handeling your suprise  

CuteAZguy27 39M
2154 posts
10/23/2005 2:37 pm

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handeling your suprise

If you came home and there was a birthday card at your doorstep, would you accept it ? If you walked around the corner and a group of people shouted suprise ! would you be angry with the host ? If a lover blindfolded you in the car and wouldn't tell you that he was taking you somewhere special, would you be angry at them for holding back ?

How do you take suprises ? Do you take them with an ear to ear smile or does suprises bother you ?

-CuteAZguy27


MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
10/23/2005 11:21 pm

f you came home and there was a birthday card at your doorstep, would you accept it?

Unless I had pissed off enough people that I suspected it contained anthrax or a letter bomb, I would accept it.

If you walked around the corner and a group of people shouted suprise! would you be angry with the host?

Nah. If I was having an awful day, I'd actually appreciate it. Unless I looked dreadful.

If a lover blindfolded you in the car and wouldn't tell you that he was taking you somewhere special, would you be angry at them for holding back ?

I wouldn't be happy with the blindfold, as it would mess with my equalibrium. Really not applicable, as I would refuse the blindfold.

How do you take suprises?

It depends. Good surprise or bad surprise?

Do you take them with an ear to ear smile or does suprises bother you?

Good surprises make me smile. Bad surprises don't. Such as, a surprise party when I think everyone forgot my birthday would make me smile. Having someone knock on my door, handing me papers and telling me I've been served would bother me.

Now, what tells me there's a story to go with this?


rm_JUSTsex4me 36F
185 posts
10/24/2005 4:33 am

I would like to think that I handle all surprises well. And while I'm not comfortable with all of them for the simple fact that I have being put on the spot in large groups, I don't mind them every now and then just for that adrenaline rush.


sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
10/24/2005 7:55 am

i will def accept a surprise birthday card and i will be stoked if there is a surprise party being planned for me. i doubt anybody would ever get to blindfold me plus i don't think i will let them. lol. anyway, surprises are good if they are good ones and no pranks for me. on the other hand if somebody told me he/she is gonna gimme a present, i will always wanna know what they wanna get me cuz i don't tolerate that kinda surprises. however if they didn't tell me they are gonna gimme a present then surprises are welcomed. make sense?


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
10/24/2005 9:15 am

i am picky on surprises. good vs. bad is obvious.... but also things like "*snap!* in your face with a camera" i hate. but pics taken in secret without me knowing, or knowing right after, in any situation but the 'in your face' i would like. well: unless i was being stalked or spyed on of course: that falls under 'bad'.

i think i'd be happy with most. including my lover blindfolding me and taking me somewhere. because i would trust him, and just know he's taking me for a good s urprise.


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
10/24/2005 9:16 am

btw: cute pic


rm_Elysia2005 43F
412 posts
10/24/2005 9:35 am

Getting around all the fluff to what I think may be the heart of the question... a surprise, well-meant and carefully thought out, by someone I care about and who I believe cares about me, could not possibly be a BAD surprise.

Therefore, a surprise of any kind from CuteAZGuy27, would be a grand surprise indeed. Even if it involved me coming home to find him on the doorstep of my horrifically, embarassingly messy house. Of course, one would hope he would call in advance, but even if he didn't...



(Hey, I can engage in a little wishful thinking, can't I?)


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
10/25/2005 3:02 am

MissAnnThrope- great set up on anwering those questions, yet to dissapoint you just a bit, would you want me to share this story behind the questionare ? well, thats for another blog my dear-and to sayshe ripped my throat out cause i sent her a Birthday card with a puppy in the mailbox-very cute I thought, but her birthday is around the corner again this year and it brought back the wonderful memories of my throat getting torn-ok spoken to much already. LOL

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
10/25/2005 3:05 am

JUSTsex4me- I see, so adrenelin rush's are great, but please dont make it a habit out of me-got-it.

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
10/25/2005 4:32 am

sassybelle21-So you like suprises, but dont like the blind fold thing, yet like suprises need to be good, but not pranks.And If they told you they had a suprise for, but held off and didnt give it to you right away , those you don't like, but those instant suprises thats given right then and their, you like-excellent, think i got it

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
10/25/2005 4:44 am

demonicsexkitten So no suprise snaps or stalkers, yet poseing is obviously good-.......and thus far you hit it right on the marker demonicsexkitten about the blindfold, i was looking for one who said about trust-and you nailed it right on the penny, beautiful job.

The AZkitty pic was taken out of him, obviously not knowing or caring for that matter, he has this thing where he sits on the sub-woofer of my speakers to my pc and he knocks the blinds around and when they wiggle, he gets behind it to look out the window as shown, so i took the cam and slid it under the blinds to see what he was doing, it was so cute, i just had to hit *Click* (whispers : suprize CuteAZkitty)

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
10/25/2005 4:53 am

Elysia2005 That was quite hopeful and cute comment

If i ever made it to texas young lady, i would make a phone call pretending to be the waterline guy that way you can throw everything under the couch and when you come home expecting to be early to unlock the door, there will i be-on your doorstep. Suprise !

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
10/25/2005 4:56 am

silhouette2005 How sweet, thanx Silhouette, thats most appreciated !

Somewhere special, like a restraunt ? or a field of flowers for a picnic, a sunset with a glass of wine ?

-CuteAZguy27


silverbreeze2 65F

10/25/2005 8:07 am

Some surprises are good and fun. However, I once had an email pen pal who had arranged through my husband to surprise me with a weekend visit! This was kept from me! All of a sudden this lady and her husband were in my driveway one Saturday morning. I was not dressed, had not even cleaned my kitty's litter box!! This was NOT how I would have wanted to greet people that I "had never" met before in person! It was embarrassing and NOT a good surprise! I told my husband I would kill him if he ever kept something like that from me again! I would say that most people would not appreciate this kind of surprise.


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
10/26/2005 5:35 pm

silverbreeze2 Well, your hubby was trying to help, yet just bad timeing wich would have been a very bad suprise especially in a robe with people you never met !

Besides the first embarassement, was there weekend with you and your husband worth it ?

-CuteAZguy27


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
10/26/2005 6:00 pm

I'm used to that. When I was a kid my folks routinely blindfolded us, loaded us in the car, drove for awhile, had us get out, yelled...SURPRISE...and then drove away.

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LIBlonde97 40F
1028 posts
11/8/2005 1:07 pm

If you came home and there was a birthday card at your doorstep, would you accept it ?

Sure! If it was addressed to me, and it was my birthday! Hell, even if it wasn't meant for me, I'd probably accept it and save it for my real birthday and then pretend it was addressed to me just for fun. (No wait, actually that would mean that somebody else didn't get her birthday card and that would be sad, so I'd probably forward it on)

If you walked around the corner and a group of people shouted suprise ! would you be angry with the host ?

Hell no! I would blush, laugh and then kiss the host and hug all my friends who were in on it. Then make a "thank you" toast!!

If a lover blindfolded you in the car and wouldn't tell you that he was taking you somewhere special, would you be angry at them for holding back ?

OMG never! I would just be happy to be blindfolded. If he actually planned something else on top of that - well that's just a bonus!

I LOVE surprises... the fact that anyone takes the time to do anything for me is always appreciated (probably because it doesnt happen very often lately). And I love to surprise people also... I love the little scheming plans I make to brighten someone's day, impress a lover or a friend... and 90% of the fun is seeing their reaction. If it's a bad reaction... that takes all the fun out of it!

Cute- you can surprise me anyday...

Kisses...

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