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Had a little argument with the Ex today.
It's so hard trying to maintain a friendship with them. Why do we keep friendship with them? I mean we call it "friendship" but we all mean "fuck buddy" right? Who's best fit for a fuck buddy if not your most recent ex? ya know why?
because Ex's usually involve...
- intense emotion
- reminiscing during sex (past hot spots/nites)
- make up/angry sex (okay, it might be a little weird, but sometimes it feels nice to cry when I cum...emotional/physical release?? yesno?)
- he knows your body very well, yet you can demand more b/c now you both know it's only about sex
- you can seduce and fuck and then just leave and go home without feeling bad (b/c you're not suppose to be fucking in the first place -b/c you're broken up!!)
- it's okay to fuck others. b/c you're officially not together.
- drunk dial (happily picks up the phone) --> booty call (gladly accepts the offer)
- the comfort of a steady boyfriend with the freedom of a good fuck.
and that's why everything is so confusing... *sigh* I helped him run erronds all day today. and at the end of the day I felt so used. Like I'm always running around helping him take care of his shit. He asked me how he could make it up to me, I said a nice dinner and fuck me all nite. Ugh... Sometimes I'm just TOO GOOD TO him! I cook, clean, give him rides, accompany him in running errands AND I demand sex. am I the best gf or what... well the best ex gf. hmm. what's so EX about us?
well one things for sure. we're ex's b/c we KNOW that there's no future. and that I can look around. Single and ready to Tingle! ;P
8/21/2005 6:40 am
Like running shoes, even sex with the ex will begin to wear down after too many miles. |
And then you get the new shoes and you wonder why you didnt switch earlier ... they feel so much better.
8/21/2005 2:24 pm
Great post Cutie|
I've never seen the Ex thing articulated so well
And yeah you are too nice but as long as it's your decision, there is nothing wrong with being nice
S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo.
8/21/2005 6:44 pm
Sounds to me like there are still feelings involved.Be careful you could damage him.You are having your cake and eating it.Is that really fair, or even a wise move in the long run?|
10/8/2005 8:31 pm
Wowie - you sure you are over your ex?|