Anal sex...  

DallasPhallus56 60M
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11/16/2005 4:34 pm

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Anal sex...


There have been several posts on this topic lately, pro and con. Jusdewit wrote a tirade against it, while Wicked1TX wrote how much she likes it. Readers of my adventures will know that I've done it, and more than once. However...

First and foremost, a man should never do anything a woman doesn't want. Oh, you can talk to her about it, you can ask, you can cajole, you can show her a video of a woman enjoying it, but you cannot simply do it to her unless she consents. Nor can you threaten, get sullen and pout, or otherwise behave badly. It's that simple.

Second is the matter of safety. I generally use protection for all sex, but for anal it's particularly important. You certainly don't want any of the intestinal bugs making their way into her vagina. It's so easy to slip the condom off and enter her pussy, and a real annoyance to get up and wash thoroughly.

Third, use lots of lube. Usually her juices and his pre-cum aren't enough. This is not a part of the body that lubricates naturally, or if it does, well... we won't go there.

Fourth, be gentle. Even if she's used to it, if she has done it many times before, that orifice isn't as open as her pussy and it's usually much tighter. Hence the pleasure for us men, but also the risk for her. You don't want to tear any muscles, damage any delicate tissue, or cause her any discomfort. You'll generally have to get her used to it with your fingers, perhaps a small vibrator, then the tip of your cock, then more, taking several minutes to enter her completely, pulling partway out, pushing back in, applying more lube if necessary. If at any point she decides she can't take it, that part of your lovemaking session is over. The times this has happened to me, the woman in question has been more than willing to have me remove the condom, put on another, and enjoy her in a more conventional way.

Fifth, play with her. Especially if you're taking her from behind, you can reach around and strok her clit, her nipples, or finger her pussy. Kiss the back of her neck. If you're doing conventional missionary position, your hands aren't as free but you can still kiss her.

Some women love to feel a man cum in their asses, some prefer not. Again, it's her body; you're a guest, so to speak.

I hope this helps, and I'm surprised I have to explain this stuff.

Wicked1TX 47F

11/16/2005 9:23 pm

"You'll generally have to get her used to it with your fingers, perhaps a small vibrator, then the tip of your cock, then more, taking several minutes to enter her completely, pulling partway out, pushing back in, applying more lube if necessary."

*swoon*


DallasPhallus56 60M

11/26/2005 5:45 am

MizzKitka, what benefits you ladies benefits us men. I've talked with women who have been hurt by clumsy attempts at anal, and they'll never do it again. I hope more men read this than women, since unless the woman in question is into pain (a relatively small minority) there is nothing to be gained for either party by being rough.

Nice to see you again, BTW. Do you enjoy a little backdoor action occasionally?


JoLeeS 40F

11/28/2005 8:09 pm

Loved that post Dallas.... I agree with you 100 percent... When it comes to anal... It is best to take it slow.... I enjoy anal very much. I guess I could say I love it. I am not pro at it for sure... I ahve only had it a few times... But those few times have been some of the most powerful orgasms I ever had..... And yes I love the way it feels when a man cums in my ass....


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