Da_Lone_Elf 50M
29 posts
6/13/2006 12:03 pm

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10/23/2006 2:16 pm


Joined AdultFriendFinder in January, in hopes fulfilling a fantasy. We spent many hours searching profiles & sending emails, to get no response at all. We changed our search limits to include a lot more, but still nothing. Joined a group just as we were about to throw in the towel. The group looked interesting, with some possibilities, but still had no luck with the original reason why we came here. Went to a meet & greet for the group, met a few people. Thought we made a few friends, thought some connections were made. Then things really changed, we were convinced to play separately, not just as a couple. This seemed like a good idea at first, had a little bit of fun, but then I guess once I was no longer a AdultFriendFinder or group virgin the novelty was gone, the interest was lost. Connections no longer available as commitments were made. So here I sit, 6 months later fantasy still unfulfilled. No real options for me, the wife is popular, has several seeking her company. As a couple we are still without anything positive to show. As an individual male account I have had a very few positive responses to my many hours of searching & sending messages, but then after that 1st response raising my hopes there is nothing more.

After 6 months on this site I have a few memories of some fun times, I have a small number of individuals I would truly see as friends. I am truly wondering if I am wasting my time here on this site. So for now I think I will step back and just watch for awhile. This may or may not be my last entry to this blog, only time will tell for sure. I think I will even step back from the group for now, & just lurk in the shadows see if I’m truly missed. I will not make an announcement in the group, too many have done that now. I’m not leaving as of yet, just not seeing as it is doing me any good to continue my previous level of activity.

Comment if you like it is up to you who read this, I’m not asking any questions for you to answer. I’m simply stating that I feel this is not working for me. To all those that read this I hope you have better luck here then I have had.

fancy_for_you 39F
3014 posts
6/13/2006 5:22 pm


I have voiced my opinion and voiced my opinion about your leaving. Unfortuneatly I think you need more than my opinion here. So I won't say another word and will sit back and let YOU make YOUR own decision. Goodluck on your choice.



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