Unfulfilled Sexual Fantasies...  

DakR1972 44M   
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1/20/2006 11:13 am

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Unfulfilled Sexual Fantasies...

Sexual fantasties. Everybody's got some. Pretty much from the time we realized the differences between boys and girls, we have all formed sexual fantasies of some kind. In our teen years, we begin that conquest to realize some of these. Of course, one of the first ones is to have our first experience. It is almost NEVER, EVER like how we fantasize it to be. (if even 0.001% of all First Time fantasies even come close to the real encounter, I'd be shocked.) But from there, our fantasies take on new forms as our mind becomes filled with everything across that horizon.

But, as in life goals, some sexual fantasies remain unrealized. Sometimes we don't settle down because we haven't experienced everything we, in our horny hearts, have desired to experience. I think this is true for quite a few women, and pretty much the majority of men, though I'm merely basing this on assumed ideas rather than actual numbers.

However, the fact remains, we all have fantasies that remain unrealized. Some people on this site, I think, are hoping to experience some of those. I was one of them. You see, like many, I have many sexual fantasies that have remained elusive to me.

Of course the top one is participating in a man-woman-woman threesome. (What red-blooded male DOESN'T have this on their list?) I have always wanted to know what it was like to have a woman riding my cock while I performed oral on another woman. (Yes, it would be cool if they kissed, too.)

Another on the list is anal sex. (giving, not receiving) I'm not sure why, as it somehow seems wrong to be putting a dick someplace on a woman in which it wasn't originally designed, but I hear it makes for some pretty fast and intense orgasms, so I'd like to try it once with a willing woman.

I've never cum in a woman's mouth. I have never made a woman orgasm simply from giving her oral sex. I've never, truly done sexual roleplay. Watched a couple (man & woman, or woman & woman) having sex while in the same room. The list goes on.

Now to make things clear, yes, I am involved in a rather long-distance relationship, so I don't know how many of these things I'll ever be able to experience in my life should things continue to be serious and advance beyond. My girlfriend has expressed a desire to have me cum in her mouth, so that could be one item dealt with (as early as the next time we meet). The rest, I'm not sure about. But we will see. However, and I'm being completely honest here, if I never experience all of these unrealized sexual fantasies in exchange for a wonderful life with her, I don't mind at all. To me, realizing sexual fantasies isn't nearly as important as Love. And sometimes, anticipating and fantasizing is more enjoyable than the getting.

What kind of fantasies do you have left on your list, and are you actively pursuing these? Would you give all these things up for the right love, were it to come into your life?


Seereeoslee 36F

1/22/2006 10:46 am

Hmmmm - I'm think that I'm going to shoot for Love WITH all of the kinky sex I like. But, who knows, maybe I will settle down into a vanilla sex relationship when I fall in love. Who knows what the future will bring? Hell, if you would have told me three months ago that I would be a local pornstar having sex with at least 3 different guys a week, I probably would have fainted.

So here's to love and sex! Because one just isn't quite whole without the other.


DakR1972 44M  

1/23/2006 11:18 am

I think there was a time in my life where I felt like you do. I wanted all the sex I could have. Bring on the women! I'm erect and ready...but then I woke up from that fantasy. For a guy it's always just a fantasy. I think an unrealistic one at that. There will probably be those guys out there who for love or money (or both) can get laid every day with anyone they set their sights on. But someone like me, a little dumpy, not all that cool looking, tied down to a home life with a child...it's not that easy. Going out was totally dependant on when my daughter would be away for a weekend, and that is getting rarer all the time. She's getting older now, and doesn't need the babysitting like she used to. Thank God I found my girlfriend. There's no sex while she's away, but that is a good thing, actually. We continue to build our relationship on everything else. We already know the sex is awesome. The rest will be just made stronger in the long run.


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