DamagedDichotomy 47F
22 posts
5/12/2005 6:18 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I went and met a man last night for what turned out to be a quick blow job. He had a nice long penis, not too thin, not too thick, but extraordinary excellence when it comes to length. A great, big dick.

Now, if you've read my profile, you've certainly seen that I don't hide the fact that I'm a big girl. In talking with this guy, I had a nagging feeling that he wasn't going to be able to get around my size, as "big is ok, but I have limits".

Why, when I have these feelings, do I not just LISTEN????

Off I went, I knew right away it wasn't going to happen, no chemistry...and yet, being the ever so nice chick I am, I agreed to a blow job. He said it was great, came fairly quickly, we were both satisfied, and I got up to leave.

The man shook my hand.

No. I'm not kidding. make matters worse...not one word of thanks. Not a note, not a nod, not a wink...nothing. Fantastic. There's nothing better than being a great....big....DICK.

Now, I'm not asking for much, but c'mon! Am I out of line here? Should I not expect that common rules of decency apply here as they do in the "real world"? When someone does something "nice", don't they DESERVE some sort of thanks? Perhaps that was what the handshake was about? Someone help me out here.

rm_sanitosan69 40M
7 posts
5/12/2005 7:05 pm

The guy was probably confused. A lot of times women send mixed up signals to men. They say they want something and really want something else. He was going for something else. From what you say, he probably was not into you...but he wanted his B.J. When he got it, he was straight. He shook your hand to let you know that the service was appreciated. I don't think he was that into you. You say you were satisfied. You got what you wanted? Very confusing, huh. I am glad to help you whatever your size. If you need anything else answered...the doctor is in.

rm_BigDnLady 43M/40F
1140 posts
5/12/2005 7:19 pm

I am not criticizing you here, ok? But if you didn't feel the chemistry, why put yourself out there to give him a blow job? I mean I do not know how he asked you or if you volunteered, but if he asked it was b.s. that he asked, then just crazy of you to do it!! I am a big girl too, and consider myself to be a nice lady, but if the chemistry wasn't there, then why would I give him the pleasure of my skills??? You are better than that!! Yes, the least he could have done was give you a nod or a wink, an email, something, but when you had that gut instinct you pretty much knew he wasn't going to do that! The handshake I hate to say this, but I really hope that you think before you even consider giving head to a dickhead, was equivalent to picking up a 100 bill off the dresser!! Please do not lower yourself for anyone, just to be nice!! Go with your gut, and also, tell us his name, so we can be on the look out for him!!!

I wish you better luck, and better judgement with the rest of the men, I know you will meet!!!


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
5/12/2005 10:40 pm

Yeah... I am with Lady. Sorry. Why oblige him with something that he won't even appreciate as a human being but only to satisfy his own inner man urges. That isn't right. If a man is going to be so contrite as to worry about image and size, he isn't worth hanging around with. I want someone to appreciate who I am first; then if the chemistry clicks, then shower him with all the lovin' you want!!

See, even santiosan mentions that the "service" was appreciated through the act of the handshake. How impersonal can that be??? And, lady is right -- you might have just picked up that $100 bill off of the dresser if all it was a "service"!!

You deserve to be as picky about the men as they seem to be about you. There are men out there who truly appeciate the curves of a woman...keep on looking!!

DamagedDichotomy 47F

5/14/2005 7:05 am

Me?? A $100 dollar whore? NO WAY!!!

Ladies and gentleman, I do appreciate your comments. You have given me some thoughts to chew on. Thank you!!

HotSexySweet_Guy 47M

5/14/2005 8:28 pm

That's just so shitty. I'm trying to put myself there and I would never "take" if I wasn't willing to give back... you say you 'agreed' to a blowjob... whose suggestion was it? If it was his he is a despicable asshole of the highest order. But, if it was yours... perhaps he thought you would rather that than nothing at all. At any rate I feel like I should say that whatever your size he didn't deserve you; just from what little you've written so far in your blog you are a warm, smart and sexy woman that any man would be lucky to get. And any man who'd let something like "size" get in the way of the good time that could have been had is an idiot.

rm_goodtime2344 61M
1 post
6/11/2005 6:58 pm

he was a shithead.if you did that for me i would do more than shake your hand.
i would shake your world.
i would love to meet a lady like you sometime soon.

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