-TDA-'s advice would be....  

CuteAZguy27 39M
2154 posts
11/6/2005 7:22 am

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-TDA-'s advice would be....

Rock on ladies and gents, as of this Tuesday i have a date ! Yes she is from this site(and amazingly the same town), yet she is not a blogger (if i could have the ability and choose one of you blogger ladies...mmmmmmm )

As it is a Sunday and TDA is not at work, i'll need your advice from his point of view of :

Things not to say or do :

TDA would say when your on your date, dont chew garlic flavored gum,

When your on your date, don't open the car door for her...while the car is in motion-

If TDA was working on this Sunday, what advice would he give to NOT do on your date.

* i have my pen and paper out and ready for your don'ts*

slidein2meplz 61F
1994 posts
11/6/2005 11:54 am

Oh goody....
Couple of questions...(1)
Is this a Date DATE...where your going to go to dinner, movie...?? or is this a Meet and Greet date to see if there is chemistry for just fooling around...primarily for a freind with benefit?

So, if this is a Date..DATE. My advice would be to first and foremost be a complete and total gentleman (which I have no doubt at all you need this little tid bit, judging from your post's)...However...it doesn't hurt to be reminded. Ok..now...2ndly... read the body language...read the suttle messages she may be sending you...if she touch's you a lot... for instance your arm while she talks..or brushes against your hand... HUGE HINT HERE.. take her hand, put your arm around her. She wants you to.

(2) Was there any discussion at all about whether this will lead to the bedroom?
If yes...then if the chemistry is there and she is indicating this will happen. Okay, dokie fine.
If no...then I would watch for the signals...but don't be too pushy, don't be to eager...and...maybe even when the date is over and you've taken her home..(if you are picking her up)...or you've taken her wherever...Make sure she knows without a doubt that there will be a 2nd date...(if there is to be one)...and very gently give her the best first kiss you can muster up. Unless you've already snuck that one in before hand... still... give it your best shot...and leave her wanting more. ** Remember... we're humans...we want what we can't have **

Okay... so now, if this is just a Meet and Greet...
Well, not really too much to say about those...is there...lol. It is what it is...just make sure your both comfortable with the rules.

Lastly...Good luck...and HAVE FUN!!

**then come and tell us all about it...inquiring minds will want to know...how it went that is...**

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
11/6/2005 12:30 pm

fabulous! have lotsa fun!

[blog freelove999]

hmgirl 47M/46F

11/6/2005 1:20 pm

after dinner, DON'T floss your teeth with a strand of her hair.

rm_Elysia2005 43F
412 posts
11/6/2005 8:19 pm

DON'T tell her that you're actually madly in love with another woman and counting the days until you run away to Texas

Nah... the only real DON'Ts are, don't try to be someone or something you're not, and don't ignore your instincts. They will be right on the money.

Good luck, babylove, and I hope you have a wonderful time...


LIBlonde97 40F
1028 posts
11/7/2005 5:48 am

TDA would say that these are bad things to do (probably from experience):

Don't put your dinner napkin on your head. For any reason.

Dont' compliment her intellect while staring at her boobs.

"Dont whip it out until she asks... or until she's sleeping." (100 pts if you can name the movie.)

Good luck with your date, cutie...


P.S. Someone has a crush on you... see my blog.

frangipanigal 44F
10406 posts
11/7/2005 3:16 pm

Yeh!!A date is exciting..good one you!

Here is one don't that was done to me a while ago....ARRGGHHH!

When the bill for dinner comes and she wants to contribute to the bill..
don't add your $20 note to her $50 for a $70 dinner...she has no smaller notes and would have appreciated change!

Have a ball,

Frangi xx

tillerbabe 55F

11/7/2005 10:46 pm

a "date"? WTF is that?!?!??

rm_shari_liz77 37F

2/3/2006 5:33 am

Don't ask for her girlfriend's number.
Don't ask if her sister is prettier than her.
Don't ask her if there's any mental illness in her family.
Don't ask her if she wants to have kids soon.
Don't ask her if her job makes her hands so rough.
Don't ask her if her deodrant usually works.
Don't ask her if she's ever been a man.
Don't ask her to take a cab home.
Don't ask her to go "dutch" (pay for her own meal) after she's already eaten (or anytime for that matter unless agreed upon before date).
Don't ask her to drive you home.
Don't ask her for a loan.
Don't tell her you want sex before you go out on a date to see if you are compatible.
Don't ask her if she does housework, cooks or does windows?
and most of all......

Don't ask her to date your brother!!!

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