That Really Grinds My Gears: 001  

Darkknight738 53M
11 posts
10/4/2005 11:32 pm

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5/31/2007 1:23 am

That Really Grinds My Gears: 001

You know what really gets me sometimes.....????
Is when a woman will tell you that they have a line that they will not cross (i.e. spending time with a married man) but has these FWB's (you know Friends With Benefits)that they hookup with to "do whatever; you fill it in" with. Even though that FWB may have a girlfriend (or boyfriend (hey, it is the 21st century). I am not crying over this because I am a married guy, it just amazes the hell out of me that one thing can change the whole moral standing even though the FWB has a mate or is pursuing one....
Come on readers lets shed some light on this....


imnoangel80 37F

10/6/2005 11:59 pm

I'm not sure I understand what your after. Email sexual attention?? Friends with benefits/mistress whats the difference??


rm_ChubbyCurvy 50F

3/4/2007 5:51 pm

I'm not passing any moral judgements on people when I avoid married men but the reason I do avoid them is because of their lack of availability. I'm on here to find someone I can depend on to spend regular time with me, either a regular weekly hookup night and a "hey, I need some company, had a stressful day, I need you" thing, and I'd prefer they sleep over if I feel comfortable with them and enjoy their company. I want a man in my bed, to be available, and preferable (I know, this is AdultFriendFinder, so if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck...) to be the main person they come to and I go to for safety and comfort reasons (no strings is no strings but I'm not into the one night stand thing and being comfortable and trusting someone is important for me to feel like I can let go and not feel taken advantage of).

So, it is not my place to judge someone else except for how I feel they will make me feel.


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