The hotlist ?  

CuteAZguy27 39M
2154 posts
9/26/2005 7:54 am

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The hotlist ?

Here is something a bit serious here on this blog, I want to ask about the Hotlist.

Now there has been a time or two every month that i have recieved ladies (non-bloggers, I checked) who send who put me on their Hotlist, thats wonderful right ? Yet....They live several states away (and are standard members)! So my question is, what do i do ? Do i respond ? Do i give a wink back ? Now ladies, I do understand that you get allot of these, mainly with guys with dick pics and nothing else, and for that you dont respond-very understandable, but what about the non-dick picks ?

If or when you recieve someone who put you on their hotlist, what do you do ?

-CuteAZguy27


goddessofbitches 41M/33F

9/26/2005 8:33 am

If someone puts me in their hotlist...I look at their profile to see if they would be someone I am intersted. If I am, then I will wink. If they are standard...I try to contact them...if they aren't and they don't respond to my wink....I just know they are wanting to look at my pictures for their own pleasures.

HUGS~~~MANDY

Always The Bitch


LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
9/26/2005 8:42 am

Well, I'll read their profile, and if it's someone I may be interested in getting to know better, I'll hot list them back and/or send them a wink. If they are a standard member, I will also send an initial email to them so that they can answer me if they care to.

Lusty


madkitten 53F
291 posts
9/26/2005 9:14 am

I dont tend to do anything, if someone puts me on their hotlist, I feel almost as if they might be saving me to message later if the ones they message fall through, I feel almost like an after thought, winks I tend to ignore, Im only a standard member so cant really do much about them, perhaps I shouldnt ignore them, heck if we are both standard members what do we do, just keep winking at each other. lol

I only respond to messages.


SweetDarlinAngel 39F
2996 posts
9/26/2005 9:43 am

Cute ~
A lot of times Standard members don't have the ability to send messages. All they can do is send winks or hotlist members. Read the profile, if you are interested in getting to this person, then send them an initial email, this will open up the communication lines a little and allow them to contact you as well.
~SDA

~Angel


wantsomebado1 45F
13 posts
9/26/2005 6:18 pm

I check to see who has added me to their hotlist or winked almost daily. If they look interesting, I'll read their profile and send a wink or email. Most times, I'm repulsed by what I see and don't even get as far as reading their profile!! If a girl winked - I say respond to her - even if she is GU (geographically undesirable)!! Let her know that you know she's been peeking!!


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/26/2005 7:23 pm

goddessofbitches-Thank you so much for your input, its been taken to heart and will be used.

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/26/2005 7:26 pm

LustGoddess2469-

Wow to Goddess's on the same blog and in a row ! that won't happen twice i can tell you that !

I'' definetly give this a try and see what happens, thank you very much !

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/26/2005 7:29 pm

madkitten

Thank you for explaining it from a standard member's viewpoint-that was very appreciative and taken to thought !

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/26/2005 7:31 pm

SweetDarlinAngel very well said, i was thinking of this as well, and i will go ahead and give them an email-I just needed some back support per-say and some comfirmation on what to do, thank you

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/26/2005 7:36 pm

SensuallyKatey -

quoted :
I try to at least respond with a thanks if they are standard and if they are a member who can mail me~~~
I figure when they decide they will.

This is true, i wont hold on to anything, yet another yahoo messenger friend is always wonderful to have, especially like you said :

Making friends with others in other states and even in other countries has served me well, this has been taken to heart, thank you.

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/26/2005 7:41 pm

wantsomebado thank you for stopping by

you quoted :

Most times, I'm repulsed by what I see and don't even get as far as reading their profile!

This is so true, and i understand from every aspect of what your saying, thats why i have a mug shot, havent heard any repulsive marks yet

you quoted :

say respond to her - even if she is GU (geographically undesirable)!! Let her know that you know she's been peeking.

This has been done now and thanx to you and everyone above-i really do appreciate stopping by and giving me your two cents.

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/26/2005 9:19 pm

SensuallyKatey-

Wow, the blog monster ate my post of yours !

So, to make another blog short, tou quoted :

I try to at least respond with a thanks if they are standard and if they are a member who can mail me~~~
I figure when they decide they will.

This makes total sense, and it has been done, thank you very much for your input and im sorry the blog monster ate my return post to you

-CuteAZguy27


_CoffeeNoCream_ 52F

9/27/2005 12:13 am

I don't think I made it to any hotlists lately....


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
9/27/2005 3:24 am

If I am put on a hotlist or winked at, I send a quick thank you in an email. I don't usually check to see the status of their membership.

DustStormDiva


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/27/2005 11:11 am

_CoffeeNoCream_ well your shadow pic looks very fancy, would you like me to put you on my hotlist ?-my emails are open to the standard members !

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/27/2005 11:15 am

duststormdiva-

very well said duststormdiva just be polite, give a hello and see what happens-the membership shouldn't matter to us, non standards, cause i believe its us who reach out to them per-say.

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
9/27/2005 11:19 am

hbgirl2-

excellent ! So for you its not about the hotlist, yet about those who contact you directly thrue A-F-F email ! Thank you for your input and suggestion, this has been taken to heart

-CuteAZguy27


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
9/28/2005 11:58 pm

i never usually pay much attention to winks. Those who add me to their hotlist: i look at their name, and if it's intriguing or a good pic, or something that catches my attention, i'll go look at their profile. (or if i'm bored). Maybe i should start paying more attention.


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