Just Curious  

Dave69TO 47M
8 posts
4/23/2006 2:44 pm

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Just Curious

I am a nice romantic Canadian guy but all the woman seem to overlook me. You don't even know anything about me but they judge me by my profile or what I look like or my Handle. Maybe if more woman out there got to know people and not judged them you wouldn't be hearing I always frind the wrong guy or there are no good men out there. That is because we are right under your noses but not the most perfect in all ways.


angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
4/23/2006 4:00 pm

    Quoting rm_heavenly_:
    hi... can I make a teeney weeney suggestion... maybe if you changed the photo you would get more responses..although you have a very nice cock..most woman just dont want to see pics of cocks....
I'm sorry! I had to laugh at Heavenly's comment using "teeney weeney" when talking about your cock! But I do have to agree...great picture...but it's not what most of the women want to see first! And just keep blogging here...let people know who you are. Comment on their blogs....and comment on their comments here. You might be surprised! PS....I wouldn't use "teeney weeney" to describe your cock. lol

meerkittykat 42F

4/23/2006 4:07 pm

No more cock shots...might be a good start. Doesn't even have to be of your face; but something original. Most of the women on the site can probably state "seen one cock, seen 'em all."

good luck

534 posts
4/23/2006 4:09 pm

Hey yes...I will tell you the truth....I agree with both women...In one of my blogs I wrote about the "One Eyed Green Monster"....hope you read it...Good luck in your search...Keep blogging...~D~

LadyFantasy68 48F
126 posts
4/23/2006 5:08 pm

Ok I have several comments to make on your post.

First of all "Nice Guy" is a very subjective thing. While you may see yourself as such it does not follow that you ARE a nice guy or viewed as such by others around you.

Secondly I agree with heavenly on the issue of the picture. If you do not want to reveal your face put a partial face photo up or a torso shot. The pic you have up is far more likely to attract gay or bi men than women (although from your profile, this is not something you would necessarily mind).

Thirdly, after having looked at your profile, I would make the following suggestions. Write your own profile and do NOT use the profile writer helper. Your profile reads pretty much exactly the same as hundreds if not thousands of others on here and frankly I get pretty sick of reading the same profile over and over because people are too lazy to write for themselves. If you want your profile to stand out, write it yourself and make it about YOU not a generic one size fits all profile.

Fourthly, fill in your relationship status on your profile. "prefer not to say" in that box usually means that you are married or otherwise attached and even if not so reads to others as if you are and not being honest about it. If you are married say so. Same goes if you are seeing someone. While it will exclude you from meeting many on this site, others will be looking for.

Lastly, do not sit there and complain. Send winks and emails. Hot-list those you like. Complaining that you are not getting anywhere is not very attractive to a potential partner. Perseverance pays on this site and though you may not always get a response, or get the response you desire, you will eventually get there.

Good luck.

Lovin_U_4_Fun 54F

4/23/2006 5:39 pm

This is my honest opinion about the whole Bad Boy vs. Nice Guy thing.

I think what women really like is simply this: confident men. I don't care for the bad boys. I'm looking for nice guys! But... the bad boys seem to be the ones brave enough to ask for my time and attention.

As it turns out, the nice guys are usually bad enough! lol

I gave this advice to someone else the other day, If you find someone beautiful or interesting... tell them! It doesn't hurt you one little bit and just might make their day!

So... go for it! When you are interested in getting to know a woman, tell her! I guarantee that someone else will and then... you'll miss out.

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