it happened again ! grrrrrrrrr  

ThickSlumsBorer 61F
141 posts
4/29/2006 9:07 am

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it happened again ! grrrrrrrrr

This is unbelievable...I got hooked again and then DUMPED again. Of course I get it's not you it's me there anyone out there that is still honest ?? It must be me..I'm doing something wrong..I'll have to think this over before I come close to EVER meeting anyone again. Maybe that pipe dream I have of MR RIGHT coming to the door isn't such a bad way to go. Yes, I'm frustrated, upset, and disappointed. Just had to write it down.

se7enwood 54M
37 posts
4/30/2006 4:54 am

I'll be knocking on every door in Exeter

ThickSlumsBorer 61F

5/1/2006 2:16 pm

i'll be waiting !!!

rm_aardvark351 71M
15 posts
5/1/2006 4:39 pm

Not you at all lovely lady. I am so sorry to say that there are some of my gender who seem to get off by scoring "notches" and have no intention of settling down with the love of their life, in fact if love came up and hit them square between the eyes they would probably not recognise it for what it is. Stay true to yourself and hope that one day you may meet the last love of your life

Take care and may your God go with you



ThickSlumsBorer 61F

5/2/2006 11:47 am

Thank you Leo !! I won't let it get me down...wishing you all the best !!

se7enwood 54M
37 posts
5/4/2006 1:24 am

Perchance you would supply a hint, my lovely, that may narrow down my search

ThickSlumsBorer 61F

5/4/2006 6:47 am

man4fun.......I do

ThickSlumsBorer 61F

5/4/2006 6:51 am

se7enwood...what are you searching for ??? then maybe I can point you in the right direction

se7enwood 54M
37 posts
5/5/2006 1:35 am

    Quoting ThickSlumsBorer:
    se7enwood...what are you searching for ??? then maybe I can point you in the right direction
I welcome the opportunity to discus this with you. My profile on this site wouldn't make it seem that we may be in search of the same thing, I just may surprise you (no pun of your handle intended). I'd love to chat sometime; we can set a time


5/11/2006 4:39 am

hey thing I learned in life...if you tend to look @ yourself as a "looser"......then that's exactly what you become, ..people tend to be thier own worst enemy..... learn to "close" the door behind you, & look @ the door in front of you..I'm standing in it!!!lol...

ThickSlumsBorer 61F

5/12/2006 11:11 am

USMARSH...I totally agree with you. I don't put myself down...I just state a fact. I like who I am, I'm just looking for someone that can appreciate that.

slowandez01 50M

5/13/2006 6:26 am

marlene,your search seems to be going nowhere,just give it time and you'll find the guy that will wow you in every way.p.s. love your new pics and would love to get you out on my 4wheeler for some even sexier pics

fantasticfun65 51M

6/4/2006 3:39 am

We all have expectations. And as I've found out they all don't seem to go the way we expected. I know it's hard to find someone, especially one that sparks that inner fire, but don't lose hope. Look at who you are, you are mature, with a sense for life's adventures, you seem to be honest and caring, you understand what you want and you've got a smile and a body that will melt most males. Look for the positives that you learned by meeting a player. Ask yourself what did I learn about myself? And don't lose hope. There are still a lot of us nice guys out here. Peter

ThickSlumsBorer 61F

6/11/2006 4:39 pm

6/12--Peter...I haven't given up hope..thank you for sharing your ideas..I have applied my learnings to finding that "special" person.


Samantha_tv_ 52T
12 posts
7/29/2006 9:05 am

I just came thru the same thing. It just gets bewildering at times. Then you get gunshy of trying again. But it gets better!

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