipple piercing and almost died from the infection.

Sheplayswell has been in my life for over 2 1/2 years and has spent several family holidays playing aunt to my child. She also tells men in bars I am taken and keeps me safe whether I like it or not.

Blazedgoddess is my partner in crime. If it's trouble she will find a way to get me in it but she is the first to tell the bitches in the clubs "shut the fuck up!!!! You got a problem with her then you got a problem with me."

Serendipityskiss co hosted my daughters charity event with me and has been a family friend and "Aunt" since we met.

I love these women and I met every one of them on AdultFriendFinder. They all met the glitzy me and learned to love me in mommy mode after we became friends but they met me here first. I am sorry if my profile offends you but it is part of who I am and the part you have to get thru to know the real me.

Thanks for letting me get this off my chest.


27cheliz 41F  
9 posts
6/2/2006 9:32 am

You are so sexy. You sincerity is attracting. The fact that your family oriented makes u all the more desirable. Im very interested in becoming your special friend in both senses...sexuall and personal. I read your profile and your other notes. I understand where u stand completely your for real. I would be pleased to meet u. I hope we get to know one another in norcal chat Im there often. MY friends there can vouch for me.

rm_can4445 48M
1 post
5/27/2006 2:30 am

hi You are nice and sexi I wish im with you

SerendipitysKiss 40F
17 posts
5/20/2006 4:08 pm

AWWWWWW!!!!! Hehe AuntyYAYA!

TYVM Bic, I love you dearly, and tho I dont get to see you nearly as much as I'd like to. I think of you daily. You and your family have become a part of my life. I know that If I ever need ANYTHING, you all are there for me. I'm forever greatful to whicever devine source lent you and your family to me.

As for the judgemental part, yeah it is effin hard. You know, I dont want to take anyones sig other, or step on toes. That kind of thing doesn't validate me, nor does it make me feel good about myself. I like enhancing my life with the energy that I surround myself with. I dont need to take ur man/woman, I have enough on my plate. Not to mention the selection of others that are not taken as it is.

TY for writing this, ty for loving me, and ty for being a part of my life Defbi (Bic) hehe


LankySlackBoles 49M
1 post
5/20/2006 7:42 am

We are all looking for friends with benefits

sheplayswell 54F
5 posts
5/19/2006 12:48 pm

Yep, that's me the intimidating body guard LOL !!

It is a tough job but somebody has to do it.


frassy_sass 54F

5/19/2006 11:12 am

OUTSTANDING!...You have my full support on this rant!


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