Remember what happened yesterday ?  

CuteAZguy27 39M
2154 posts
8/9/2005 2:15 pm

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Remember what happened yesterday ?

As a kid we got picked on at school, we had our bullies in gradeschool and H.school, yet there are those of us who wouldn't take that sort of beating for long, yet took revenge. What sort of thing did you do to your bullies in life that you took revenge on ? they picked on you, yet you turned around and did something better that turned their faces red. Some of you have to dig hard and think, for some of us its still at the top of our brains as "classic" tell me, what is it that is makeing you grin right now ?


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
8/9/2005 3:48 pm

Hrm, bullies never picked on me. Mostly because I was always at least a head taller than anyone else in school. There were many times when one of the smaller kids would come to me when they were being picked on and I'd just tell the bully they were going to have to come through me to get the little guy. I think I have always been the protector. I can only ever remember one deciding to try and get past me. He got sucker punched in the gut and knocked to the ground when he did. That was probably not the worst part of it for him though, when he went down about 5 littler kids jumped on him and started wailing on him. If you are a bully you should always remember payback is a bitch.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


DCEbony
1586 posts
8/9/2005 5:33 pm

The only time I was really picked on was when I was nine.

This bully targeted girls and his signature move was the punch in the stomach to knock the wind out of you. He always made sure he did it off of school grounds, too.

After having gotten punched one too many times, I went to the principal's office the next day armed with a huge concocted story about how I'd been attacked by Bully Boy at recess (conveniently out of the sight of the teachers). I even managed to make some tears well up.

He got dragged to the principal's office and I'll never forget him saying almost in tears, "But she's lying! I never did that! I wasn't near her at recess!", etc.

The principal was furious and said, "You ought to be ashamed of yourself beating up a girl!"

I just stood behind the principal smirking because that was back in the days when corporal punishment was allowed.

Anyway, Bully Boy got the strap and three weeks of after-school detention having to clean chalkboard brushes by clapping them on the brick wall outside.

Heh.

(P.S.: He never bothered me again.)


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
8/9/2005 5:50 pm

Daphne: what a great story to read.

My bully instances? I just walked quietly away, often in tears. Or i yelled and screamed "I HATE YOU!" while in tears (odd story?? THAT person later became my best friend!!! Everybody heard my screaming, and teachers made us sit down together, and talk or stay silent till we could get along. I guess it wasn't bullying though, just teasing the new kid)

The only official "bully" i remember was at Summer Day Camp. He was a counselor, I a junior counselor... He would pick on all the other junior counselors, mostly girls. i think we were all about 13, he was 16 or 17. He would actually mildly hurt them. Anyways, i got tired of seeing them run and mill around together in fear whenever he'd come by... So, one time when he started picking on somebody, i walked over, said "hello!!" smiling very sweetly.... then dug my nails as hard as i could into his neck. After a while, it got so that he'd see me enter the room, and he'd run out the door on the opposite side. Or I'd get into the low-end of the pool, he'd jump out the deep end and run to hide in the men's locker room. The others weren't necessarily safe from his bullying on their own? But if i was around they were. (He was also about a foot taller than i was... just to add to the picture)


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
8/9/2005 5:51 pm

Mmmm... and yes, one of my nicknames is "Claws".


duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
8/10/2005 6:45 am

I was never bullied. I know I was not popular, but I was nice to everyone and people saw that and they were nice to me.

DustStormDiva


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
8/10/2005 7:56 am

mzhunyhole -This exact same thing happened the other day- A lady co-worker and i were pointing out people as they walked in the store, and a guy walks in and she mentioned this guy who used to be on the football team and be very handsom to the ladies, yet 13 years later he has a pot belly, unshaved face, with crooked teeth-she asked me, what happened to this man ? I said the only thing i can guess is after highschool it was all party time and the results of carelessness caught up to him faster than he expected.

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
8/10/2005 8:00 am

DaphneR you rock girl !! .....umm you were the girl i always ran down the hall trying to find as a bully was chaseing me. Then ide hide behind you as the person gave my bully lip.

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
8/10/2005 8:09 am

DCEbony- Excellent job !! What a great bully revenge story,thank you for shareing !

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
8/10/2005 8:20 am

demonicsexkitten Bullies later turning into friends ! Now thats awesome.

digging your nails into a foot taller of a man excuse me, boyand have him leave your presence as you leave the room. Now thats a great bully story...Claws.

-CuteAZguy27


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
8/10/2005 9:53 am

duststormdiva I was the 4 eyed kid running away from the fat kid and his "crew" lol

-CuteAZguy27


StreaktheFreak 38F

8/10/2005 5:49 pm

hmm...as an adult i came to find out that people were intimidated by me in high school...i have yet to really understand why, a couple of them even said i was a bully...looking back i figured a couple of things out...one...i was an outspoken female who wasnt afraid to tell anyone off for treating someone else like sh*t...and two...a lot of people dont like outspoken females that arent afraid to tell someone off


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
8/11/2005 8:44 am

SensuallyKate: *HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGG* to you...

I think i'm an odd sort, really. i don't necessarily stand up for myself. if i get picked on, i tend to get this "look" (even if it's friendly picking)... i think it's a "sigh!! i can't believe they're DOING this... how embarressing. if i ignore it they'll go away" look. but... if somebody else is being picked on, i might very well jump in.

i've had man men tell me "you've got more balls than i do!!" because i'm not afraid to jump into things. but... i think it's more that... if nobody else will, then i step up. if others will: then why should i bother?


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
8/12/2005 8:27 am

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WyvernRose


lifeisablast333 53M

8/13/2005 5:24 pm

I smacked the pig headed bullie right in the nose with the edge of my english lit. book, it really surprised me that i did it, but no more bullie, had all i could take. it was on the school bus, his fat head went back so hard it busted the window...and i was sitting down when the bus driver looked up, he toke him to the office, i guess he did not tell of the reason the window was broken, but about a week later i ran into him, and he said now you will pay, i just shook my book at him...never had a prob after that


JoLeeS 40F

8/21/2005 10:33 am

I have a great one.... In the 7th grade there was a particular boy that harassed me to no end.... He pulled my hair, he wrote on my back during class, he tripped me, he grabbed my breasts at every chance he could get..... After school one day I was waiting for my dad(who was always 45 minutes late)..... I walked outside and started mulling around.... He grabbed me by the hair and yanked me into the bushes.... He said he liked me... I said you are nuts! you are mean to me! He said I want you to kiss me right now. I said no and slapped me in the face like 8 times. I broke away and started devising a plan against him..... I made up some story about the bruises on my face to my parents. I avoided him for a week. I got a black sharpie pen from my moms office(and told dad i was getting tutored after school....). I went down the halls and lockers and wrote BITCH on my locker and several of the other girls he picked on.... I didn't stop there though... I wrote on the music teachers door, a girls tuba, and then I went to 6 teachers cars in the parking lot and wrote BITCH on their windows..... Then I hid the pen in his locker along with a pciture of myself that I wrote bitch over the face of.... The next day I was called into the office.... Were I ercked up some fake tears and told them all of the mean things he had done to me... And that he called a bitch all the time... They showed me the picture and I started crying harder(trying not to laugh.....)... They did a search of his locker and had found the pen and the picture..... He had Oss, dhall, parents called up.... A month later He was back in class... He started his crap again and after class I grabbed his shirt and pushed him into the locker... I said never touch me again... He made some rude remark... I kicked him in the nuts and said who is the bitch now? And threw a black sharpie at his feet... I glared and walked away... THe look on his face was priceless... I saw him like a year ago... Had a few drinks and he asked me if I really had been the one who set him up.... I just smiled at him and changed the subject.


sweetthang2877 39F
534 posts
8/22/2005 9:48 pm

I actually have a few bully stories...
There was this kid who lived in my neighborhood that always said mean things to me. Funny thing is he was younger and smaller than me, so I shoulda kicked his ass long before this. We were at the bus stop and he started his bullshit. I said a few things back to him and turned away. He started running at me to tackle me I guess (I heard his footsteps on the ground behind me). I just put my foot up behind me and kicked back at just the right time...BAM right in the jewels!! I never heard another word out of that little...
In junior high I was suspended for having cigarettes at school. I sure got a rep for that one! All the kids started calling me stupid names, and I let them...
Later on in high school for some reason or another they all started thinking I had gone crazy or something because nobody messed with me. Until one day as a junior I was signing out of study hall to go to the bathroom, and one of the bullies from middle school came up to the desk. I went ahead and put his name down, too on the sign-out sheet. He said thanks but called me by one of those stupid names. I just laughed and said "GAWD you're still using THAT one??? Everyone else has come up with better names than THAT for me now!! Gawd you're soooo out of the loop!!!" Yeah never heard a word from that one either.
Oh yeah and in high school I had the BIGGEST crush on the quarterback, and he was never mean to me, he just had a GF throughout high school, so I never asked. At our 5 year reunion, he asked me out...I was married so I respectfully declined the offer. He was still as handsome as he was back then, but I respected those vows. Kinda felt good to be the one to turn someone down for the first time!!

ST


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