Female sexuality, a question...  

DallasPhallus56 60M
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9/17/2005 7:41 am

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Female sexuality, a question...

A few days ago I went to pick up one of my playmates to go out. I came inside as she got a few things, and we had a nice long kiss. The kiss led to a little touching, and that to hot sex on her sofa. As we finished, she said she was so grateful that I was willing to pleasure her, and myself. We then cleaned up and went out. Fortunately it wasn't something that had a specific time to it or we would have been late.

As we drove, she said she was a little embarrassed at having needed to have sex. That led to a more general discussion of her sexuality, since her upbringing tells her that women don't want sex, or shouldn't want it, as much as men. Sex is something men want and women give almost as a favor. I told her that have found quite the opposite to be true. Women won't usually hop into bed on a moment's notice like some men will, but once a woman is in a sexual relationship, she wants it at least as much as he does. To me, her (my friend's) sexuality, her drive, is well within the normal range, maybe a little on the high side of normal, but certainly not "too much."

So, what's your experience? I know some of you are on here because your partner isn't very interested. But overall, under the right conditions, who has the greater sex drive, men or women? Women, are you sometimes embarrassed by the fact that you need sex, and need a lot of it? Certainly it's clear that women have the greater capacity for having sex. I'm usually good for only two or three, or *maybe* four times in an evening, while most women could get out of bed and go to another bed and continue.

DirtyLilSecret61 55F

9/17/2005 4:51 pm

I find myself very embarrassed at my sexual drive. It's never enough. When I'm sick say with a fever or something, I want sex more than ever but on the submissive side. I love waking up in the night to kiss him, suck him, leading to slow sweet sex ... I love morning sex, bedtime sex ... it literally drives me. Then again, too, I'm a firm believer that sex involves not just intercourse, but kissing and touching.

My sexual appetite is voracious to say the least.


DallasPhallus56 60M

9/20/2005 9:15 pm

Lil, thanks for your response. I'm sorry to hear your sexuality embarrasses you. And I'm with you. Sex isn't just getting it in and getting it off. I often cook for/with my playmates, and that in itself is foreplay. Touching and kissing as we work, talking... all that gets us in the mood. That, and other things... you've read the blogs.

There are days I wish my own sexuality weren't so intense, but at the same time, I enjoy it so much.

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