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The wims of desire...
The wims of desire...
Well, I have a personal blog site that my friends, co-workers and family can read, but there are some things that I'd like to say that I would rather my Grandmother not read... lol.
How to start... well, let me tell you a little bit about myself. I LOVE making people laugh and feel better. I am a very caring person and will do whatever I can to make my friends feel as good as they can - sometimes at the expense of myself. I used to work as a Jim Carrey look-a-like (and if you want pics to prove it, just ask... lol) and everyone I know calls me "Jim", "Ace" and the like. I LOVE sex (like what guy doesn't?! lol), I love my wife and my life (for the most part). We have had a year filled with ups and downs and we're ending it on an extreme HIGH! We're expecting our first child this coming March 17th (yes... St. Patricks day - GUINNESS HERE I COME!!) and we've also decided to include other people in our sexual fantasies. I have always viewed a monogomous relationship as primative and based on a continually failing dogmatic view of what a marriage "should" be. A marriage is anythng the two people in said marriage say it is. No one person can tell another one how their marriage should be (provided that it is beneficial for both people). What works for some will not work for others and each couple should find what works out for them.
My wife is a very beautiful woman whom I love TREMENDOUSLY and I have no intention of changing my maritial status. I am not opposed to one night stands, threesomes, orgy's, swapping, couples sex or even long-lasting "fuck friends" (in fact, I prefer those). My wife is a little more reserved as she's just entering this aspect of her life as I've been open to this my whole life; also being preggers could add some "horomonal" feelings into the mix... lol, but each day she opens up her mind a little more to the experience and she's learning to really enjoy letting her go to the whims of desire and to be honest - that just makes me love her more.
I'm honestly wondering how many people will actually read this and if so, please contact me/us. Even if nothing sexual happens, we're always up for meeting new people and having a few laughs. The way I see it is if you want to try something - just do it; don't worry about the consequences too much, trust your intuition. If you think you'll like it, chances are you will, and if not - at least you tried it and you're more knowledgeable about yourself and a little wiser for having tried and no one can have any regret about that.
"Regret for things done can be tempered by time, regret for things NOT done are inconsolable."